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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a younger male, I tend to find it more difficult to interact with women/couples on this site.

I’m veri’d and respectful in messaging and was just wondering what could help/be the issue? And if any others have the same issue

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

We have no issues with any ages.

I think though that we tend to get short, one line messages more often from younger guys.

We don't respond to one line messages, as it states on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just got accept your not for everyone but don't let that put you down just gotta keep plugging away

I tend meet older women more than women my own age as women in 20's get lots of message well all women do but they tend to get crazy ones and get lose in the shuffle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what would be your ideal way to approach you then and start a conversation?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"As a younger male, I tend to find it more difficult to interact with women/couples on this site.

I’m veri’d and respectful in messaging and was just wondering what could help/be the issue? And if any others have the same issue"

One line on your bio. I know what I want! No wonder no interest as no one knows what you want. Unf you need to make more effort to start out over the thousands of other men. Good luck

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By *arrior PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You get out what you put in (in general in life, maybe not on Fab!) so put a bit of yourself on your profile....what are you interested in, who are you, what type of person are you looking for.

Having a cam verification isn't appealing to me whatsoever so it wouldn't be a positive thing.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

The average age is older, and many prefer to meet around their own age.

However, many don’t! I’ve seen lots of women looking for younger guys. Stick with it, be friendly, conversational, and polite, and things will start happening for you.

Don’t just rely on your age and photos to get you through the door. People need to want to meet YOU, not just your willy. An attractive personality beats abs and girth, for most!

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By *aughtycheshirecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We’ve met younger guys. No issues if there’s banter and you are respectful. Maybe write a bit more in your bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

need to write more in you bio few more pics doesn't have to be war and peace just let people know about you and what you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots want to meet someone their own age, lots don’t want to meet someone near their kids age.

Many will meet someone regardless of age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice taken, I’ve given it a shot but thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate all your responses, will work on the profile!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Appreciate all your responses, will work on the profile! "

Looking better allready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots want to meet someone their own age, lots don’t want to meet someone near their kids age.

Many will meet someone regardless of age "
43 what water you drink can't be from Liverpool lol

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If going to clubs isn't a issue with you that's where I'd start, You don't have to play there but you will meet new people make some contacts, Try the chat rooms, Again you don't have to play or cam but being on cam will help,

I'm not sure how many people actually play with someone just by sending a few messages but I bet its not as many as people think,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I really want to experience a club to be honest, I always thought it’d be more comfortable going with someone than on your own though??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel your pain mate. Very kind lady suggested to me trying out clubs and socials more and participating more in the forums. Seems a better route than the cold messaging. Good luck

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Bit of a catch 22 situation then,

Just go to a club without any intensions other then having a good time, drink but don't get smashed, dance, chat with people, The bar staff, other Men as well they may help you meet Women/couples,

Its no different then a normal club especially if you're not going their thinking you're going to have sex,

If you do go don't just stand in the corner on your own it doesn't look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely clubs are a good way to socialise and get to know people. Your age range is capped at 30 so that will limit who can message you. Forums are good to talk and join in. Pretty good advice from the others. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changes have been made, now the fingers are crossed

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

From our point of view your in the lower end of our preferences but we set them as guidelines. In a club scenario we’d take a person on face value and attitude and personality would be more crucial than age but that’s harder to portray on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP

Seen a few forum threads on this and the main advice I can give you is to go to clubs to socialise and spend some time in the forums so people get to know you.

Nice to see you've opened your age range to above 30, so you may receive more messages now.

Good luck with everything, your a handsome looking chap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah clubs and forums seem to be the main advice, you may see me a bit more now…

I had no idea it was on 30, blonde moment from me!!

But you look good yourself, feel free to pm if you have any more advice

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By *teelyBloomMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I similarly have the same problem mate. Although recently ive had some luck and have found a couple to meet on a regular basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah clubs and forums seem to be the main advice, you may see me a bit more now…

I had no idea it was on 30, blonde moment from me!!

But you look good yourself, feel free to pm if you have any more advice "

Welcome to the forums, hope you have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changes have been made, now the fingers are crossed "

Hopefully it will help, good luck

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