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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you guys introduce a new partner to fab. recently met a lovely girl who's also pretty filthy:p and hoping to make a couple profile

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"How do you guys introduce a new partner to fab. recently met a lovely girl who's also pretty filthy:p and hoping to make a couple profile "

I'd imagine that just coming out and ask her would she be into swinging might be the best option so she has the choice. If she doesn't then leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yer probably just best to come out with it not sure I'm ready for a full swap but maybe meet a couple who's also new and wanting to dip there toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good ideas

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Just ask her if she's ever thought about swinging. She may be horrified, she may fancy it, or she may be somewhere in the middle and curious. If you go to a club you don't have to play with others, you can just see what they're about. Ask her soon and tell us all her reaction!

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

First time wife and I went to a swinging club we did not even know was just a door with a door man outside good job we had already had a few drinks

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Just be honest

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

See if she would fancy a club op or put that swinging documentary on.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"First time wife and I went to a swinging club we did not even know was just a door with a door man outside good job we had already had a few drinks"

She didn't take to it then?

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Watch some porn together i went on two dates before mention that a previous gf went to swinging club very enjoyable went a few times is wasn't a serious relationship as she was moving to UAE as a nurse good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do you guys introduce a new partner to fab. recently met a lovely girl who's also pretty filthy:p and hoping to make a couple profile "

have you spoken to her about swinging at all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just ask her if she's ever thought about swinging. She may be horrified, she may fancy it, or she may be somewhere in the middle and curious. If you go to a club you don't have to play with others, you can just see what they're about. Ask her soon and tell us all her reaction!"

Yer that's probably the best thing ask what she thinks 1st qnd gauge a reaction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First time wife and I went to a swinging club we did not even know was just a door with a door man outside good job we had already had a few drinks"

Nice surprise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you guys introduce a new partner to fab. recently met a lovely girl who's also pretty filthy:p and hoping to make a couple profile

have you spoken to her about swinging at all?"

Nit really no spoke about dogging and been a few times only been watched once tho was quite exciting was just a bloke but I'd prefer q couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do you guys introduce a new partner to fab. recently met a lovely girl who's also pretty filthy:p and hoping to make a couple profile

have you spoken to her about swinging at all?

Nit really no spoke about dogging and been a few times only been watched once tho was quite exciting was just a bloke but I'd prefer q couple "

What's stopping you speaking to her about it?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Show her the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you worried she might leg if it she finds you on here?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Just ask her if she's ever had a threesome or foursome, or fancied one if not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you guys introduce a new partner to fab. recently met a lovely girl who's also pretty filthy:p and hoping to make a couple profile

have you spoken to her about swinging at all?

Nit really no spoke about dogging and been a few times only been watched once tho was quite exciting was just a bloke but I'd prefer q couple

What's stopping you speaking to her about it?"

I like to keep this part of my life private and as she's new don't want her to judge I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you worried she might leg if it she finds you on here? "

More judge really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just ask her if she's ever had a threesome or foursome, or fancied one if not.

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We've spoke about it I never have but she has once qnd just said its alright we did talk about finding someone else but it's hard unless ur on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might also have an account here or on another site, especially if she's into kink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you give up swinging for her?

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines


"Would you give up swinging for her?"
good question flip it round if you choose to do nothing will you carry on on here and hide if from her?

Just need to be truthful with her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Erm am I classed as a swinger even tho I haven't met anyone for 2 years on here (haven't had any offers) lol I wouldn't meet anyone while I'm with her but I'd like to stay just for the forums etc

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Think you're a nut job make sure you have a very good and strong relationship before getting someone in the swinging..

You do not want to lose some special.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Erm am I classed as a swinger even tho I haven't met anyone for 2 years on here (haven't had any offers) lol I wouldn't meet anyone while I'm with her but I'd like to stay just for the forums etc"

In that case you need to tell her about your profile.

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines


"Erm am I classed as a swinger even tho I haven't met anyone for 2 years on here (haven't had any offers) lol I wouldn't meet anyone while I'm with her but I'd like to stay just for the forums etc

In that case you need to tell her about your profile."
erm if the opptunity arose in the last two years would you have meet them?

Your on a swinging sex site looking to meet people think that makes you a swinger in our mind.

Either way swinger or not you need to tell her or give it up. Starting a relationship with a lie isn't good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yh does make sense.. maybe play with the thought in her head as a joke and just test to see her reaction.. if I positive one then job well done, if not “ it was only a joke, jheez” ??

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Its a nightmare. Appears all my meets off dating sites are all totally anti swinging and horrified when i mention it. Then it usually goes down him

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