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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know" I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! | |||
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"Maybe he could have his own profile and cross reference your couple one on it. I'm half a couple and my other half meets alone, he has his own profile and we have a joint one too. I happily confirm to anyone wanting to meet him that I'm good with it all. " That sounds just like me. Two ID and everyone is consentual. | |||
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"Maybe he could have his own profile and cross reference your couple one on it. I'm half a couple and my other half meets alone, he has his own profile and we have a joint one too. I happily confirm to anyone wanting to meet him that I'm good with it all. Sounds like a good idea. Tks " | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle!" 100% your on the deceitful train | |||
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"Hi everyone, Quite interested to see how many people are in the similar position as us. Starlings (lady) health isn't great and sex is often painful on joints etc. So doesn't happen very often. Robin understands and is sensitive to situation in a caring positive way Starling encourages Robin (male) to meet ladies and couples. Genuine NSA but importantly starling gets any details, yet the response from ladies and couples is often either just message deleted, not read, ignored. Hubby is a really nice genuine guy who will pamper and pleasure ladies. See verifications over the years. Curious to see how others get on?" What an amazing relationship you both have. You must have such security for this to be an option and its highly commendable of Mrs to think of you and your desires. I'm not sure why they are are being ignored other than people presuming you are now a single profile looking for meets but still using your couple profile. I dont know how you can get around this other tha visiting clubs, so Mrs is still involved in the social, can give her nod of approval and prove she is fully OK with it. Wishing you all the luck in the world xxx | |||
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"Hi everyone, Quite interested to see how many people are in the similar position as us. Starlings (lady) health isn't great and sex is often painful on joints etc. So doesn't happen very often. Robin understands and is sensitive to situation in a caring positive way Starling encourages Robin (male) to meet ladies and couples. Genuine NSA but importantly starling gets any details, yet the response from ladies and couples is often either just message deleted, not read, ignored. Hubby is a really nice genuine guy who will pamper and pleasure ladies. See verifications over the years. Curious to see how others get on? What an amazing relationship you both have. You must have such security for this to be an option and its highly commendable of Mrs to think of you and your desires. I'm not sure why they are are being ignored other than people presuming you are now a single profile looking for meets but still using your couple profile. I dont know how you can get around this other tha visiting clubs, so Mrs is still involved in the social, can give her nod of approval and prove she is fully OK with it. Wishing you all the luck in the world xxx " Tks.The club thing is quite interesting as we go to Kestrels together to chill in pools n hot tubs. But if i wander off then generally I'm seen as part of a couple and "why you're not with your wife" response. Each to their own of course. | |||
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"We struggle too x I'm happy for hubby to play alone and encourage him but everyone immediately thinks he's on his own or they see a message from a couple and ignore x" Exactly the same.  | |||
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"Hi everyone, Quite interested to see how many people are in the similar position as us. Starlings (lady) health isn't great and sex is often painful on joints etc. So doesn't happen very often. Robin understands and is sensitive to situation in a caring positive way Starling encourages Robin (male) to meet ladies and couples. Genuine NSA but importantly starling gets any details, yet the response from ladies and couples is often either just message deleted, not read, ignored. Hubby is a really nice genuine guy who will pamper and pleasure ladies. See verifications over the years. Curious to see how others get on? What an amazing relationship you both have. You must have such security for this to be an option and its highly commendable of Mrs to think of you and your desires. I'm not sure why they are are being ignored other than people presuming you are now a single profile looking for meets but still using your couple profile. I dont know how you can get around this other tha visiting clubs, so Mrs is still involved in the social, can give her nod of approval and prove she is fully OK with it. Wishing you all the luck in the world xxx " We are madly in love and married well over 30 years and working through the cards we've been dealt. | |||
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"Are you messaging couples for potential meets who do not have M as their preference, that is important to check. We feel for you and anyone else in similar situations, please don't hate us for saying this but in a way (at least from messaging perspective) this is very similar to tons of messages from single men wanting to meet. Due to your situation and previous meets you have an advantage which maynot mean much online to new folks but we hope your already established fab circle is still strong and get you meets. " It would be wrong to say we've never messaged couples or ladies who are not looking for M. But in general we'd look for those with M on profile. I travel a lot so often the "chase" is as good as it gets. Haha. Valid points | |||
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"if the female is not playing then the guy just becomes another guy ?? there will be no preference because hes part of a couple as it not the couple playing hes just one of many to chose from ... also if playing on his own then needs single profile " | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle!" As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we" If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?  | |||
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"Hi everyone, Quite interested to see how many people are in the similar position as us. Starlings (lady) health isn't great and sex is often painful on joints etc. So doesn't happen very often. Robin understands and is sensitive to situation in a caring positive way Starling encourages Robin (male) to meet ladies and couples. Genuine NSA but importantly starling gets any details, yet the response from ladies and couples is often either just message deleted, not read, ignored. Hubby is a really nice genuine guy who will pamper and pleasure ladies. See verifications over the years. Curious to see how others get on?" Surely your best bet would be to hook up with some of your previous encounters, if they know you and like you, it should be quite an easy fix I would have thought. | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife? "No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off"You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it? | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off
You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it?"Who said I’m going to cheat yes it says looking but mainly on here for the banter to many judgmental folk about | |||
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Hope she feels better soon.
I would guess it's probably people not being sure if your message is genuine or
if you're just a philanderer with a story lol,
You would think that veri's would give people confidence in you
but maybe couples are just as bad as reading profiles as some say singles are lol  | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off
You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it?
Who said I’m going to cheat yes it says looking but mainly on here for the banter to many judgmental folk about "Green arrow tells a good story | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know" There is a massive difference between you and the OP though, isn't there? | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know" Nope nothing like the same boat mate | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know Nope nothing like the same boat mate" Well said. The OP is playing with partner's consent. The guy commenting is cheating. And simply by definition cheats lie. So he could even be lying about his wife's illness. And before we get accused once more of being judgemental, we are simply making statements. | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off
You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it?
Who said I’m going to cheat yes it says looking but mainly on here for the banter to many judgmental folk about "You clearly say in your profile that you want to meet. So yes, if you get the opportunity you are going to cheat. Here is the question. If you people want to behave so dishonestly, why on earth broadcast it on Forums. Are you showing off? | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off
You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it?
Who said I’m going to cheat yes it says looking but mainly on here for the banter to many judgmental folk about
You clearly say in your profile that you want to meet. So yes, if you get the opportunity you are going to cheat.
Here is the question. If you people want to behave so dishonestly, why on earth broadcast it on Forums.
Are you showing off? "It’s only dishonest if you don’t say that’s why I tell folk on here | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off
You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it?
Who said I’m going to cheat yes it says looking but mainly on here for the banter to many judgmental folk about
You clearly say in your profile that you want to meet. So yes, if you get the opportunity you are going to cheat.
Here is the question. If you people want to behave so dishonestly, why on earth broadcast it on Forums.
Are you showing off?
It’s only dishonest if you don’t say that’s why I tell folk on here"I doubt your wife agrees its honest as long as you tell folk on here  | |||
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"I’m in same boat but misses don’t know I’d argue that’s not the same boat then. Maybe not even the same type of vehicle! As in the wife don’t want to or can’t but we all have needs don’t we If you've managed to put your own wife off of sex, why would any man let you near his wife?
No she’s off sex due to illness learn to read b4 you slag anybody off
You said "wife don't want to or can't" you didn't specify which, either way, you being on here trying (unsuccessfully) to cheat on her, isn't going to make her feel any better is it?
Who said I’m going to cheat yes it says looking but mainly on here for the banter to many judgmental folk about
You clearly say in your profile that you want to meet. So yes, if you get the opportunity you are going to cheat.
Here is the question. If you people want to behave so dishonestly, why on earth broadcast it on Forums.
Are you showing off?
It’s only dishonest if you don’t say that’s why I tell folk on here"So you tell strangers in the hope for a fuck but you won't tell your wife who you share a life with. Delusional mate you really are. | |||
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