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Should I be Blindfolded?

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By *kmale421 OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral

I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.

The meet is in their flat.

Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.

Should I:

1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?

2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?

3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?

4) Refuse to be blindfolded?

5) Any other suggestion you may have?

Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

have you not read my newspaper story thread !

before you meet ask in a round about way if she owns a rolling pin !

if she has then fear for your safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Should I:

3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do blindfolding on a first meet, I don't really do anything remotely BDSM on a first meet as you don't really know who the person/people are.

I'd say maybe make sure you are free to take the blindfold off if you are uncomfortable with the situation... Definitely would use a safeword but its a trust thing then, do you trust the couple to honour the safeword?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well imagine everything possible that the guy and woman could do to you, and if your comfortable with them both having that sorta access to you go for it, if not then maybe find out more and set some boundaries, could be a really fun night though

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

"

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "

this afternoon when out shopping Obi, please can I have a new keyboard as the tea is floating in mine ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on!

this afternoon when out shopping Obi, please can I have a new keyboard as the tea is floating in mine ........ "

Admit it - you've just got 'sticky key syndrome!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "

Hahaha to funny

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By *kmale421 OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "

LMAO @ both of these suggestions. Now she says she's not keen on live web camming, I wonder if this is the reason why?.....

I think my ass will be safe, I'll simply hang a Do Not Enter sign over it before I agree to the blindfold....

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By *tra vidaCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

Enjoy the darkside Uk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on!

LMAO @ both of these suggestions. Now she says she's not keen on live web camming, I wonder if this is the reason why?.....

I think my ass will be safe, I'll simply hang a Do Not Enter sign over it before I agree to the blindfold...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its upto you whether you want to relinquish control or not .there has to be trust if you go down that route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.

The meet is in their flat.

Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.

Should I:

1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?

2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?

3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?

4) Refuse to be blindfolded?

5) Any other suggestion you may have?

Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time..."

I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"start a thread 5 minutes before your meet and if you dont post on it again before xmas we will assume somethings gone wrong

Or set up a live feed webcam so we can shout 'he's behind you' when you assume it's her with a strap-on! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a VeRY brave man especially as it's the first meet......

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"You are a VeRY brave man especially as it's the first meet...... "

no need to worry about it,youll be on holiday with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.

The meet is in their flat.

Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.

Should I:

1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?

2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?

3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?

4) Refuse to be blindfolded?

5) Any other suggestion you may have?

Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...

I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork "

The fuck you will!!!!!!

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By *kmale421 OP   Man
over a year ago

wirral


"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.

The meet is in their flat.

Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.

Should I:

1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?

2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?

3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?

4) Refuse to be blindfolded?

5) Any other suggestion you may have?

Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...

I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork

The fuck you will!!!!!! "

Seems to me like Mt Pork isn't too keen on Mrs Perky's idea....

Mind you if I was lucky enough to meet the said Mrs Perky I think, no I know my response would have been in a similar vein to Mr Pork's, though perhaps phrased as No Thank You, just no manners down in Kent......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a first meet arranged on Saturday week with a couple. We have chatted plenty of times and exchanged texts etc.

The meet is in their flat.

Now the lady of the couple has told me that she wants to be blindfolded, which sounds interesting. However, she's followed that up by saying she wants to blindfold me as she has all sorts of surprises in store.

Should I:

1) Trust her to blindfold me and simply enjoy the experience?

2) Cut peepholes into the blindfold so I'm not too scared?

3) Agree a safe word and trustthe couple to honour it?

4) Refuse to be blindfolded?

5) Any other suggestion you may have?

Oh and before anyone takes this thread too seriously, it's tongue in cheek, I do have a first meet with this couple, butI do trust them and know we're going to have a fun time...

I think you should be blindfolded and have have your hands tied together, now that would make an interesting meet, might try that on Pork

The fuck you will!!!!!!

Seems to me like Mt Pork isn't too keen on Mrs Perky's idea....

Mind you if I was lucky enough to meet the said Mrs Perky I think, no I know my response would have been in a similar vein to Mr Pork's, though perhaps phrased as No Thank You, just no manners down in Kent......"

Those ARE Kentish manners! Cheeky Scouser!!

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