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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal

Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

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By *ancslad22Man
over a year ago

Lytham

He might be busy getting ready to meet you.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Sorry this happened OP, XXX sucks being stood up

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here "

Shame you are so far away, we would have met up with you xx

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal

I don't think so but I suppose it's not out of the realms of possibilities

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here "

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal

Thank you , that would have been fun

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

"
I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago "

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad.

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad."
I dunno I'm very honest when I talk to people on here , it's not like we don't know why we are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here "

What time are you supposed to be meeting him?

Did you chat about sex with him? I don't ever do sex chat before a meet because too many are just looking for wank fodder with no intention of ever meeting.

Hope he turns up. And if not, enjoy a night for yourself.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here "

I share your pain. I wish you were a bit closer

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By *hinebrightMan
over a year ago

Dudley

I hate this myself. Op I am soo sorry some moron has wasted your time. Its so hard just too find a open minded down to earth person let alone them being a no show. I hope you find your Prince charming an may he spoil you with all the love an passion you desire. Xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad.I dunno I'm very honest when I talk to people on here , it's not like we don't know why we are here "

Have you gone and he's not turned up to meet you? Or have you just not had it confirmed he's coming. I've no idea why people do this op, they've got cold feet or mever intended to meet, it's an awful feeling for the one they're meeting when stood up.

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Sorry to hear this OP, hopefully he gets in contact. If not go out and enjoy a drink anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here "

Sorry to hear this happened to you OP bit it's not just you ladies that get stood up, us guys get it it also

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here "

Hi op

Have you only just begun chatting with him today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you didn't get to the destination after over a hour drive but yer it's crap to be let down especially after making a effort

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Block the bum. Dust yourself off and enjoy being in the minority x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guess op is that he gold cold feet. Was a fantasist. Or simply fake. No worries it’s not you, it’s them.

But to relate somewhat, I was dressed and nowhere to go with my mates out in the real world today I got stood up by actual people I know and trust, genuine and xfuses, so sometimes I think Fab people will also be the same.

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds

His loss

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

What time are you supposed to be meeting him?

Did you chat about sex with him? I don't ever do sex chat before a meet because too many are just looking for wank fodder with no intention of ever meeting.

Hope he turns up. And if not, enjoy a night for yourself. "
I think you are right , he was probably just a wanker , I didn't sent photos so I'm winning there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My guess op is that he gold cold feet. Was a fantasist. Or simply fake. No worries it’s not you, it’s them.

But to relate somewhat, I was dressed and nowhere to go with my mates out in the real world today I got stood up by actual people I know and trust, genuine and xfuses, so sometimes I think Fab people will also be the same.

"

Did they let you know they couldn't make it?

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad.I dunno I'm very honest when I talk to people on here , it's not like we don't know why we are here

Have you gone and he's not turned up to meet you? Or have you just not had it confirmed he's coming. I've no idea why people do this op, they've got cold feet or mever intended to meet, it's an awful feeling for the one they're meeting when stood up.

"
he was chatting and I was just about to leave to meet him I asked for the address and he stopped replying

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By *ark secrets OP   Woman
over a year ago

deal


"My guess op is that he gold cold feet. Was a fantasist. Or simply fake. No worries it’s not you, it’s them.

But to relate somewhat, I was dressed and nowhere to go with my mates out in the real world today I got stood up by actual people I know and trust, genuine and xfuses, so sometimes I think Fab people will also be the same.

Did they let you know they couldn't make it? "
aw I'm sorry to hear this people suck at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad.I dunno I'm very honest when I talk to people on here , it's not like we don't know why we are here

Have you gone and he's not turned up to meet you? Or have you just not had it confirmed he's coming. I've no idea why people do this op, they've got cold feet or mever intended to meet, it's an awful feeling for the one they're meeting when stood up.

he was chatting and I was just about to leave to meet him I asked for the address and he stopped replying "

Was he up for meeting tonight and did he suggest somewhere? Only guessing but maybe he's not single and can't meet at his so got cold feet. Thinks there's a lot like that on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us a few times now. Block them and move on. Sadly some people are all talk and never have any intention of meeting. Hope you find a good meet soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My guess op is that he gold cold feet. Was a fantasist. Or simply fake. No worries it’s not you, it’s them.

But to relate somewhat, I was dressed and nowhere to go with my mates out in the real world today I got stood up by actual people I know and trust, genuine and xfuses, so sometimes I think Fab people will also be the same.

Did they let you know they couldn't make it? "

Oh yes. But very short notice. Showered. Dressed and smelling great. But as I said, all genuine excuses. It just makes people feel a bit down. And maybe they feel even worse, I dunno.

It’s all good.

My point was, if that’s what Happens in real life, it could also be the same in Fab world.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad.I dunno I'm very honest when I talk to people on here , it's not like we don't know why we are here

Have you gone and he's not turned up to meet you? Or have you just not had it confirmed he's coming. I've no idea why people do this op, they've got cold feet or mever intended to meet, it's an awful feeling for the one they're meeting when stood up.

he was chatting and I was just about to leave to meet him I asked for the address and he stopped replying "

That sucks op, sorry

Just block him and try not to give him another thought..

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By *unseeker6969Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Had the same with couples and females seems a lot of talkers on here.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Well this sucks.

Try not to be dismayed, just keep being your fabulous self.

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By *atebanksMan
over a year ago

North London

That sucks...why people do this I have no idea.. I've experienced the same thing and it happened twice on the same night with the same girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple made me travel to a place at 11PM and didn't turn up. Good that the place was just 10 minutes from mine. These things happen unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it keeps happening, perhaps have a rethink about the kind of people you're making arrangements with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was confused/wary as your profile says ‘just looking’ and ‘not meeting’...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just about to leave , dressed and prepared the guy has been chatting all day and now he's not answering , why do guys always do this , how do I alway manage to pick the ones that do ? And yes there is a whiff of self pity here

Are you sure he’s not busy getting ready, driving etc?

I'm pretty sure twas an hour ago

Yikes, why is this so common in here, I don’t get it. Is it a game? A power play.

So sad.I dunno I'm very honest when I talk to people on here , it's not like we don't know why we are here

Have you gone and he's not turned up to meet you? Or have you just not had it confirmed he's coming. I've no idea why people do this op, they've got cold feet or mever intended to meet, it's an awful feeling for the one they're meeting when stood up.

he was chatting and I was just about to leave to meet him I asked for the address and he stopped replying "

It sounds to me like he’s not single and suddenly realised he had no options left. It’s a reflection on him not you, the right guy will ceo up shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst in discussion with people, the signs are there, I think you may be missing them.

Have a look back on some of them, see if anything stands out.

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London

Sorry to hear ... That sucks.

Not everyone is like this & worth keeping this in mind.

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