FabSwingers.com forum: Looking for a long term thing... But where?

By *ilverfoxcharlie OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

I'd really like a long term girlfriend. But feel like what I'm looking for straddles both the vanilla dating world and the swinging world - but doesn't actually feel at home in either.

My wife would like me to have a girlfriend, primarily because she's not able to have sex currently, but I want somebody to love and care about too as I just think the sex and the relationship is always better with a strong friendship foundation.

Vanilla dating sites delete me if I mention I'm married and on here it's an uphill battle just to get anyone to say hi - and it's nearly always just about the sex.

How does somebody who's genuinely looking for this sort of relationship even find the right people to talk to?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your wife you know you are wanting to love someone else? She's a very understanding woman if she does.