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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I travel a bit with work and sometimes the places I stay are real hot-spots for swinging/meets, but others are sexually redundant e.g.

Liverpool Manchester Birmingham Edinburgh London Nottingham are all hotspots (in my experience)

Bedford Bristol Oxford York may as well be nunneries

There's a distinct lack of action in certain town & cities

Does anyone else have a hot n cold list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a bit with work and sometimes the places I stay are real hot-spots for swinging/meets, but others are sexually redundant e.g.

Liverpool Manchester Birmingham Edinburgh London Nottingham are all hotspots (in my experience)

Bedford Bristol Oxford York may as well be nunneries

There's a distinct lack of action in certain town & cities

Does anyone else have a hot n cold list?

"

That list is dead right in both cases couldnt agree more.. leicester is pretty busy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a bit with work and sometimes the places I stay are real hot-spots for swinging/meets, but others are sexually redundant e.g.

Liverpool Manchester Birmingham Edinburgh London Nottingham are all hotspots (in my experience)

Bedford Bristol Oxford York may as well be nunneries

There's a distinct lack of action in certain town & cities

Does anyone else have a hot n cold list?

"

Well - guess it's horses for courses!

Never had any problems in Bristol and Oxford!

The Scilly Isles are a bit of a quiet zone though!

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By *nzo sussexMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Like to see more in Eastbourne, Brighton seems busier....more cosmopolitan? (mind, happy to travel there too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you should go wild in the country Norfolk suffolk has alot on offer and can be wild at times , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you should go wild in the country Norfolk suffolk has alot on offer and can be wild at times , lol "

If it has you to offer im moving there now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol"

I live in oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you should go wild in the country Norfolk suffolk has alot on offer and can be wild at times , lol

If it has you to offer im moving there now"
well its very wild here and a bit out the way and lots of wild life . I say Norwich in profile as most know it but i am in the sticks .. rivers woods and grass feilds. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast"

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you should go wild in the country Norfolk suffolk has alot on offer and can be wild at times , lol

If it has you to offer im moving there nowwell its very wild here and a bit out the way and lots of wild life . I say Norwich in profile as most know it but i am in the sticks .. rivers woods and grass feilds. lol"

You are still the hottest reason to go there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult"

Its not you mate it is hard around here generally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult"
Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ? "

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every other person in Warrington seems to be a swinger. Quite embarrassing who we keep finding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

"

I think she was aiming that at me mate.. im guessing my tongue in cheek humour was wasted.. im not desperate but i agree women need a reason men need a place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a bit with work and sometimes the places I stay are real hot-spots for swinging/meets, but others are sexually redundant e.g.

Liverpool Manchester Birmingham Edinburgh London Nottingham are all hotspots (in my experience)

Bedford Bristol Oxford York may as well be nunneries

There's a distinct lack of action in certain town & cities

Does anyone else have a hot n cold list?

That list is dead right in both cases couldnt agree more.. leicester is pretty busy too

"

Is it, what have I been missing out on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

"
well i felt you just needed to empty your balls tell the truth ...... And woman are diffrent hate feeling like a number and just there to open there legs when called , lol and yes we love sex ... just as much as you i would think. I was saying play hard to get be new way of playing the sex game and dinner maybe getting to chat and know people so your welcome maybe to go back when there again ? So its not so difficult to arrange next time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

I think she was aiming that at me mate.. im guessing my tongue in cheek humour was wasted.. im not desperate but i agree women need a reason men need a place lol"
LOL well your coming across like a charming man and yes was tongue and cheek just new ways of seeing things from a womans eyes here , lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

well i felt you just needed to empty your balls tell the truth ...... And woman are diffrent hate feeling like a number and just there to open there legs when called , lol and yes we love sex ... just as much as you i would think. I was saying play hard to get be new way of playing the sex game and dinner maybe getting to chat and know people so your welcome maybe to go back when there again ? So its not so difficult to arrange next time . "

I think a good majority of (single profile) guys on here, if they were being honest, are just looking to empty their balls, despite the noises they may make about wining and dining and getting to know the other person. They, like many others have their eyes on one goal, it's the hunter in us, or the cad or the tom cat.

But lets not be deluded (I'm not suggesting you are, but as a generalisation) guys on here want to empty their balls.

They tend to be

Married and playing away

Straight (but often bi on the quiet)

Bi

Gay

Me, i'm happy to be bi and looking for like-minded guys who just want to empty their balls, without dinner and the pretence of "getting to know you" conversation.

OK I'm going to put on my crash helmet and head for cover, from the tirade of abuse from the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

well i felt you just needed to empty your balls tell the truth ...... And woman are diffrent hate feeling like a number and just there to open there legs when called , lol and yes we love sex ... just as much as you i would think. I was saying play hard to get be new way of playing the sex game and dinner maybe getting to chat and know people so your welcome maybe to go back when there again ? So its not so difficult to arrange next time .

I think a good majority of (single profile) guys on here, if they were being honest, are just looking to empty their balls, despite the noises they may make about wining and dining and getting to know the other person. They, like many others have their eyes on one goal, it's the hunter in us, or the cad or the tom cat.

But lets not be deluded (I'm not suggesting you are, but as a generalisation) guys on here want to empty their balls.

They tend to be

Married and playing away

Straight (but often bi on the quiet)

Bi

Gay

Me, i'm happy to be bi and looking for like-minded guys who just want to empty their balls, without dinner and the pretence of "getting to know you" conversation.

OK I'm going to put on my crash helmet and head for cover, from the tirade of abuse from the forum

"
yes thats fine for alot here ... some like fast lane sex its a sex fix after all , I just like to know people as i get more from sex ... But thats just me.Some dont need that i know .We are not the same here and its a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

well i felt you just needed to empty your balls tell the truth ...... And woman are diffrent hate feeling like a number and just there to open there legs when called , lol and yes we love sex ... just as much as you i would think. I was saying play hard to get be new way of playing the sex game and dinner maybe getting to chat and know people so your welcome maybe to go back when there again ? So its not so difficult to arrange next time .

I think a good majority of (single profile) guys on here, if they were being honest, are just looking to empty their balls, despite the noises they may make about wining and dining and getting to know the other person. They, like many others have their eyes on one goal, it's the hunter in us, or the cad or the tom cat.

But lets not be deluded (I'm not suggesting you are, but as a generalisation) guys on here want to empty their balls.

They tend to be

Married and playing away

Straight (but often bi on the quiet)

Bi

Gay

Me, i'm happy to be bi and looking for like-minded guys who just want to empty their balls, without dinner and the pretence of "getting to know you" conversation.

OK I'm going to put on my crash helmet and head for cover, from the tirade of abuse from the forum

yes thats fine for alot here ... some like fast lane sex its a sex fix after all , I just like to know people as i get more from sex ... But thats just me.Some dont need that i know .We are not the same here and its a good thing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumbria and more specifically the lake district area of Cumbria are not completely lacking, but nothing like the cities, although that is expected I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel a bit with work and sometimes the places I stay are real hot-spots for swinging/meets, but others are sexually redundant e.g.

Liverpool Manchester Birmingham Edinburgh London Nottingham are all hotspots (in my experience)

Bedford Bristol Oxford York may as well be nunneries

There's a distinct lack of action in certain town & cities

Does anyone else have a hot n cold list?

"

Add to hot Newcastle & Doncaster

Add to cold Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's bound to be more chance in cities as there's more people.

I'm in Lincolnshire which seems considerably redundant though its in close proximity to Yorkshire which seems hotter by comparison.

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

Norfolk is a cold spot simply for its geographical location...i.e. arse end of no-where. People don't pass by on their way to somewhere else - no passing traffic. This theory will no doubt resonate with other coastal counties? If only I could move into the central corridor....sigh

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol

I live in Oxford am i included in that lol.. in fairness oxford has a fair amount to offer its just more famine than feast

I'm in Oxford on Monday and it's been really difficult to arrange anything, it may be me, (before anyone says that) but I don't normally find it this difficult Maybe your coming across as desperate woman don't like that ... they like the cool lay back sort as working harder makes if feel worth it So maybe play hard to get or offer to take them out to dinner or a drink as most like dressing up being spoilt . just different way of seeing things . ?

Thank you for that, you noticed the desperate panting in my typing.

But your comments above are proof that women are complex men are simple, you say "play hard to get" or "offer to take them out to dinner" I'm confused

Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place

well i felt you just needed to empty your balls tell the truth ...... And woman are diffrent hate feeling like a number and just there to open there legs when called , lol and yes we love sex ... just as much as you i would think. I was saying play hard to get be new way of playing the sex game and dinner maybe getting to chat and know people so your welcome maybe to go back when there again ? So its not so difficult to arrange next time .

I think a good majority of (single profile) guys on here, if they were being honest, are just looking to empty their balls, despite the noises they may make about wining and dining and getting to know the other person. They, like many others have their eyes on one goal, it's the hunter in us, or the cad or the tom cat.

But lets not be deluded (I'm not suggesting you are, but as a generalisation) guys on here want to empty their balls.

They tend to be

Married and playing away

Straight (but often bi on the quiet)

Bi

Gay

Me, i'm happy to be bi and looking for like-minded guys who just want to empty their balls, without dinner and the pretence of "getting to know you" conversation.

OK I'm going to put on my crash helmet and head for cover, from the tirade of abuse from the forum

"

i'll need one as well then as I even as a single female totally agree with you - it's a sex site and sex is what people are looking for - yeah ok the wining and dining is nice and all that but I'd be looking on a different site for that whereas on here I'm looking for a fix to a solution - want cock and don't have one myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manchester seems quite busy but then sometimes the grass always seems greener.

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"i like the totty from Swindon and Oxford.. just a nightmare being from South Devon lol"
agree south Devon is crap it needs a sexual revolution x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Cumbria and more specifically the lake district area of Cumbria are not completely lacking, but nothing like the cities, although that is expected I suppose!"

Only problem with being a swinger in Cumbria is that you're related to everyone in a 50 mile radius I travel to Manchester, Yorkshire and the NE for club meets and parties, tend not to meet too many local single guys, specially not from Arse End cos a goodly amount of them are married and the neighbours would notice

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Cumbria and more specifically the lake district area of Cumbria are not completely lacking, but nothing like the cities, although that is expected I suppose!

Only problem with being a swinger in Cumbria is that you're related to everyone in a 50 mile radius I travel to Manchester, Yorkshire and the NE for club meets and parties, tend not to meet too many local single guys, specially not from Arse End cos a goodly amount of them are married and the neighbours would notice "

To be fair Caz you are not exactly under the radar with that hair

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I travel a bit with work and sometimes the places I stay are real hot-spots for swinging/meets, but others are sexually redundant e.g.

Liverpool Manchester Birmingham Edinburgh London Nottingham are all hotspots (in my experience)

Bedford Bristol Oxford York may as well be nunneries

There's a distinct lack of action in certain town & cities

Does anyone else have a hot n cold list?

That list is dead right in both cases couldnt agree more.. leicester is pretty busy too

Is it, what have I been missing out on "

I'm pretty busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, south devon esp torquay, seems more frigid than the freezer section in sainsburys, and as for supermarkets not ever been flashed in torquay sainsburys once, gutting, more hotness down here please share the sex!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Cumbria and more specifically the lake district area of Cumbria are not completely lacking, but nothing like the cities, although that is expected I suppose!

Only problem with being a swinger in Cumbria is that you're related to everyone in a 50 mile radius I travel to Manchester, Yorkshire and the NE for club meets and parties, tend not to meet too many local single guys, specially not from Arse End cos a goodly amount of them are married and the neighbours would notice

To be fair Caz you are not exactly under the radar with that hair "

Honest Ryan, this kinda hair is normal with all the inbreeding round here (same with the extra finger and nipple)

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Cumbria and more specifically the lake district area of Cumbria are not completely lacking, but nothing like the cities, although that is expected I suppose!

Only problem with being a swinger in Cumbria is that you're related to everyone in a 50 mile radius I travel to Manchester, Yorkshire and the NE for club meets and parties, tend not to meet too many local single guys, specially not from Arse End cos a goodly amount of them are married and the neighbours would notice

To be fair Caz you are not exactly under the radar with that hair

Honest Ryan, this kinda hair is normal with all the inbreeding round here (same with the extra finger and nipple) "

I know I drove past a couple of weeks ago and some bloke was shouting at me to squeal like a pig

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By *anemickCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

I live in Chorley and would love to know where to go , pubs etc .....Jane

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