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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'll just stand here for people to admire my sexy fat arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am beautiful if you stand in another room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, I prefer a fuller figure lady,more to cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

theres a flaw in that ...anybody can have the personality of a brick slim to fat ..

for me (mrs) sexual attration is the first step then after that comes the chatting and the ''lets see if we are on the same page''

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If I say you have a beautiful body would you hold it against me?.......

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

Define body beautiful, one person's perfect is another's not.

A person is or can be beautiful, a body, however it is, is just a body.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

For me...Nilly...its a quick look at photos, if visually what we are looking for then see where chat leads...which is often no where...and some surprises of visually not what we generally go for but mentally hits the spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Define body beautiful, one person's perfect is another's not.

A person is or can be beautiful, a body, however it is, is just a body."

I define it as a person's perception of what looks beautiful to them. Agreed a person can be beautiful but do people take the time to acknowledge this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

theres a flaw in that ...anybody can have the personality of a brick slim to fat ..

for me (mrs) sexual attration is the first step then after that comes the chatting and the ''lets see if we are on the same page''"

Sexual attraction from the look of somebody?

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire


"No not at all, I prefer a fuller figure lady,more to cuddle"

It's what we both prefer too.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast "

Haha good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast

Haha good answer "

Do you know anyone like that at all ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why social on neutral ground should be first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am beautiful if you stand in another room"

We'd still be able to see your dick from the other room though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find someone attractive, but I also need amazing chemistry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why social on neutral ground should be first "

But you need to get to that point so what do you look for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why social on neutral ground should be first

But you need to get to that point so what do you look for? "

I would there'd be a physical attraction first

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Charlotte definitely only looking for guys who tick all of her beauty requirement check boxes.

Robin never in a position to be choosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair."

That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We look for attractive faces . Perfect body doesn’t equate to a perfect face. Which is why we ask for face photos when messaging. Then the next step is personality.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

What’s between the ears is the first attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body is the bait, mind is the hook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

Most guys here a pulse, some not even that

Couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.

That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive? "

Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

Lol someone who actually meets and doesn't lie to you !. So many fakes, pic collectors and timewasters on here it's sickening.. Yes there has to be attraction but much more is needed for a great meet, more so for a true, lasting naughty friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.

That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?

Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!"

If I thought that's why a guy was with me, I'd feel like crying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to find someone attractive, but I also need amazing chemistry "

Sometimes people are blinded my the beauty. But actually the mind and heart are just as beautiful if not more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I need to find someone attractive, but I also need amazing chemistry

Sometimes people are blinded my the beauty. But actually the mind and heart are just as beautiful if not more. "

100% couldn't of put it better

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By *arte_Blanche_NECouple
over a year ago

Northern


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

Looks are important but not everything, if the craic is shit or people are arrogant we ain’t interested. Also depends what you class as beautiful, not everyone is attracted to the same thing.

Mr

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Physical attraction is needed - I can be visually stimulated by someone’s body but if my mind isn’t equally stimulated by there personality they become less attractive to me- it’s a balance between beauty and chemistry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.

That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?

Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!

If I thought that's why a guy was with me, I'd feel like crying. "

I'm not talking about relationships here. What I'm saying is I'd far rather have a night with an "less attractive" lady who will take 3 guys at once and blow me to the moon through my ass, than a stunner who wants me to turn out the light and and only do it missionary. I'm guessing that's human nature for men? If the stunner was like that I wouldn't be back. The other girl would have my attention any time I'm free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physical attraction is needed - I can be visually stimulated by someone’s body but if my mind isn’t equally stimulated by there personality they become less attractive to me- it’s a balance between beauty and chemistry! "

Very true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be some level of physical attraction and certainly a good personality. I find on a sea saw sliding scale, the less attractive ladies get more attractive to me the more they will allow me to do with them - basically I like sex, so if they are filthy happy days. The more attractive they are the better, but I like experiencing different things so I'm willing to sacrifice my perception of their looks for enjoyment. I'm sure they're doing a bit of sacrifice to their desires tackling me, so fairs fair.

That is..hang on, so if a woman does more freaky stuff in the sheets, you will overlook that she's not that attractive?

Pretty much sums it up - at least I'm honest my mam, God love her, always used to say about the physically unattractive lady at the end of our street who had an absolutely stunning boyfriend "well, she must do things that other quines don't......" ...must have struck a chord with me!!

If I thought that's why a guy was with me, I'd feel like crying.

I'm not talking about relationships here. What I'm saying is I'd far rather have a night with an "less attractive" lady who will take 3 guys at once and blow me to the moon through my ass, than a stunner who wants me to turn out the light and and only do it missionary. I'm guessing that's human nature for men? If the stunner was like that I wouldn't be back. The other girl would have my attention any time I'm free."

I get you're not seeing why I find it a problem. It's that whole "I'd fuck her with a bag over her head". It's insulting to women. Hell it's insulting to anyone.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast "

So - me then?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast

So - me then? "

If you’re putting yourself forward it would need to be confirmed

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast

So - me then? "

You're obviously feeling better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting "

'Hello'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting

'Hello' "

Hello

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"There has to be an initial attraction because you're basing pretty much just off photos. Beyond that though personality is what takes it from that first hello to meeting

'Hello'

Hello "

Can we meet now? - PM your postcode please.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I look for people that I find attractive with a personality I can engage with. I haven't found that looks determine personality.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?.

Physical attraction has to be there and if it is I’m looking for someone with energy, passion, confidence and that little glint in there eye that says I’m a really naughty fucker and I will eat you for breakfast

So - me then?

You're obviously feeling better. "

Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


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You're obviously feeling better.

Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X"

A Chunky hug will do you the world of good.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"

You're obviously feeling better.

Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X

A Chunky hug will do you the world of good. "

That and better food than last time!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

You're obviously feeling better.

Better than I was. Still need about 12 hours sleep per day and get regular headaches though! X

A Chunky hug will do you the world of good.

That and better food than last time! "

I'll make you some sausage rolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I get you're not seeing why I find it a problem. It's that whole "I'd fuck her with a bag over her head". It's insulting to women. Hell it's insulting to anyone. "

I can only apologise if I have caused offence, that was not my intentions. I can see exactly where you're coming from. I was just answering the OP'S question with an unusual degree of honesty that I normally wouldn't share. I stand by that I'm attracted to someone who will do what I want to do and turn away from someone who doesn't. At the end if the day we only live once and I want it to be as enjoyable to me as physically possible. I've had my fair share of shit sex, so I know exactly what I want now, which is filth - indeed sometimes with a bag over my own head!! I did say at the start there had to be some level of physical attraction; I never said I would just go with anyone with no attraction, just that it was less important to me now. My apologies again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s why I’m so glad I’m a witty friendly guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I get you're not seeing why I find it a problem. It's that whole "I'd fuck her with a bag over her head". It's insulting to women. Hell it's insulting to anyone.

I can only apologise if I have caused offence, that was not my intentions. I can see exactly where you're coming from. I was just answering the OP'S question with an unusual degree of honesty that I normally wouldn't share. I stand by that I'm attracted to someone who will do what I want to do and turn away from someone who doesn't. At the end if the day we only live once and I want it to be as enjoyable to me as physically possible. I've had my fair share of shit sex, so I know exactly what I want now, which is filth - indeed sometimes with a bag over my own head!! I did say at the start there had to be some level of physical attraction; I never said I would just go with anyone with no attraction, just that it was less important to me now. My apologies again."

Thank you for the clarification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s why I’m so glad I’m a witty friendly guy lol "

You would be on my radar if you weren't miles away. Hot!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s why I’m so glad I’m a witty friendly guy lol

You would be on my radar if you weren't miles away. Hot!! "
damn it . Meet half way in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction is a must on first meeting, however, if their personality is awfull it won't go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be chemistry and trust.

People are quick to judge and often first impressions are right but then again, some of our best "friends" from here are people we did not click with strait away.

We don't jump in but take our time and if all else fails.. there is the double bagging brown bags handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physical attraction is needed - I can be visually stimulated by someone’s body but if my mind isn’t equally stimulated by there personality they become less attractive to me- it’s a balance between beauty and chemistry! "

Couldn't agree with you more

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Are people looking for body beautiful? I realise for fab it's mainly visual but surely people look for more than that. Someone can have an amazing body but have the personality of a brick. What is it people look for?."

Body beautiful catches the eye, no doubt about that, just look at Hot Pics and see the amount of Fabs those pics receive.

When I’m doing my searches in Fab though, I have my general preferences set, then look at profiles which fit those criteria, and gauge whether the person has a character I could match with, from what they say about themselves (and others), in their profile.

Often though, I see people in the forum I would love to meet, from their personality in threads, but they are too far to have a hope of meeting. They may have the physical attractiveness to me, but it was their personality which drew me in initially

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