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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only meet bi guys so yes we are out here

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think a search by sexuality is coming later this year so that may make searching for bi couples easier.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we only meet bi guys so yes we are out here "

really? well finally i found a couple lol.. dont worry i wont hound you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were definitely looking for bi guys but have been generally let down so often recently that we've just about given up on them and the site...

Nice to see a man being openly bi on here...the number of "straight" ones we've had has been phenomenal and then when a meet is on the cards flake on us...

Shame you're so far away...good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we only meet bi guys so yes we are out here

really? well finally i found a couple lol.. dont worry i wont hound you now "

hound away lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we only meet bi guys so yes we are out here

really? well finally i found a couple lol.. dont worry i wont hound you now

hound away lol "

lol what an offer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always find it hard to get single bi males to join me as a couple

Im not a couple but i have a bi male friend that i meet regular and we offen look for single bi guys to join us, id say 9 times out 10 we dont find anyone

Seems we all struggle on here whatever we're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats why we need a better sexuality search function

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before in other forum threads, the new 'sexuality' search option will only work if both people list themselves as bi. Unfortunately so many males of the couple are listed as straight. I guess they don't want to spoil their chances of meets with other people on the site?? Who knows??

It is refreshing to see couples who are up front with their sexuality and look for single bi males to join them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think its great people want to be honest about what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?"

dont give up fella there are realy nice couples out there that will catch your eye one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a search by sexuality is coming later this year so that may make searching for bi couples easier.

good luck"

at long last.. only asked for that 14mths ago!

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a search by sexuality is coming later this year so that may make searching for bi couples easier.

good luck

at long last.. only asked for that 14mths ago!

Wolf

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Hurrah for us bi folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so there are a few couples that like bi guys out there just wish they were more forthcoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'v tried to find couple with bi male in South Wales met one so far. Loads seem to chat for awhile then stop with no notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone as prevoius threads I have been looking for Bi-couple for a while now and although have had a few chats thats as far as its gone I did post sometime ago about having the ability in search to find BI etc hopefully its on its way,as for ST8 guys sites awash with them just today had a guy who says on profile 21 and st8 turns out he is 19 and bi but doesnt say so openly because he has friemds on the site enough said i think.

If there is by chance bi-couple reading this from lincolnshire down to brighton all points east i can travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we hardly ever get the time to meet as a couple anyway! lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thats why we need a better sexuality search function"

nah i think its nowt to do with that, ive friends who have the same struggle,

its more to do with the amount of guys claiming to be bi etc to get with the woman, and either bottling it and not meeting, or this fact being worked out by the couple by what the guy talks about on the messages so they get deemed unsuitable to meet

i dunno why the op might have a problem with it thought, but everyones after different things,

maybe your quite suited to couple where the guy is bi and is happy with being openly bi,

but might find some couples where the guys being discreet about being bi etc, might not want to meet fully bi they might be looking for someone they class more as straight acting

its a very complicated situation tbh lol

looking at your profile your certinaly quite a fit guy and got decent photos, could do with a few more, and maybe some of these couples are looking for some verifications from other bi couples too, which would confirm your not a time waster and done it before

alot of people get let down alot when looking for single bi guys or bi women, they not easy to find the right one to play with you and the woman, after all some might want the attention on the guy, some might want the attenion on the woman with just a bit of cock fun between the guys, everyones different and you cant win them all

just look at improoving your profile and get a few verficiations which match up with what your looking for.

another thing is you are quite fit so maybe some guys from the couples arnt 100% sure your right if your bodys by far much better than theirs, people need to feel secure when sharing partners and some might feel bit jealous or be more comfortable with someone of a similar build where they dont feel like your lots better than them

im sure once you met a few and got some good verifications from them things will get easier, but msot bi couples are wary when they tried so many times and still get let down, so gotta be extra genuine to them

but id get some new pictures, i dont think the gun photo helps tbh mate lol, the body shots nice, but how about a few more showing what you like in every day life, like the sorta pictures you probs think are your best ones you would use as a facebook profile pic maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone as prevoius threads I have been looking for Bi-couple for a while now and although have had a few chats thats as far as its gone I did post sometime ago about having the ability in search to find BI etc hopefully its on its way,as for ST8 guys sites awash with them just today had a guy who says on profile 21 and st8 turns out he is 19 and bi but doesnt say so openly because he has friemds on the site enough said i think.

If there is by chance bi-couple reading this from lincolnshire down to brighton all points east i can travel"

well you need public photos, and not being able to accomodate will hold you back loads, if you want to play with couples not many will entertain you at theirs if you wont at yours, and most will want to cometo yours to do a 3some, due to having kids etc at home, so you always will struggle as them little details improove your chances massivly

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

there are some nice bi guys out there but like with all different tastes and choices there are also some who mess about..

twas ever thus..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone as prevoius threads I have been looking for Bi-couple for a while now and although have had a few chats thats as far as its gone I did post sometime ago about having the ability in search to find BI etc hopefully its on its way,as for ST8 guys sites awash with them just today had a guy who says on profile 21 and st8 turns out he is 19 and bi but doesnt say so openly because he has friemds on the site enough said i think.

If there is by chance bi-couple reading this from lincolnshire down to brighton all points east i can travel

well you need public photos, and not being able to accomodate will hold you back loads, if you want to play with couples not many will entertain you at theirs if you wont at yours, and most will want to cometo yours to do a 3some, due to having kids etc at home, so you always will struggle as them little details improove your chances massivly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?"

Oh boo bloody hoo!

One post and you've set yourself up! At least you live in a major city in a well populated area so I dare say if you persevered you would have got somewhere.

Try being a bisexual tranny living in the highlands for a bit and then have a moan about trying to find people to meet! I'm just lucky they stopped burning my like at the stake a few years ago.

Honestly, whingers. There's always someone worse off than you. I personally feel sorry for the one tranny left in Thurso.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Shame you're so far away...good luck"

That's usually the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Openly bi and very happy about the fact I play on the fetish scene mostly and find straight guys and cpls don't worry if you are bi as long as boundary are respected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi everyone as prevoius threads I have been looking for Bi-couple for a while now and although have had a few chats thats as far as its gone I did post sometime ago about having the ability in search to find BI etc hopefully its on its way,as for ST8 guys sites awash with them just today had a guy who says on profile 21 and st8 turns out he is 19 and bi but doesnt say so openly because he has friemds on the site enough said i think.

If there is by chance bi-couple reading this from lincolnshire down to brighton all points east i can travel

well you need public photos, and not being able to accomodate will hold you back loads, if you want to play with couples not many will entertain you at theirs if you wont at yours, and most will want to cometo yours to do a 3some, due to having kids etc at home, so you always will struggle as them little details improove your chances massivly"

But sometimes us guys dont want to accom because of kids at home also...... works both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?

Oh boo bloody hoo!

One post and you've set yourself up! At least you live in a major city in a well populated area so I dare say if you persevered you would have got somewhere.

Try being a bisexual tranny living in the highlands for a bit and then have a moan about trying to find people to meet! I'm just lucky they stopped burning my like at the stake a few years ago.

Honestly, whingers. There's always someone worse off than you. I personally feel sorry for the one tranny left in Thurso. "

Oh Dear.. not moaning nor whinging, im just putting an honest observation out there for people to comment on.. not my issue where anyone lives or doesnt live.. not set myself up at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are some nice bi guys out there but like with all different tastes and choices there are also some who mess about..

twas ever thus..

hey ho.."

^^^^

Yes this is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are Wakefield

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

very nice profile .. and very surprised ur having so much problem finding a couple .. thought ur mailbox wud be brimming !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?"

Is that a joke??!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?"

I can only vouch for me but i enjoy the company of men and women and the options that are available are exciting to me and i hope the other two involved.. all a personal preference x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?

Is that a joke??!! "

I think its a fair question Just not sure why lol

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I think its a fair question Just not sure why lol"

cant see any reason why they shouldnt .. seems perfectly reasonable to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its a fair question Just not sure why lol

cant see any reason why they shouldnt .. seems perfectly reasonable to me "

Seems a dam good idea to me x

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By *icplforbimalebarrowCouple
over a year ago

barrow in furness cumbria

we are a bi couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?"

--coughs-- hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?

--coughs-- hello "

Well hello there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?"

eh?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?

"

weve met loads of bi male guys ova the years and i cant fault them .. not sure wot ur getting at ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What we want to know is, why are single males looking for Bi-Couples?"

Well I can't speak for anyone else but I'm a greedy bitch and love having two men. Also adore DP. And we are both complete cum sluts and love to share a cock. He likes to fuck while I'm being fucked. Although I am bi a foursome just wouldn't work for us because the female would end up getting left out. It's what works for us, everyone is different

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

We only meet single bi guys or bi couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm BI open and happy about it

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By *inscotscockMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Why are none of these poster in Scotland .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, should have read 'Why does a single Bi-Man need the female of the couple to be Bi?'. So in the FAB search engine, he would only need to search for the male half of the couple to be bi. Been a few threads on here about Bi-Men looking for a couple who both ate Bi. The search engine needs to be correct from the start, ie when the tick boxes for what you are looking for are ticked, you may need a lot of tick boxes. So no, not a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a bi couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, should have read 'Why does a single Bi-Man need the female of the couple to be Bi?'. So in the FAB search engine, he would only need to search for the male half of the couple to be bi. Been a few threads on here about Bi-Men looking for a couple who both ate Bi. The search engine needs to be correct from the start, ie when the tick boxes for what you are looking for are ticked, you may need a lot of tick boxes. So no, not a joke."

gotcha...and agree...although we often get the...oh i have a bi female fuck buddy i can bring along...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry, should have read 'Why does a single Bi-Man need the female of the couple to be Bi?'. So in the FAB search engine, he would only need to search for the male half of the couple to be bi. Been a few threads on here about Bi-Men looking for a couple who both ate Bi. The search engine needs to be correct from the start, ie when the tick boxes for what you are looking for are ticked, you may need a lot of tick boxes. So no, not a joke.

gotcha...and agree...although we often get the...oh i have a bi female fuck buddy i can bring along... "

I dont want to bring a bi fb lol id just like a couple that want a decrnt guy to join them and the male be bi so we can enjoy all possible scenarios for the three of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi again yes I been told that before but it says on my profile private pics happy to send if requested and have often sent them the reason i dont have them on public is on another site they got posted publicly on the internet and in public ie lampost etc not just mine but a few couples as well kids probably but thats made me more cautiuos as for accomadate there are reasons I cant the same as couples cant so do not see the relevence or that being the only reason wouldnt meet anyone there are hotels or even quiet places outdoors if the weathers right each too there own i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find chatting to and meeting cpls with a bi male one of the hardest things to do outside of a club environment. I try messaging and just dont get a response.

Are there not so many couples that want to meet single bi guys?"
If i find a sexy bi man i will let you know ok xxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"We are a bi couple x"

and may we add, with a most delectable posterior..

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Hi I agree too its hard for a bi bi guy to find genuine bi couples I'm in the Plymouth area and it seems well and truly void of bi couples which is a great pity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I agree too its hard for a bi bi guy to find genuine bi couples I'm in the Plymouth area and it seems well and truly void of bi couples which is a great pity "

Scotty, nothing personal, but can we ask why a single Bi man is after a Bi-couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, should have read 'Why does a single Bi-Man need the female of the couple to be Bi?'. So in the FAB search engine, he would only need to search for the male half of the couple to be bi. Been a few threads on here about Bi-Men looking for a couple who both ate Bi. The search engine needs to be correct from the start, ie when the tick boxes for what you are looking for are ticked, you may need a lot of tick boxes. So no, not a joke."

Ah yes with you now. Got to admit I have never wondered that before. But I am now

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"Been a few threads on here about Bi-Men looking for a couple who both ate Bi."

Fuck me, Bi cannibals! Block and report.

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"I think a search by sexuality is coming later this year so that may make searching for bi couples easier.

good luck"

wouldn't hold yer breath on that one, it's been promised for awhile with no joy as yet

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By *kip123Man
over a year ago

Barry

A hell of a lot of guys on this site discribe themselves as straigh but after a few messages they say they are "BI" or "BI CURIOUS". The reason I believe for this intial deception is because some people have the idea in ther heads that a "BI" guy on meeting a couple is going to leap on the other mans cock. Not so the case. Not in mine anyway

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE


"Why are none of these poster in Scotland ..... "

WE are in Scotland and only meet bi guys/couples as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A hell of a lot of guys on this site discribe themselves as straigh but after a few messages they say they are "BI" or "BI CURIOUS". The reason I believe for this intial deception is because some people have the idea in ther heads that a "BI" guy on meeting a couple is going to leap on the other mans cock. Not so the case. Not in mine anyway"

and in our experience either flake at the thought of an actual meet or just can't cut it if they do get that far...we've given up on giving the "I know it says straight on my profile but I might be orally curious when the moon is full and there's a z in the month if you lick my balls while whistling dixie..." brigade...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A hell of a lot of guys on this site discribe themselves as straigh but after a few messages they say they are "BI" or "BI CURIOUS". The reason I believe for this intial deception is because some people have the idea in ther heads that a "BI" guy on meeting a couple is going to leap on the other mans cock. Not so the case. Not in mine anyway

and in our experience either flake at the thought of an actual meet or just can't cut it if they do get that far...we've given up on giving the "I know it says straight on my profile but I might be orally curious when the moon is full and there's a z in the month if you lick my balls while whistling dixie..." brigade..."

.....and if the mood is right of course

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By *maz.Man
over a year ago

Southampton / iford

I think men are more picky about who they wanna be bi with !

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By *amBiUKMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Hi I agree too its hard for a bi bi guy to find genuine bi couples I'm in the Plymouth area and it seems well and truly void of bi couples which is a great pity

Scotty, nothing personal, but can we ask why a single Bi man is after a Bi-couple? "
well being bi he wants to play with both male and female if he was just wanting a guy he would be gay !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK. We will try again. If a single Bi female (yeah ok) went looking for a couple and the man was straight, but the wife was Bi, does that make them a Bi couple? So why does a Bi, single man require the female of the couple to also like the ladies. If they all need to be Bi, what goes on and why haven't we been informed!

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London


"we hardly ever get the time to meet as a couple anyway! lol!"

Tell us about it...!!! Time in the same county as each other is a rarity these days...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, should have read 'Why does a single Bi-Man need the female of the couple to be Bi?'. So in the FAB search engine, he would only need to search for the male half of the couple to be bi. Been a few threads on here about Bi-Men looking for a couple who both ate Bi. The search engine needs to be correct from the start, ie when the tick boxes for what you are looking for are ticked, you may need a lot of tick boxes. So no, not a joke."

Ok I understand now. Sorry I didn't get it before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New updated thread for Bi-Couples

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/110936

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By *az837Man
over a year ago

Bury ST

iam bi and love to meet a bi cpl not many up here v

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone as prevoius threads I have been looking for Bi-couple for a while now and although have had a few chats thats as far as its gone I did post sometime ago about having the ability in search to find BI etc hopefully its on its way,as for ST8 guys sites awash with them just today had a guy who says on profile 21 and st8 turns out he is 19 and bi but doesnt say so openly because he has friemds on the site enough said i think.

If there is by chance bi-couple reading this from lincolnshire down to brighton all points east i can travel

well you need public photos, and not being able to accomodate will hold you back loads, if you want to play with couples not many will entertain you at theirs if you wont at yours, and most will want to cometo yours to do a 3some, due to having kids etc at home, so you always will struggle as them little details improove your chances massivly

But sometimes us guys dont want to accom because of kids at home also...... works both ways"

i know but counts against you far more than it does a couple, not only does it mean they cant play at yours but theres plenty of assumptions made about it that stop people getting meets too

the assumption being your not single, regardless of it being the truth or not it will hold you back alot, and some people wont accomdate even if they would just because your not open to accomodating as well

so works both ways, but how hard are the couple going to find it to get a single guy who can accomodate, compared to a single guy finding a couple who want to accomodate him. they will just move onto the next guy who can as they will appear less restricted and probs better odds of not being a timewaster

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