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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who likes to take control the most when fucking?

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By *omerset1976Man
over a year ago

Burnham

That’ll be me… only found this out over the last few years.. my Dom sides really come out!

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

I’m equally open to either.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I take control, but not just for fucking.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I have an assertive side, not when “fucking” though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to switch

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Totally sub x

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do both but I’m naturally wayyy more submissive than dominant. Depends on the partner though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just lie there and make them do all the work!

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Who likes to take control the most when fucking? "

Both sub

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch


"I'll just lie there and make them do all the work! "

As any good boy should

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

I control.....

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent

Day to day, chilled and quiet

However in the bedroom becoming very much a Dom ( when agreed)

Enjoying rougher play, taking control, having someone submit and give themselves to me

..... Then after a nice chilled cup of tea again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a sub with guys but more dominant with other women xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more in charge than dominant, but happy to submit and do what I'm told as well. I'm not into making ladies look like I'm going to put them in the oven - can't be arsed learning the art, but happy to restrain with no finesse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll just lie there and make them do all the work!

As any good boy should "

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch


"I'll just lie there and make them do all the work!

As any good boy should

"

Working hard to pleasure miss.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I would suggest taking control when it comes to sex is not necessarily a Dom/Sub matter nor an indicator of a Dom/sub relationship in a D/S sense, nor indicates a dominant or submissive.

I think this is a mistake made by both the uneducated media and those who watch porn's representation of D/S.

The general view in the scene is that D/S is about negotiated power exchange.

What happens in the bedroom is not the hallmark of D/S, but a factor taken into account in seeing whether D/S exists.

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By *Sweet94Couple
over a year ago

dunfermline

We both enjoy to switch but mr enjoys the submissive side more and I enjoy being dominant, even more fun when my strap on comes out

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

I’m very Dom in my daily life but a natural sub to W in the bedroom, I will switch though, but I actually prefer not too, I love the fact he takes control, he also makes all the suggestions as to what our next encounter will be…. I really like that dynamic

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Domme but can top from the bottom

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By *ischievous_mickMan
over a year ago

north west

Verny much an obedient submissive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much a Dom when it comes to antics between the sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky sub into punishment and torture

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I'm very much a Dom when it comes to antics between the sheets "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain the meaning of Dom and Sub in the context of and it’s relevance to sex?

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I’m a walkover in life until I’m in a sexual situation, then I’m a Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub mainly !

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I'm a bratty switch so definitely depends on the person I'm playing with. Mr on the other hand is definitely dom xT

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm a bratty switch so definitely depends on the person I'm playing with. Mr on the other hand is definitely dom xT "

Ok highly attracted to “Bratty”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very much a Dom when it comes to antics between the sheets

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I usually just like to be equal.

But Domme in a D/s dynamic

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Probably 60/40 D/S.

But variety is fun!

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