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“How long” are your meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I've had car meets that are just passionate poundings for 30 mins & hotel meets that are 2-3 hr sessions.

Doesn't bother me which 1, as long as the fucking is high quality & the guy leaves happy.

Maybe she was disappointed but only because you had to go & she really liked it, more of a compliment maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ranges from a 30 lunch meet to a weekend away all are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually 2-4 hours on an evening. But I've done car, outside, and hotel quickies too that were cum & gos xx

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I would say she "wasn't finished"

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

if we meet a guy. we prefer pretty quick meets... they are really just our warm up

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Whatever time is available.

From an hour or so to all night or weekend. You don't have to fuck continuously, this is where the social side kicks in.

A drink, chat, snog and then you're off again.

And again.

If it is a one nighter then I don't get much sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was 10 mins this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me like she wasn’t finished. She’s likely had to finish herself off when you’ve left.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I prefer meets that are between 1 to 3h. Anything shorter is not worth the anxious and excited buildup, anything longer can get too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "

Bookmarked

We'd looking for evening, night, breakfast at least.

Guess our shortest meet was 10 miniutes

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Mine was 10 mins this morning "

Oh dear. Can't wait to see that verification

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By *oreplayfunpairCouple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

When she goes out for a date night it's nice to be a length where there's no clock watching going on. Usually 3 to 4 hours is good. The ideal meet is where everyone is comfortable enough for it to just keep going and you want more rather than needing to get it done and head home.

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It's a key part of communication pre meet. Understanding their needs and expectations and letting them know yours.

My meets have varied from a few minutes, delivering the goods (the warm up as the couple above so accurately out it!) to a whole night and morning.

Always best to chat about it before.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Comedy aside. It's the quality that counts, not time. That can only be there when there is a match between recipients needs. If partner was angry/frustrated when you left, you were not a good match (even if performance was superb).

If partner was sad as wanted more of same, well - that is what *next* meet is for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Maybe she was disappointed but only because you had to go & she really liked it, more of a compliment maybe."

This

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer overnight stays in a hotel with the men I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning

Oh dear. Can't wait to see that verification "

He doesn't deserve one

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Think it varies in each situation but the last couple we met up with at 7pm had drinks until about 10, then went up to the room, had a break and a chat around midnight then another session and they left about 2.30. Don't know if you count the whole experience or just the play time as we enjoy the whole thing. X

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "

Hi op. I think communication is the issue here. For me a meet definitely isn’t just about the sex. If the sex was 2 hours then the meet itself would probably last at least 4 hours including‘getting to know’ time and an affectionate wind-down afterwards. Then again - I make no secret of the fact that I’m here to make good friends to have sex with rather than just ‘meets’.

Maybe she expected the affectionate wind-down too? Finding out in advance what the other person wants/expects makes life easier in my experience - then if you want very different experiences you don’t meet.

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By *oreplayfunpairCouple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

Absolutely, that's the point for us, it's the whole package not just the act. The meet has to be intimate as well as just sexual and has to be more like a complete date. A bit of tactile time first then the event which could be a few times over not just the once. Then a nice wind down afterwards. Should feel like she was dated afterwards not just used for the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it varies in each situation but the last couple we met up with at 7pm had drinks until about 10, then went up to the room, had a break and a chat around midnight then another session and they left about 2.30. Don't know if you count the whole experience or just the play time as we enjoy the whole thing. X"

Good point. I count the whole experience, not just the sex. I don't take a stopwatch.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

A meet doesn't start at the first insertion.

It starts at "Hello".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if we meet a guy. we prefer pretty quick meets... they are really just our warm up "

Same for us. But I've always loved overnight meets with my partner. Anything less would be disappointing.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow


"Mine was 10 mins this morning "
10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx"

Yes we didn't make it to sex

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Most of our meets have gone on for hours sometimes straight into the fun other meets a few drinks and a good crack, not really into quickies we like to take our time and have a nice long session. It's just not playing ball if everyone doesn't leave with wobbly legs and stupid grins xxx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm on day 7 out of 8...going pretty well

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Until my willy is broken

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex "

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?"

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m definitely hanging around for morning sex, it’s one of the best bits! And maybe even after breakfast sex.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

So you did do sex.

Wow, was this arranged as such ?

Can't imagine how you feel.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I prefer quickies, short cum & go's but I make that clear from the beginning & it's on my bio but people still seem offended when I'm not asking them to hang around afterwards

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By *wanseaguy68Man
over a year ago

Swansea

It’s all very well saying all different times but who makes the decision to go there can be that silent bit.

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By *G85Woman
over a year ago

Harrogate


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "

Wow thought I had a bad one last week but not as bad as this!

Hope someone makes it up to you!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "

Everyone is different, there is no generic ideal time period for a meet.

I expect a meet to have a getting to know you period, sex and then chill afterwards. Even when meeting in a club, I expect to chill and chat afterwards. I don't expect to be clock watching.

OP, it sounds rather like you were finished so left, without finding out what she wanted. Why did you "have to leave"?

Ir soynds like a fuck and go because YOU have got what you wanted, but this is probably not what she wanted.

I can only suggest better communication in advance in future, to ensure both parties are happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every meet is different, I've had some lasting half an hour start to finish, and I've had some which have lasted like 4 hours. I think it depends on the person, what mood you're both in, how much time you actually have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again "

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A social, an hour or so.

More, 4 hours to a few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it varies if it's a male meeting us an hour or so, a couple 2hrs plus

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ive met different type of meets over the years, but always prefer the no rush, no clock watching socials...start with a chat, laugh, drinks. That go on to teasing each other, then who knows during the night and the morning too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "

Get him on block love, or give him a pasting next time

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"Mine was 10 mins this morning

Oh dear. Can't wait to see that verification

He doesn't deserve one "

He deserves a crap shag one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
sounds like he a had a preety decent meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx"

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx"

That’s awful and dare I say disgusting!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quickies have there place but if i meeting for the evening then its the evening and longer at weekends ,,,guys who rush a meet or think about themselves dont get a second chance ...i alway make sure before a meet that this is spoken about ..

never have a problem if a guy cums early its what he does after that that counts ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!"

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

I posted a while back with regards to a meet, I came on the bed while giving her oral. I was devastated at the time but managed to carry on regardless.

She must of enjoyed it as we are now regular fwbs lol x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (mrs.) personally don’t mind a quickie as I can get back to hubby quicker

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends on the person, depends on the time available,depends on the type of (pre-agreed) meet.

A fuck and go can scratch an itch sometimes.

Other times I just need to stay entangled for as long as we possibly can.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Several hours, often all night xx

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx"

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!! "

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Different times depending on what you want

Sometimes you want a session other times ten mins is enough

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx"

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The right partner and context, it doesn't matter.

If you have specific expectations, it's reasonable to discuss these upfront I've been happy with 15 minutes and felt short changed from a couple of hours.

Socials can help you to discuss and check compatibility etc

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By *ilad4kicksMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Well I always try and pace myself with them, so we both leave pleasured.. I guess depends how horny n how quickly you both teach the point of no return ..

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My meets tend to be as long as they are - some are short fuck and go sessions (usually because that is what they wanted) and others can go on for ages if everyone is having fun.

Parties and group sessions typically last the longest in my experience - several hours. Normal meets are usually a couple of hours or so including socialising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long's a piece of string????

......As long as it's long enough to thoroughly satisfy all involved, it's long enough!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol. "

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol "

Haha

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Depends on the meet, never really done the quicky meet and most tend to last anywhere between an hour upto about 5

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol "

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol. "

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx"

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon

Hi op. I think communication is the issue here. For me a meet definitely isn’t just about the sex. If the sex was 2 hours then the meet itself would probably last at least 4 hours including‘getting to know’ time and an affectionate wind-down afterwards. Then again - I make no secret of the fact that I’m here to make good friends to have sex with rather than just ‘meets’.

Maybe she expected the affectionate wind-down too? Finding out in advance what the other person wants/expects makes life easier in my experience - then if you want very different experiences you don’t meet. "
. Totally this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always based on what can be fit in around hectic lifestyles. It's more about what can be achieved in the time I can get freed up rather than what I'd like. If I had it my way it would be all evening, cuddle up and go again for a sleepy morning session

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "
. Awww !…. I think thats unlawful unless specifically requested.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx"

Can’t help my curiosity….during the message build up presumably the plan was for plenty more than that ?

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"quickies have there place but if i meeting for the evening then its the evening and longer at weekends ,,,guys who rush a meet or think about themselves dont get a second chance ...i alway make sure before a meet that this is spoken about ..

never have a problem if a guy cums early its what he does after that that counts ...."

Yes, got to be the all round package inc social and cumming is just a stop on the journey

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing "

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ? "

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully longer than I'll travel as I'm not really into quickies. But, it is about quality too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like teasing and sensual play so I prefer longer meets.

One of my fbs is so good I always want more so I'm always a bit gutted when he has to go.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "

Yes he could just have been selfish but he might also have been so embarrassed he just wanted to get out of there. Only he will know.

We had a guy who lasted about a minute which was a shame but he couldn’t help it. It’s was definitely a condition for him and was just overly excited.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "

I had a similar situation once, one of the reasons I tend not to give head until I've had at least one orgasm now!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

OP my meets vary, but I don't like watching a clock and if it's taken me longer to get ready than the meet has lasted I'll probably be a little non-plussed.

It's one of those things that needs discussion up-front if time is limited. I've had quickies, but I've known going into it that we have an hour or whatever. It's not something I'd be happy to have sprung on me as I think I'd feel a bit like an unpaid brass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.

I had a similar situation once, one of the reasons I tend not to give head until I've had at least one orgasm now!"

Yes I definitely think that's the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are longer I don’t do quickies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any meets yet on here,hoping to have them this year

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm on day 7 out of 8...going pretty well "

Is day 9 my cinema room ?

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I’m not really into quickies, I like a nice deep intense session of several hours

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "

Did he roll over and start reading the racing post whilst lighting a fag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.

Did he roll over and start reading the racing post whilst lighting a fag ? "

No lol he started saying he was tired and yawning. I expected abit more after a year of talking.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

For us many guys tell us how long they’ll last etc, etc but it usually ends up 30 mins of foreplay and 30 mins of intercourse with no repeat.

One of our worst meets was where the guy just pounded away slowing down and speeding up for ages. It was incredibly boring as he just concentrated on lasting as long as possible. Longer is not always better.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A great variation. Some under five minutes and a "sorry, I don't usually cum that quick" excuse prior to doing the walk of shame to the front door.

Others half an hour to an hour. Perfect for me. Not a five minute wonder, but not too long and drawn-out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I'm feeding the other person too and socialising, chilling etc.

An entire evening is a preference but not less than a couple of hours and that not necessarily any/all or much play, depends on the mood. No set time limits unless an unsuspecting hubby is due home as it's inadvisable to be forced to run and leave his Mrs tied to the bed

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depends on what I'm looking for on the night

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"A great variation. Some under five minutes and a "sorry, I don't usually cum that quick" excuse prior to doing the walk of shame to the front door.

Others half an hour to an hour. Perfect for me. Not a five minute wonder, but not too long and drawn-out. "

Haha that’s funny, do they not ever attempt a second pop?

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

It’s not the time as such but how it makes me feel. That said, a bit of suggestive flirting, kissing and the running over of hands, preferably followed by her coming hard on my face as an entree probably smash the hour mark before we even reach the main (inter) course.

There are occasions when you are both just primed for a good, hard, deep, passionate, release giving fuck where 10 mins may be possible. But even then I’d want time for dolce xx

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Usually an evening or a weekend depends on if it's just for the sexy stuff or social stuff too

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I like them to stay a while, if I’m enjoying it. Over night is great.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything. "

The least he could have done was do oral on you he may well of then recovered enough to fuck you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I like long lazy afternoon. Sex, chat just a relaxed time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 nights.. Its still not long enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk. "

Do you really think you add anything to the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Can’t help my curiosity….during the message build up presumably the plan was for plenty more than that ?"

Yes, all the message build up was fine and we planned some good (and longer) fun in the hotel room. I think he just lied to me tbh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not one for quickies I like at least a few hours play

Ideally I like over night stays so you can wake up in the morning and carry on playing

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I’m clear that I meet for socials first and I expect that to take at least an hour if I’ve made an effort to get ready to go out! If we click then it’s been made clear prior to meeting that I look for over night stays if we are going to play too. I like to make the most of my free time so a couple of hours I’d be disappointed, irritated and wouldn’t be planning another meet with the same person

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon

Hi op. I think communication is the issue here. For me a meet definitely isn’t just about the sex. If the sex was 2 hours then the meet itself would probably last at least 4 hours including‘getting to know’ time and an affectionate wind-down afterwards. Then again - I make no secret of the fact that I’m here to make good friends to have sex with rather than just ‘meets’.

Maybe she expected the affectionate wind-down too? Finding out in advance what the other person wants/expects makes life easier in my experience - then if you want very different experiences you don’t meet. "

This, I would expect a whole afternoon/evening with someone. I like long slow sensual sessions. 2 hours from walking in the door to leaving isn't long enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like more slow sensual meets too, but the couple I meet regularly see our meets as purely functional really, so an hour tops after mrs has cum a few times. I've suggested a more relaxed evening meet but so fsr it hasn't happened. Having said that, I'm grateful for what we do manage as otherwise life would be much less fun.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.

Do you really think you add anything to the forums?"

Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always got down to business because we've chatted so much before hand and duration few hours to whole night always well enjoy by both seem to have a cheeky session in the morning just to nail it as a thank you

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Definitely prefer the longer playtimes. A full afternoon, or an over nighter float my boat.

Quickies only if at a club. Then it's quickie after quickie after quickie!

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"if we meet a guy. we prefer pretty quick meets... they are really just our warm up "

Sheesh…. What a way to make an individual feel special. I’d prefer to be part of the main course as opposed to just being a play thing to “warm you up”, surely as a couple that’s what you have each other for no?

If you couldn’t already quickies are not my thing in the slightest…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cum and go gangbang at a hotel can last all afternoon with guys lasting anywhere from 30 seconds to ten mins

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

as sensualists, we don't really enjoy wham bam quickies. Build it up and slow it down again, Build up and slow down, build and slow the pace so by the end its pretty intense. That takes time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, that's the point for us, it's the whole package not just the act. The meet has to be intimate as well as just sexual and has to be more like a complete date. A bit of tactile time first then the event which could be a few times over not just the once. Then a nice wind down afterwards. Should feel like she was dated afterwards not just used for the sex. "

This! Please

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon "

Just out of curiosity did you make her cum? Were you clock watching?

We had a guy once who was clock watching..its a complete turn off and quite rude actually..if you don't have the time to enjoy yourself then don't come and rush it.

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

The poor guy might suffer from premature ejaculation and may be embarrassed he didn’t perform. We’ve had this before. Maybe it’s a compliment at how good you are ?

That's possible yes but other things can be done while he gets ready again for example oral on me he didn't do anything.

I had a similar situation once, one of the reasons I tend not to give head until I've had at least one orgasm now!

Yes I definitely think that's the answer "

I would of apologised and heading straight down to return the favour and then restart the old engine and go again so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on day 7 out of 8...going pretty well "

Would love to join

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Between 4 and 6 feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.

Do you really think you add anything to the forums?

Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not! "

I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.

Do you really think you add anything to the forums?

Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!

I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves. "

Thank you. It is moments from people so breath-takingly unaware of irony that makes our day, and explains so much. Enjoy the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.

Do you really think you add anything to the forums?

Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!

I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves.

Thank you. It is moments from people so breath-takingly unaware of irony that makes our day, and explains so much. Enjoy the thread "

It's it comments like that which demonstrate your arrogance and self importance. I really doubt anyone wants you here, certainly with an attitude like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 hours + is good - not a great fan of quickies, but they can be a great buzz

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Might seem like an odd question but I had a meet recently, my first in a while, and she seemed a little disappointed when I was “finished” (aka done in ) and had to leave.

It was no quicky either - great fun over about two hours, which to be honest for me is a bit of a marathon

Just out of curiosity did you make her cum? Were you clock watching?

We had a guy once who was clock watching..its a complete turn off and quite rude actually..if you don't have the time to enjoy yourself then don't come and rush it."

Maybe he had to be home in time for his wife.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Mine was 10 mins this morning 10 minutes wow that's horrible xxx

Yes we didn't make it to sex

Thats a relief. Or was it ?

For him yes he was done after a bj me nothing

Had someone who did this to me! First person I ever met on fab! He still pesters me to meet again 6 months later. You can imagine just how eager I am to do that again

Sorry to hear about both your meets girls, they really suck (absolutely no pun intended).

I had a bad hotel one once. He turned up and was already hard, he literally just turned me round, pulled my leggings down a bit, put it in, came in about 30 seconds, then just left. I felt like I should have charged him, he had no consideration for me at all xx

Oh my God that's awful!! I mean, that's how one of my meets started, but it was pre agreed, and he obviously stuck around and we carried on playing and fucking for a few hours!

You were literally used!!

Yep

I had another meet previously that started the same way, through the door he pinned me against a wall and went straight in. But I ended up staying the night, had a great time, and we became FWB for a while.

This guy literally just used me as a quick cum dump.

Worst. Meet. Ever! Xx

I got beat up on a hotel meet!!

I'm very sorry to hear that. Although a tad ironic considering your profession. Xx

I'd never strike back at a woman soldier or not I just ran off naked with clothes in hand and got dressed in fire exit...... As a wine bottle was lobbed at me lol.

Christ, were you really that bad? lol

That's the thing it was amazing up until I went for a quick shower came out she was shit faced and went bat shit crazy on me....... She had underlying issues of ex partner lol.

Probably that she was nuts! And a lightweight if she ended up like during the length of a shower xx

"Lightweight"? Ah yes as it is so good to be able to knock back a bottle of wine and not feel it. At least it was after - informed consent disappears when you are d*unk.

Do you really think you add anything to the forums?

Sorry you take things so personally. You may want to consider why that is. The comment was off Op topic but challenging you calling someone "nuts", and joking they are a "lightweight" about their drinking. Or do you object to the very real issue of informed consent and alcohol? Any time one party is d*unk (as it would seem in this violent side-bar) getting out is the best thing to do - soldier or not!

I'm just wondering why you think the community wants some self appointed, self righteous busy bodies inflicting their off topic views on people that have no interest in hearing it. A forum already with moderations no less. Even your profile is slightly offensive, the unwanted and unsolicited police imposing themselves to protect us against ourselves.

Thank you. It is moments from people so breath-takingly unaware of irony that makes our day, and explains so much. Enjoy the thread

It's it comments like that which demonstrate your arrogance and self importance. I really doubt anyone wants you here, certainly with an attitude like that."

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