FabSwingers.com forum: Ever had regrets over seeing you Wife/GF have sex with other?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever had any regrets over the fact that your partner had sex with another guy? whether that was in front of you or in private

(I mean for example seeing a guy having sex with your partner and you feel either jealous or would prefer to take it back because of this particular guy or anything similar?)

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

The jealousy kind of adds to it for me

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By *ifes a peachCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I regret the only meet the wife has had , only because he turned out to be a complete idiot once he got what he wanted and didn't respect me or the wife and made our first hotwife experience a bad one

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By *tormingJimCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Just once, not a jealous thing, again, like many people say, had no respect for her, respect for ladies is everything in swinging to me x

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Only the ones she didn't enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant imagine watching my wife or girlfriend have an orgasm from another man whilst im there

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By *ilverfoxcharlieMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I regret the only meet the wife has had , only because he turned out to be a complete idiot once he got what he wanted and didn't respect me or the wife and made our first hotwife experience a bad one

Wow that's really sad, sorry to hear that. I know how important it is for everybody involved to be comfortable. I haven't regretted meets with my wife. In fact my favourite porn is watching her with another man! There's something amazingly sexy about it.

I'd love a chance to meet you guys , maybe just a social first? Pm me or let me know if I can pm you guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just once, not a jealous thing, again, like many people say, had no respect for her, respect for ladies is everything in swinging to me x"

So sad to hear. Some guys forget these lovely ladies aren't just there for their fun. I hope it hasn't put you off.

On a side note your good lady has the most perfect boobs.

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

That's sad to hear. There are some respectable guys out there somewhere. Hope you find one. Your wife is a beauty and deserves the best

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By *ifes a peachCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

That's sad to hear. There are some respectable guys out there somewhere. Hope you find one. Your wife is a beauty and deserves the best

Thank you , unfortunately we was just unlucky I think , he acted like he respectable and seemed like a really nice guy and everything that we was looking for but we was both shocked how he changed after it happened , can only take it as experience and hope the next person are as they seem if it ever does happen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 years ago we had a guy over, probably the third time so started to gain a bit more trust. I went to shower quickly whilst they had a bit of foreplay.

Sadly when I came out it transpired he had entered her pussy without condom without her consent. This resulted in ending our fun with meeting other guys, wifeys sex appetite nosedived and she suffers from vaginismus making our own sex live a lot more effort than it used to be and less spontaneous.

I blame myself for not being in the room, it could have been avoided if I was, wish I could turn the clock back!

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

"About 10 years ago we had a guy over, probably the third time so started to gain a bit more trust. I went to shower quickly whilst they had a bit of foreplay.

I blame myself for not being in the room, it could have been avoided if I was, wish I could turn the clock back!

I hope you punched his lights out before throwing him out in to the street

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By *usktilDawnCouple
over a year ago

York

Never regretted her fucking anyone else, no. Always a big turn on for me knowing she's with another guy, whether I'm there or not. She's had a couple of guys who disappointed her through bad personal hygiene or being unable to perform...

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Have you ever had any regrets over the fact that your partner had sex with another guy? whether that was in front of you or in private

(I mean for example seeing a guy having sex with your partner and you feel either jealous or would prefer to take it back because of this particular guy or anything similar?)"

No we have been lucky both when meeting single men and B being gangbanged by groups of men all have been good enjoyable meets for both of us.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Have you ever had any regrets over the fact that your partner had sex with another guy? whether that was in front of you or in private

(I mean for example seeing a guy having sex with your partner and you feel either jealous or would prefer to take it back because of this particular guy or anything similar?)"

Absolutely not. We won't meet with just anyone, but if we choose to meet with someone it's because we both agree to it.

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Some of these bad experiences are so sad.

The violation and disrespect is incredible.

Those guys need a swift kick in the nuts!!

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I’ve not had a bad experience watching or sharing my FB. I love watching her suck dick and fuck. She loves the attention and I like making sure she gets what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your wife is amazing.

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By *rmbtsTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

No not really with ex partner

We had a great time

Her having 121 and group fun bulls and then making films etc doing it, great fun

I found this very exotic and fun and even enjoyed helping her get ready making sure her pussy was clean shaven for fun

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

That’s such a shame.

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *oner HornCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Never, not once.

Love watching her face as she has sex with someone else.

(Also when she has sex with me...but it's great being an observer of her pleasure).

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By *ifes a peachCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Your wife is amazing."

Thank you

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

Sometimes that little bit of jealousy is part of what makes it so naughty. Have I ever had regrets? No but there are a few guys that maybe shouldn’t have ever had the privilege of sampling my Queen because they turned out to be spare parts after. You live and learn.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes a few. People messaging saying not pushy and will respect limits but when we met them they have been pushy and far from respecting limits.

They spoil it for the ones that are respectful and not pushy.

You follow the rules then you will be invited again, you dont follow then you will never get another chance.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few times when guys don't respect boundaries .

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By *wayfoxyCouple
over a year ago

Chester le street

No regrets, yeah you can get mixed emotions whilst watching but I love watching her ride a hard cock and watching her swallowing a heavy load

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By *arcuckMan
over a year ago

Salford

Just the few that talked the talk and didn’t back it up when I was with my Ex

Frustrating at the time

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Not yet ! Enjoyed them all , but not done anything since beginning of covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play separate now,

Best thing we've ever done,

Love knowing she's with men x

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By *ubberdollieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

Oh where do I start ??? My ex hubby had a fantasy that he banged on and on about ( excuse the pun). He wanted me to have sex with another guy , so we went to a house party, I was doing the deed with another man whilst he was chatting with other people. He walked in and saw me, the look on his face said it all and made me feel really cheap and dirty. My marriage then slid downhill faster than an Olympic bobsleigh team! I then got into swinging and had a ball. But I think there is a huge divide between fantasy and actually acting on those kinky ideas and folks should really think long and hard( another pun!) before jumping in .

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

A GF and I went to our first ever club together. We had discussed before hand what we might (and might not) do.

After chatting to a number of people and seeing what was going on, we joined two other couples in a room with the door closed.

One of the guys had one of the biggest cocks I’ve ever seen and my GF was squatting over him and riding him like a rodeo as soon as she could.

What’s the problem you may ask?

Condoms. We had agreed safe sex was really important, but as soon as she saw super cock, she was bareback all over it, quite literally!!

Gbat

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sorry to hear about your negative experience. Your wife is stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A GF and I went to our first ever club together. We had discussed before hand what we might (and might not) do.

After chatting to a number of people and seeing what was going on, we joined two other couples in a room with the door closed.

One of the guys had one of the biggest cocks I’ve ever seen and my GF was squatting over him and riding him like a rodeo as soon as she could.

What’s the problem you may ask?

Condoms. We had agreed safe sex was really important, but as soon as she saw super cock, she was bareback all over it, quite literally!!

Gbat "

So that to me is totally against your agreed boundaries, disrespect and totally relationship breaking.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"We had agreed safe sex was really important, but as soon as she saw super cock, she was bareback all over it, quite literally!!

Gbat

So that to me is totally against your agreed boundaries, disrespect and totally relationship breaking.

Well it didn’t finish our relationship but it was not a good move and we didn’t visit another club for quite some time! We got tested, talked it through, and had many more successful adventures afterwards.

Gbat

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Just once, not a jealous thing, again, like many people say, had no respect for her, respect for ladies is everything in swinging to me x"

There are a few of us gentlemen left on here that know how to behave with couples.

Especially stunning wives from Bradford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs PD) regret our first meet. We got on really well with the guy, met him a few times..then discovered he was a lying scum bag cheating on his wife.Completely ruined the experience for us..actually made me feel dirty.

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By *eachesandtatCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

Wow that is crap! So was he a douche during the meet or more so after the play was over? Like he just left with little talk and just no texting/speaking afterwards something like that? Some men are absolute ball bags! Hoping you have plenty more fun and don't let this tosspot spoil it for you

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

"About 10 years ago we had a guy over, probably the third time so started to gain a bit more trust. I went to shower quickly whilst they had a bit of foreplay.

I blame myself for not being in the room, it could have been avoided if I was, wish I could turn the clock back!

we had a few awkward times too, but wife has been good about it. It can be annoying when one guy is invited to have her on a beach and then others come over and assume her cunt is there for anyone to use. Only once did it end with several guys using her and us unable to stop it. LOoking back it is something we sort of smile about, but at the time is was difficult

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Nope. Jealousy or that doesn't come into the equation for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have yet to find out but i know i would never allow separate/ sperate room play for that pontetial reason. Boundaries not being respcted and forecfuly broken sounds like a pontential crime to me, correct me if i am wrong.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

No not at all. Always enjoyed experience even if not there with her. Doesn’t matter if from website, guys she’s pulled or people we know from normal life ….. all been amazing.

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"The jealousy kind of adds to it for me

Oh yes part of the pleasure and pain of it.

As is when the guy is not really someone I would choose her to be having fun with but is exciting her and turning her on

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"About 10 years ago we had a guy over, probably the third time so started to gain a bit more trust. I went to shower quickly whilst they had a bit of foreplay.

I blame myself for not being in the room, it could have been avoided if I was, wish I could turn the clock back!

That sounds horrific

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By *inkybootsCouple
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes bad experience with a guy we’d met a few times but at a solo meet at his place he tried to force the taking off a substance a few times. Wife refused a few times but kept trying so she left.

Put her off meeting single guys.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I dont think ive been jealous.. ive been envious of a person but not jealous. As long as were both treated respectfully and the wife enjoys it im happy!

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By *agictouch_69Man
over a year ago

leeds

As a single guy i once played with a couple 10 years ago. We had played a few times this one time however turned abit weird as when me and the lady were playing her husband kept snapping at her asking why she didnt moan and react like she did when they played. Made the room very awkward. Would like to play with couples again but im very wary now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wondered if in a couple whether they independently thought the other looked like they enjoyed sex more with someone else

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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I dont think ive been jealous.. ive been envious of a person but not jealous. As long as were both treated respectfully and the wife enjoys it im happy! "

Yes probably more accurate

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

That's so wrong, so sorry you experienced that. All my verifications are from couples, i love couple play, it could be, cuck, hot wife, voyeurism, spit roast, he may watch 1st then join in, but we all have a good time.

Hope you keep looking & find a decent bloke to assist

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

she regreted a few but for me it is all good fun, even if the guys is a fat tosser. Just love seeing new cocks in her

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By *ibsonsgCouple
over a year ago

New Milton

No regrets loved it

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I often wondered if in a couple whether they independently thought the other looked like they enjoyed sex more with someone else

Yeah it is a bit like home cooking vs eating out.

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By *uncpl70Couple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *ucknutMan
over a year ago

durham

That's horrific and the male actually committed a criminal offence beginning with the letter R as there was no consent.

No wonder it has put her off.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

no regrets.. it has only strengthened our love.. not to mention our sex life

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By *anyasmanMan
over a year ago

Preston

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

Yes regret, I was not there to see it

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By *plotgoblinsMan
over a year ago

heritage coast

yes same here, different room

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

Never been jealous but I think that is because many years ago we started out on here just for the voyeurism side of things and love watching each other. I love watching R being naughty.

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