FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking of have bi fun but want to get misses involved

By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Speen

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I would like my misses to be there maybe join in or approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions

Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way she will approve, is be there, is if you talked to her about it. Yes, it's a difficult and scary chat to have. But only you can say how she will react.

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By *atureGuy62Man
over a year ago

DE7

If people talked to their partners as much as they do in here it would be so much easier. My now ex-wife shared my first guy and encouraged me to have more!

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Don't do it with someone you know if you want to involve the wife, when it goes tits up, it's not nice for anyone. Best thing is to fuck your mate and if your keen, have a dirty weekend with the missus and a stranger. Easier to decide if you want to stay in touch. Your missus will never trust you round your mate again.

So don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't do it with someone you know if you want to involve the wife, when it goes tits up, it's not nice for anyone. Best thing is to fuck your mate and if your keen, have a dirty weekend with the missus and a stranger. Easier to decide if you want to stay in touch. Your missus will never trust you round your mate again.

So don't do it. "

Why would she not trust him around his mate? If you haven't got trust in each other, swinging isn't going to work.

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By *quarerootMan
over a year ago

Helston

Have you had any m/m experience before? (Does you wife know about that?)

It would seem a big step to fuck a guy, let alone a friend, as your first bi experience, without having had some wank or oral play before… how do you know you would like it?

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Speen

"Have you had any m/m experience before? (Does you wife know about that?)

It would seem a big step to fuck a guy, let alone a friend, as your first bi experience, without having had some wank or oral play before… how do you know you would like it?"

Thanks have had a bit and with mate mutual wanking but never gone any further

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By *ornyBerks OP Man
over a year ago

Speen

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I did it

I want miss to be there and keen to get misses with mate as well … approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions anyone don’t it before

Many thanks

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By *unandrelaxedMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

"Hi

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I did it

I want miss to be there and keen to get misses with mate as well … approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions anyone don’t it before

Many thanks"

With Mrs approval/attendance

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"Hi

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I would like my misses to be there maybe join in or approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions

Many thanks "

Talk to her.. always talk to her, openness is your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I did it

I want miss to be there and keen to get misses with mate as well … approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions anyone don’t it before

Many thanks"

Is this still ongoing from 41 weeks ago OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

Have a footie mate that wants me to fuck him , but I don’t know what to do we have known each other for yrs

I did it

I want miss to be there and keen to get misses with mate as well … approve it .

Don’t know what to do, any relevant suggestions anyone don’t it before

Many thanks"

You did it with him or with your Mrs there? Did she enjoy it?

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