FabSwingers.com forum: getting women to answer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am new to this ? Any advice anyone ?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's up to them if they answer you, many women get literally hundreds of messages a day, can't blame them if they don't get back to everyone.

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

We're unpredictable I am afraid. A guy who I may ignore one night, I might respond to another night. Luck of the draw.

I can tell you that its best to make sure that you fit their wants and likes as closely as possible. I have just been messaged by a guy who lives miles away from me, who can't accommodate, and who is looking for a regular partner. If he had read my profile he would have seen that he doesn't fulfil any criteria on there. It wastes the guys time and my time when that happens.

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Main piece of advise, is always read the profile before sending a message, I've already got a rant status message on tonight after receiving 4 hotel meet requests who have quite clearly not read mine!

Oh and make sure you meet what they are looking for, so to the under 30's who have messaged me as well, this is aimed at you also, as it all becomes rather tedious and put's me off even opening messages, at this rate I will become the new virgin Mary

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly, some evidence that you've resd their profile will help enormously.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

First thanks girls for all the replies advice i do read the profiles

some are funny some have lots of criteria i am average size might not help but find i re message the same people but feel i have to due to small amount of local women/people