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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips on meeting couples to explore ? , not new but new to this side of things, advice on correct etiquette and advice how to plan arrange ? All help welcome ta

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

1. Remember they are a couple, but chances are you'll be talking to the guy mostly. There are couples where the woman runs the Fab account, but in our experience it's mostly the guys. So don't address your message to just her, or start calling them "Hun" or anything

2. Set realistic expectations. We're probably fairly typical in that we don't do more than one meet per week, often less. Assuming half of them are guys we've met before, we need no more than three new guys each month. We often get ten messages in a day with offers, so 300 in a month....and we only need three guys. That's 99% of them have no chance. We understand that getting in that 1% is hard and it's a lot of luck - they have to fancy you and your initial message has to hit them at exactly the right time.

2.5. Be patient. We've met a guy that sat in our saved folder for 51 weeks. He didn't badger us, we messaged maybe once each month (he'd comment on a pic or status update, never asked us what we were doing) and we remembered him when we wanted to arrange something. We've had other guys that we're instant "yes" from Char who she very quickly went off when they started messaging every single day.

3. Get some meet verifications, even if it's just local socials, clubs or a cup of coffee with someone. It shows you will turn up, and no meet verifications is now our number one thing for rejecting single guys as we've had about 80% no shows.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Class advice , thank you ??

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


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Any tips on meeting couples to explore ? , not new but new to this side of things, advice on correct etiquette and advice how to plan arrange ? All help welcome ta"

The planning/arranging of a meet will most likely be up to the couple ie they’ll let you know if it’s at theirs or a hotel etc.

As for meeting I suggest going to a club and approaching a few just to chat.

We don’t chat to single males on here much if at all but happy to talk to them at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Remember they are a couple, but chances are you'll be talking to the guy mostly. There are couples where the woman runs the Fab account, but in our experience it's mostly the guys. So don't address your message to just her, or start calling them "Hun" or anything

2. Set realistic expectations. We're probably fairly typical in that we don't do more than one meet per week, often less. Assuming half of them are guys we've met before, we need no more than three new guys each month. We often get ten messages in a day with offers, so 300 in a month....and we only need three guys. That's 99% of them have no chance. We understand that getting in that 1% is hard and it's a lot of luck - they have to fancy you and your initial message has to hit them at exactly the right time.

2.5. Be patient. We've met a guy that sat in our saved folder for 51 weeks. He didn't badger us, we messaged maybe once each month (he'd comment on a pic or status update, never asked us what we were doing) and we remembered him when we wanted to arrange something. We've had other guys that we're instant "yes" from Char who she very quickly went off when they started messaging every single day.

3. Get some meet verifications, even if it's just local socials, clubs or a cup of coffee with someone. It shows you will turn up, and no meet verifications is now our number one thing for rejecting single guys as we've had about 80% no shows.

(Bry)"

These are great tips! I would second those too - especially the first one, address both people in the couple as it's just politeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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These are great tips! I would second those too - especially the first one, address both people in the couple as it's just politeness"

100% this, so many messages directed at her only. They get filtered out immediately with the rest of the poor messages.

One thing you could be heartened by op is that out of the messages we get about 90% of messages are so bad (either "hey how are you?", "I want to fuck that pussy", or simply not read our profile) that they get deleted immediately, so putting in a small amount of effort will massively improve your chances.

Also worth mentioning that like a lot of couples we aren't able to meet very often, that means if you message us today we may not be up for a meet for a month or longer. Seems that many guys message as they are horny and like the novelty but then lose interest over time as we didn't want to meet immediately, those that can be patient have much greater success.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Yes great advice.

For us, singles chasing us doesn't work. IF we want a single male we will approach them but we never approach single females, we let them approach us

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By *ornyCouple17Couple
over a year ago

IPSWICH


"1. Remember they are a couple, but chances are you'll be talking to the guy mostly. There are couples where the woman runs the Fab account, but in our experience it's mostly the guys. So don't address your message to just her, or start calling them "Hun" or anything

2. Set realistic expectations. We're probably fairly typical in that we don't do more than one meet per week, often less. Assuming half of them are guys we've met before, we need no more than three new guys each month. We often get ten messages in a day with offers, so 300 in a month....and we only need three guys. That's 99% of them have no chance. We understand that getting in that 1% is hard and it's a lot of luck - they have to fancy you and your initial message has to hit them at exactly the right time.

2.5. Be patient. We've met a guy that sat in our saved folder for 51 weeks. He didn't badger us, we messaged maybe once each month (he'd comment on a pic or status update, never asked us what we were doing) and we remembered him when we wanted to arrange something. We've had other guys that we're instant "yes" from Char who she very quickly went off when they started messaging every single day.

3. Get some meet verifications, even if it's just local socials, clubs or a cup of coffee with someone. It shows you will turn up, and no meet verifications is now our number one thing for rejecting single guys as we've had about 80% no shows.

(Bry)"

Amen x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice thank you , I’ve no problem waiting to see how things pan out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to know , thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet was with a couple it was their first ever meet too, we was all nervous didn’t know how to start, we was sitting on the bed then she goes I know i ll take my clothes off then we got to it lol

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