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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

An ex partner would use me sexually for her own gratitude when I was in deep a sleep is it something others do with their partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How'd you know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think it's called rope or sexual assault.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No. I would rather the man beside me be wide awake and fully responsive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How'd you know"

Because I would semi wake up

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

I’ve been asked if I could do something when they’re asleep but in all honesty I’m not overly keen on putting myself in that position even if we’re clear. But on the other hand I was tired after a night out and my ex was playing with me as I was falling asleep. She asked me if I was ok with it and I was. Apparently I was quite responsive and she really enjoyed it. I would like to know about it at the time and it was nice but isn’t my first idea for a kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I've done, that I'm aware of anyway, but I'd be fine with it I guess xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were very open sexually never a fear of doing something that would go to far legally

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

I once had sex with my wife while I was asleep, It was me who started it and carried on until I had finished.

She was asleep until the movement woke her up towards the end which was when I also woke up.

I felt really bad about it, I couldn't apologise enough to my wife. I really hope it never happens again, I felt as if I had violated my own wife

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By *yandbumCouple
over a year ago

nextdoor

With a partner you trust, I think it's very hot waking up with her mouth or pussy sliding down your cock.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we often woke up doing it /in the morning we would argue who started it

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I used to sometimes be woken up by an old girlfriend playing with my cock I loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a scenario like this, trust and boundaries should definitely to be established beforehand.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

If agreement is made as roleplay prior to sleep then fair enough it’s something mutually agreed, if not it could have painful repurcussions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to sometimes be woken up by an old girlfriend playing with my cock I loved it "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the best way to be woken up by Mr P

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Often wake the gf up by rimming her or licking her pussy, but would always make sure she wakes up and not just use her

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By *hared_GFCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We really enjoy doing this and both consent to using the other during sleep. We find it a huge turn on

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Its better than waking up alone with a full load of cum all over yourself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How'd you know

Because I would semi wake up "

Did you semi wake up with a semi?

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By *ewcouple11169Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah...i like it.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

One morning myself and my ex turned to each other and said 'did we fuck last night'?

Neither of us remember starting it. Or even finishing for that matter. We just both woke up mid fuck but fell asleep before we finished (and he hadn't cum there was no evidence )

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

My favourite foreplay, 'Hunny, are you awake???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always loved to wake up with my ex sucking my cock or i would wake her up licking her pussy or just ramming it up her from the back

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Usually woke up by the Mrs with a bj if she’s been out with friends having drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How'd you know

Because I would semi wake up "

So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.


"I think it's called rope or sexual assault."

Technically in law you are correct in that informed consent has not been given. The party involved however would have to deem it as such and make a formal complaint. Is that likely in a loving relationship.

Some of the more sensual moments in my relationships have been to awake to my partner sucking my cock......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How'd you know

Because I would semi wake up

So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then. "

Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms

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By *host202088Man
over a year ago

south

That’s called sexual assault my dear friend

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

'Sleep sex', can be very VERY erotic and horny.

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

I used to love being woken by my ex when she gave me a bj. Once she managed to mount me before I woke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How'd you know

Because I would semi wake up

So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.

Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms"

Yes dear, I do know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How'd you know

Because I would semi wake up

So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.

Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms

Yes dear, I do know that "

No one was sexually assaulted here we both liked it and done it plenty of times to each other and really enjoyed it we liked to push each others boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually woke up by the Mrs with a bj if she’s been out with friends having drinks"

They are great nights

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By *un_ajMan
over a year ago

Durham

Woken a few up in my time after waking for a kinky dream and just started eating them

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By *ilverfoxcharlieMan
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Its better than waking up alone with a full load of cum all over yourself lol "

This! Lol

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By *ilverfoxcharlieMan
over a year ago

Maidstone


"How'd you know

Because I would semi wake up

So you weren't being 'used' while in a deep sleep at all then.

Anything started while the other person is asleep, is assault. If you are not conscious to give consent, it's assault. If this was the other way around, ppl would be up on arms"

That entirely depends on the people involved! If you've got the right relationship and consented beforehand then all this talk of assault is quite insulting.

Ive told my wife to use me whenever she wants, don't care if I'm asleep. If she has an urge, I want to help fulfil it. Honestly the best way of being woken up!!! Even if it's 4am I don't care lol!!!

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By *reengirl911Couple
over a year ago

inverness

Been woken up multiple times with my cock getting sucked in the morning…. Great way to start the day

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus

cannot believe some of the comments on this thread! There are really men that are not chuffed to bits if their partner initiates sex at anytime, awake or otherwise??! FFS; it is the stuff of dreams!

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Yes I’ve tried multiple times as I tend to wake up first and get bored waiting mostly on the weekends

Bx

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I have no problems with being woken up gently by Mr.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Chunky's 'ding-dong' services are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One morning myself and my ex turned to each other and said 'did we fuck last night'?

Neither of us remember starting it. Or even finishing for that matter. We just both woke up mid fuck but fell asleep before we finished (and he hadn't cum there was no evidence )"

This has happened to is a couple of times. Neither one of us are sure who started it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never ever do that to each other

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

I have my wife's permission to start sexual activity in the middle of the night.

She wears panties and shorts - in 19 years of knowing each other I've never even tried!

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By *ellsuitedMan
over a year ago

Elstree

I was once asked to wake her up using my tongue....she left the key hidden by the front door.

I quietly let myself in, undressed, went upstairs and licked her until she whispered...."Fuck me".

I did....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the right circumstance or role play it could be very hot

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
over a year ago

Lingfield

I've woken many times to find Jane sucking my cock or she's got me hard then wiggled back onto my cock as I sleep.

I've slipped inside her a few times and even cum before. She loves waking up to find a pussy full but it's very rare she doesn't wake before I cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've woken many times to find Jane sucking my cock or she's got me hard then wiggled back onto my cock as I sleep.

I've slipped inside her a few times and even cum before. She loves waking up to find a pussy full but it's very rare she doesn't wake before I cum "

Ditto

But what a challenge trying not to wake them up

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Woke up hubby many times with me sitting on his cock

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus


"I've woken many times to find Jane sucking my cock or she's got me hard then wiggled back onto my cock as I sleep.

I've slipped inside her a few times and even cum before. She loves waking up to find a pussy full but it's very rare she doesn't wake before I cum

Ditto

But what a challenge trying not to wake them up "

depend how tired!

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"An ex partner would use me sexually for her own gratitude when I was in deep a sleep is it something others do with their partner "

Had you.spomen about this first and agreed? If not that's assault..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Woke up hubby many times with me sitting on his cock"

You are a keeper lol

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By *teveandJAneCouple
over a year ago

Lewes

All these barrack room lawyers!!.. lol

Jane and I have said we want each other to go with it if we want to. Horny to talk about horny to do. This morning was the most recent time!!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex Fuck buddy did the same to me when I was in NYC. She’d play with me turn me on so I woke up hot and ready to go animal in half sleep.

Gotta say it made for quite a wild night every time she did it

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

As with everything it's all about communication.

If you haven't ever discussed it then it's a complete no-no. R@pe as has been mentioned already.

Early in our relationship we were having a d*unk fuck in bed when I started passing out and fell asleep.

He stopped straight away but mentioned it the next day.

I told him I was fine with it, even if he wanted to start it while I slept.

He's done it 3 or 4 times. Though once was just a hand job, not sure how he managed that!

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Can of worms comes to mind. My ex was always horny rampant in drink and be quite wild but this was usually just before the coma state, she would want all kinds of acts and rough just before falling asleep into a coma for 10 hours. This backfired during and after divorce and led to some pretty nasty and serious accusations and character assassination and I refuse to do rough now and certainly wouldn't touch a falling down d*unk woman, I'll stick to ladies who like erotic and sensual and don't drink like a navvy.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Sleep creap love it

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Love it when I get woken where my morning wood is taken advantage of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would rather be awake and enjoy it

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By *ombull15Man
over a year ago

essex

I got a regular lady who loves me waking her by fucking her thst much she leaves a key out under mat for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a ex long ago who woke me up as she rode me bare. I just enjoyed until I found out she was not taking anything. Then I was not so happy. Hence why she then became a ex.

Is a massive turn on. To be fair but not when there is no safty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I would rather be awake and enjoy it "

Thar takes the fun out of this game lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I would rather be awake and enjoy it

Thar takes the fun out of this game lol "

Haha does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha that must be some kind of a handjob .

Not exactly the same but one of ex, who never drank, had a lot to drink.

She was in her senses but said she can’t move so I had to all the work, didnt enjoy that much.

I loved the other one who would ride me raw while I slept and woke up to swinging tits and puss wrapped on my cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I would rather be awake and enjoy it

Thar takes the fun out of this game lol

Haha does it?"

You like the odd kink lol

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By *imb8486Man
over a year ago

Weston super mare

With long term partners really enjoyed being woken up by a handjob or bj, but once got woken up by a girl sticking her finger up my ass. I had met her on a site similar to here and was our first meet. It was rather a shock at first but decided to just go with it rather than get mad.

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By *ternal PunishmentCouple
over a year ago

The Abyss

Hard one really..

Hubby loves being woke up with a blow job.. and I don't mind being woke up at all either..

I guess it's how you feel about it.. and if you didn't like did you tell her not to and she still done it?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to wake me up with either a BJ or her wrapped around my cock moaning with her tits in my face. She used to call herself my alarm clock haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I would rather be awake and enjoy it

Thar takes the fun out of this game lol

Haha does it?

You like the odd kink lol"

I do

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