FabSwingers.com forum: A couple of.....

By *nfieldish OP Couple
over a year ago

Enfield

......Questions for all you fab swingers and forumites......

When would you think is the best time to mention to prospective swinging friends that the lady (my lady) does not and probably(definitely) isn't going to orgasm through penetrative sex....

Secondly, do you think that would put off said prospective partners..?

Lastly..it isn't a problem for us that "b" does not cum during an actual shag....we have our cute little silver friend to help with that..

Gawd bless ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure you should mention it to anyone, surely its up to her?

The fact that I don't orgasm at all has never put anyone off me, in fact it has never been discussed.

I rarely tell people that I come and make a mess, that way if it doesn't happen, it hasn't spoilt sex as the last thing I would want is some guy banging away into me or pinging my clit non-stop because he is more interested in making me come than having a good time, bores me to death

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of women don't achieve orgasm during penetrative sex so I wouldn't mention it at all. For many women myself included an orgasm isn't the be all and end all of a sexual experience it's the whole package that does it for me from the eye contact over a drink to the slow body massage on to the hot, steamy, slippery.....well you get the picture lol. As the previous poster said nothing more boring than a guy bashing away down there for hours on end

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother telling them-as previous posters have said, a lot of women don't orgasm through penetrative sex...it's a bit like telling people that I'm not a squirter...I see a little light go on in their eyes and they waste good play time trying to hammer away at me in there because they see it as a challenge...it's not...(they don't last very long to be honest because I know exactly what they're up to...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of women don't achieve orgasm during penetrative sex so I wouldn't mention it at all. For many women myself included an orgasm isn't the be all and end all of a sexual experience it's the whole package that does it for me from the eye contact over a drink to the slow body massage on to the hot, steamy, slippery.....well you get the picture lol. As the previous poster said nothing more boring than a guy bashing away down there for hours on end

Absolutely spot on

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By *nfieldish OP Couple
over a year ago

Enfield

Ok...seems silence is the best option......when I said shall we tell people..it wasn't me (David ) alone that was asking the question..it was for both of us......and a little bit of it was the concern that ..yes..we don't want guys wearing themselves out for no reason...

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Thankyou all

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Me or J never tell anyone, she will either cum when the guy is down on her or she will have a good old play with herself whilst being fucked.

Failing that like said its not the be all and end all, just enjoy the time spent with another couple/ single

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if the other person becomes flushed and then goes purple, , just pretend you have one...

easier than calling the emergency sevices

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