FabSwingers.com forum: What happens in clubs (newbie)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey pretty new to fab and enjoying it so far, I'm really curious about the clubs can anyone give me a walk through please on what actually happens and what to expect as a single female please?

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By *pringbok72Man
over a year ago

Horsham

Yes please !

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

What do you expect happens at clubs? If you're expecting a free-for-all orgy as soon as you get through the door then sorry to disappoint you but that's not the case.

Basically it's like a pub but full of like-minded people, who came to socialise in a relaxed atmosphere, chat to people, dance, enjoy the club's facilities, maybe also have sex (just with each other, or maybe with others) or watch others have sex. Expect attentive and friendly staff, and clean facilities. Depending on the club, you may either need to dress down straight away or only when/if you choose to go to play areas.

Do expect more men than women and couples, particularly in spa-based clubs where people can just turn up. In the evening clubs, usually single men are only allowed in on some nights, and need to book. Women and couples can normally just turn up.

Expect no pressure environment- if anyone is making you uncomfortable/trying to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, then do involve staff.

Any questions regarding clubbing experience- I'm happy for a DM.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you expect happens at clubs? If you're expecting a free-for-all orgy as soon as you get through the door then sorry to disappoint you but that's not the case.

Expect no pressure environment- if anyone is making you uncomfortable/trying to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do, then do involve staff.

Any questions regarding clubbing experience- I'm happy for a DM. "

Well I don't know what to expect that's why I'm asking? And no I'm certainly not expecting a free for all orgy haha. Thanks for the reply just thought the first part sounded very arsy, first time posting on these forums thought it was a place to ask these sort of questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes please !"

Yes please what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick me in

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I find clubs to be quite enjoyable as a social event. There are new people to meet and chat to and plus the staff always makes those attending comfortable and feel safe. Definitely agree with the "go with no expectations" mentality as sometimes it happens, and sometimes it doesn't but just go, so it in and just enjoy yourself really

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I went to my first club not so long ago I was really nervous and apprehensive about it , but it was a very enjoyable night.

Happy to message if you want to know more

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Hey pretty new to fab and enjoying it so far, I'm really curious about the clubs can anyone give me a walk through please on what actually happens and what to expect as a single female please?

Chunky's chaperone services are available.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I went to my first club not so long ago I was really nervous and apprehensive about it , but it was a very enjoyable night.

Happy to message if you want to know more "

Every dirty detail please.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Hey pretty new to fab and enjoying it so far, I'm really curious about the clubs can anyone give me a walk through please on what actually happens and what to expect as a single female please?

Hi OP

I was really nervous my first time, so went with a friend. And have never been alone. But it’s a great way to socialise. Sometimes I prefer to just go straight to the play rooms with the people I know, sometimes make new friends. Sometimes I just like to watch the people putting on a bit of a show. It’s different every time.

There always seems to be a few pushy men that don’t like being turned away but that’s inevitable I guess.

Is there anyone you could go with first time? You’d be well looked after as a single lady though if you didn’t. (Should be anyway) x

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

You’ve got 2 great, but very different clubs in Leeds and neither are dress down in the bar areas - so you could go and have a nosey without feeling under any pressure to undress.

Personally I love a good club night…but I also get why some people don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to my first club not so long ago I was really nervous and apprehensive about it , but it was a very enjoyable night.

Happy to message if you want to know more "

Hi. Did you go as a single woman? If so, how were you treated there? Did you feel respected in every aspect?

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