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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Well that was just rude block and move on don't need to put up with that nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a horrible thing for them to do and say. Block and forget about them and find the people who will appreciate you and be open/honest all the way.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Well you're the ones with great pictures and 20 great verifications so guessing they are probably just time wasters....I wouldn't let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that when people become unnecessarily rude, they're usually compensating or covering up for something.

Dry your eyes, block them, and remember that you are beautiful, and that not everyone is like that, they're a minority, and one I hope we can entirely get rid of!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Some bollocks from someone you don’t know and you don’t need to care about it. Please don’t let it upset you. It’s unlikely to be the last time (unfortunately).

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your lovely, warm, kind and beautiful replies.

We really do appreciate it, very very much xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them, don't let the minority spoil your fun, just move on, there loss x

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By *cotsboyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

As said block and ignore don’t let them get you down Easier said than done. You look amazing from your profile photos

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind. "

It's their loss. Don't let idiots put you off. Your pics are fantastic. I don't really need to say any more

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

That was disgusting behaviour.

No need at all.

I hope you do find the type of people you are looking for.

There are good, courteous people on this site.

Don't let one wanker spoil your fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ppl are just awful ignore them an be happy ??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Catches ya off guard doesn't it.

Coz of my profile text I'm told daily to fuck off and leave the site and that I shouldn't be here, that I'm scum etc.

Fair do's if I've got into a barny with someone, but these are people I've never had any dealings with. Total randoms.

If I'm feeling particularly emosh it can bother me I can't deny it. Just no need.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP...there's literally nothing wrong with you, other than the fact you're nigh on 200 miles away from us.

If it's abusive, report the twat.

(Bry)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Aww that's horrible, some people are just total twats and it's easy to rude behind a pc screen.

Don't take it to heart, I think you both look good, it sounds as if you had a lucky escape from them tbf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always block people that are rude

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By *upert1000Man
over a year ago

enfield


"We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind. "

Please don’t let a rude idiot ruin it for you . You’re stunning !! Their loss if you ask me xx

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines

No time for rudeness or diisreectful people and unfortunately there are some on here.

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may be looking for a big cock, but it would appear she is married to one already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much for your kind replies.

It does mean a lot. You have proven that there are decent, genuine people here.

All the best for 2022 xxxxxx

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

You're gorgeous. Don't take any notice. Obviously they're a bit not right in the head.

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Share their profile so others can block

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

You have a fantastic profile and pics,ignore the haters,press that block button,there are loads of really good people here,stay positive Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to find you wrapped up like that under our tree!!

xx

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind. "

As people have already said, Block and move on. Unfortunately some people find it hard to just be honest and polite......

You’ve got a great profile, lovely pics, you both look great so just move on as they’ll be loads of couples interested in you two xxx

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm so sorry to hear of your experience. What a horrible thing to say to someone. There was no need for it. I say good riddance really. You're better off without them. Don't let it get you both down though

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

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I don't understand what this refers to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk do seem to gain pleasure from being rude and even aggressive online. I’d advise not to take it personally and simply use the block function and move forwards with your heads held high, enjoying fun chat and meets with those much nicer folk that genuinely are out there.

Rick

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

It’s so sad that lots of compliments can be outweighed by one idiotic insult. I know just how you feel OP, but it’s good to see all these positive comments redressing the balance.

You look mighty fine to me, incidentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste your precious time on people that don't deserve it. You never need to look for acceptance from anyone. Block and move on to kind people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach, that's just plain nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people on here without the maturity to be on here and then there are people who are just toxic.

You got the toxic unfortunately. No one should have to accept abuse on here or anywhere else. Block and move on of course.

But...

Just remind yourselves that you aren't those toxic people. Toxic finds its own kind, and likely thar couple are wracked with insecurities. You dodged a bullet.

Have fun, take pride in yourselves, be happy. They aren't.

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

I think they’re saying you're going to gain weight and become doughy.

There's a (rather tasteless) joke about rolling an overweight woman in flour to find her "wet spot" (or vagina). So if you gain weight, the only way he'll be able to have sex with you is to roll you in flour.

It’s a horrible thing to say, definitely block and don’t let it bother you. I can only see a gorgeous woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, well that was a lucky escape for you! Sorry it's hit a nerve but they're obviously very immature and not worth it x

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind. "

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind. "

I sent u a message

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"We have been chatting away with a couple. All has been well. Then suddenly "H*** isn’t in for small cock, must be 8 inch or over. As for female, just a tad on the large side “ flour looking for the wet spot” springs too mind"

If someone is not for you, please be polite. Block, delete and move on.

Please don't be unkind. It hurts.

I am crying and i want to leave this site now.

If you can be anything, be kind. "

A lot of 'couples' here aren't real couples at all. They're guys whose partner doesn't know, isn't interested or not longer exists. They're only interested in dirty chat, private pics etc. since that's what they get off on. When pressed to meet, which would reveal the truth, they then back out citing some rubbish or other to justify it. When engaing with a couple, ask to see or chat to them both before getting involved. If they refuse walk away.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Their comments were completely uncalled for and ignorant but look at it this way at least you didn't waste anymore time on them just block them and forget about them. More than likely they got cold feet and then used abuse as a way to get out of meeting,it just shows immaturity and their true colours. Be glad you didn't waste your time meeting them.

There are plenty of decent people on here who would be more than delighted to meet ye.

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By *hristiansnowCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Don't let them put you off which is a good point to why we meet at clubs first we would rather see and chat to them face to face

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

You have a great profile. Some people have no class.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

If people aren't interested in someone & receiving messages off them, just block..Simple

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

By the way,You have good profile & pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great profile and pics, you look super sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes agree with the above, great photos and profile

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Please don’t let someone small minded put you off things x

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

That is a totally ridiculous thing to do and very immature. It is obvious by your photos that you have great boobs and fabulous natural curves. Hubbies size is certainly adequate, I know I could enjoy it that’s for sure. Please don’t leave the site because of an idiotic couple.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If I get silly comments I just be mature as I can and reply "nur, nur, na nur, nur"

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By *aughtiness69Couple
over a year ago

Kinmel bay

Well if it is any consolation you both look amazing and it's there loss .

Chin up don't let horrible people ruin your day.

If you found a million pound and a stranger stole £1 of off you would it bother you? Yeah you lost £1 but you gaind £999999 more?

So someone ruins one minute of your day don't let them have the rest.

Hope this helps.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Absolutely no need for anyone to say things like that. Sounds like they probably did you a favour.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We have had this a lot. Jason has been called an ugly troll and has been told that " there isn't enough alcohol" whilst they still want to meet Rhi. They don't see the damage it does to someone who struggles body dismorphia and low self esteem. A simple no thanks is enough.

By the way op your profile pics are stunning! Don't let anyone make you doubt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That person/people can fuck off, you both seem lovely and don’t deserve that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a beautiful couple ignore and move on.

If people have nothing nice to day then day nothing

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

You are both beautiful

Block and report those awful people!

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