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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please can you explain what happens the moment as a single male you go through the doors at a swinger club

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

The same thing that would happen if you walked into a normal pub or club only people will probably be wearing less clothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the pub....skeggy pubs in summer clothes seem optional

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By *idan31Man
over a year ago

ashby

Go to one and find out.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It depends on the club and the night.

However for the majority it’s just like a pub or social club. So you’ll see a bar and social area, some even have dance floors.

Normally they’ll be a separate area with rooms that’ll have beds or play spaces like dungeons.

Expect an eclectic mix of people from young to old (mainly middle aged) to LGBTQI to straight couples.

But that does depend on the club or the party night.

This is from experiences I’ve had from various clubs I’ve attended.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Depends which doors you are asking about. Front door, you pay your money, sign in, and usually head to the bar with eyes on stalks and uncontrollably dribbling mouth.

Or the toilet door? Well that’s entirely dependent on your needs!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The first thing is a member of staff will give you a tour of the club and explain the rules/etiquette.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

He gets dragged in to a massive orgy, with sexy bodies everywhere and everyone seemingly having the time of their life? Oh, hang on a minute, isn't that porn?

Let's try that again, shall we? The single male gets dragged to a massive bed and fucked until he begs for mercy? I think that sounds like porn scenario, too. Sorry! Bad Angel!

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By *iceGuyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

First time when i walked into a club they was expecting me with fireworks and champagne lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll be balls deep in more clunge than you can ever imagine in minutes.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

A staff member will show you and other newbies around and specifically point out the ‘couples-only’ room, which is where all the good stuff happens.

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"You’ll be balls deep in more clunge than you can ever imagine in minutes. "

This

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"He gets dragged in to a massive orgy, with sexy bodies everywhere and everyone seemingly having the time of their life? Oh, hang on a minute, isn't that porn?

Let's try that again, shall we? The single male gets dragged to a massive bed and fucked until he begs for mercy? I think that sounds like porn scenario, too. Sorry! Bad Angel! "

I’m very sorry. You went too far. Now you’ll need to have sex with him yourself, as compensation.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Please can you explain what happens the moment as a single male you go through the doors at a swinger club "

Just relax, be yourself and chat to people. Swingers clubs are very relaxed.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"You’ll be balls deep in more clunge than you can ever imagine in minutes. "

Isn’t that what used to happen to Stu ‘I could crush a grape’ Francis at the end of each episode if Crackajack?

Or perhaps it was cold baked beans.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Please can you explain what happens the moment as a single male you go through the doors at a swinger club "

As a single guy on your own, you will be summarily ignored/avoided in swinger clubs, however 'friendly and welcoming' they purport to be. Best to go with a female friend or a couple, as others will approach you then

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Please can you explain what happens the moment as a single male you go through the doors at a swinger club "

I was like this a couple weeks back b 4 my first club went to an xmas one on 18th dec! But it was fine was much like a regular night club well as much as I remember lo! Was very friendly with no expectations x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

You get out what you put in if you go be a lone wolf resist joining the pack of guys and chat with everyone and expect nothing.

You can chat without fucking.

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

You’ll get shown around by a member of staff and then left to enjoy. If you don’t act inappropriately and manage your expectations, you’ll have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wish I had someone to hold my hand when I go - so nervous heart pounding just the thought of it ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's it going to cost me entering and drinks etc

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"What's it going to cost me entering and drinks etc "

One I went to was £20 for couples £25 for single men women free were only soft drinks on sale obvs no liquor licence but could take your own alcohol x

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"What's it going to cost me entering and drinks etc "

Depends on the club. Swinging is not a cheap hobby, particularly when you're a single man.

First night is going to be most expensive as that's when, in most cases, you'll be required to pay for your club membership. Some clubs have life time membership, but most have per year.

Go into clubs reviews section, have look at the area of the country that interests you the most, look at clubs in that area. Choose the club/clubs that you like the sound of the most. Then check each club's website for entry and membership for single men. Also, check whether the club is licensed or not. If the club is licensed, all the drinks have to be purchased there, meaning you'll have a tab to settle at the end of your evening on top of your entrance fee. For unlicensed clubs, you are allowed to bring your own alcohol and staff will look after it for you.

Some clubs have events where you can come to the club without being a member, so you can get a taste of the club. Those are usually advertised on the forum, in the "swingers clubs" section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great advice and tips thankyou x

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