FabSwingers.com forum: How much is too much?

By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

Personally not, Aslong as someone is clean and tested I’m fine with whatever

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

I don't have a problem with it. Its a sex site after all. The thought that other people have sex shouldn't be a strange one. Of course we all may have different views on that but personally, it doesn't bother me really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

I think it's about really knowing yourself. You'll be able to find men in the most situations. But how do you feel in yourself? Some people embrace be an insatiable appetite, some enjoy every now and again since it's a lustful one off to look back on fondly. All about you

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned above, that should never be an issue here. It's a sex site so judging on something like that is plain senseless imo. Enjoy yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP.

You’re on Fab to find out what works for you, not anyone else.

Whether that means you have endless meets or just a handful nobody has the right to judge.

If they don’t approve they can move on to the next profile.

We are living through strange times, grab happiness whilst you can.

V x

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

If you're a good person then that's good enough for me

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

You'd been surprised for a swinging site of how judgementle others on here can be.

We've had people say we have too many veris. We've also been turned down for meets, as we've had one the the afternoon, and treid to arrange same day evening meet too. I would of bathed and changed lingery between. Did'nt see the differance between that and a gang bang.

We could of met just 1 person, but that 1 person could of met 1000's. I really don't see the relivance of how many a person has met. It's a calculated risk, meeting anyone sexually. We don't judge, and if we're not for others so be it. We currently have around 70 veris. Thats part of our swinging journey.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

People will always cry judgement, but I doubt few will really judge you, but they may find it incompatible with what they are looking for, which is fine, as that's how it's supposed to work.

If you're enjoying yourself, fill yer boots, is what I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it will put off many people but you're not compatible so don't worry about it. It will attract many people so meet those.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

My ex girlfriend would have more guys than that in one evening at a club.

I used to love other guys fucking her, just as I enjoy watching my Mistress Clare getting fucked when we go to clubs now.

It certainly doesn't stop me wanting to play with her. The opposite, in fact.

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"People will always cry judgement, but I doubt few will really judge you, but they may find it incompatible with what they are looking for, which is fine, as that's how it's supposed to work.

If you're enjoying yourself, fill yer boots, is what I'd say

Perfecty put! I only meet with one or two women or couples a year at most, by choice. And prefer to meet with similar people. But that's because I prefer an ongoing arrangement or relationship. I definitely wouldn't judge people who would prefer a series of one off encounters. Just different tastes!

You do you, find what you enjoy and anyone who dissrespects you can fuck right off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is looking for different things. The diversity of sites like this is why they're good. Some are happy with one partner at a time, others will happily shag 25 in one night at a gangbang. Nothing is wrong with either. It's up to you, and no one has the right to judge.

Oh and I fucked like over 20 guys straight after joining, so definitely no judgement here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It will put some men off, there's nothing you can do about that. It won't put others off and they're the ones you're compatible with

Are you happy? Do you feel you shouldn't be enjoying multiple partners?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and I've had way more partners off fab than on but nobody would know that...

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By *ed AstaireWoman
over a year ago

Lancaster

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
. Not one person on here or off here is fit to judge. When I read ' not here to sleep with the whole of fab' I wanna stick a bullet in them. They would given half the chance!

Go for it explore till your little foofoo content

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

I love that you’re not sure if it’s 5 or 6

Go girl

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Too much for some in the vanilla world sure. There’s small minded people everywhere. Too much here? Jesus, if that’s too much, those people need to step back into 1950 and fuck off out of this scene for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it puts people off then so be it.. no lost to you. Do what you enjoy

Mrs x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."
I used to sugar coat it to guys... I'm now brutally honest. If someone doesnt want to play with me due to how many partners I've had it's not an issue. I find more annoying that people see me as a challenge to " ruin"

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Means absolutely nothing to us. We take our own steps of protection and we're happy to play from that stand point, your sexual history therefore op, would never be a factor for us. You do know there's a massive amount of people around here who choose not to air their business publicly, you could choose that route if you so wished.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

BTW. Like you you we meet men only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex with blah blah number, Nicky has had sex with blah blah number. At the end of any day, we make love with each other and that's what counts. M

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By *lirtyAndFun OP Couple
over a year ago

Rushden

Thanks people, it's nice to hear. As I am planning on having as many as possible

, it's so much fun.

My partner compares it to food "there's so many tastes & sensations out there, why limit yourself".

Just wondered how it appears from the outside looking in.

Love you all xx

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You don't have to tell them how many people you've had sex with.

It's really none of their business.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Thanks people, it's nice to hear. As I am planning on having as many as possible

, it's so much fun.

My partner compares it to food "there's so many tastes & sensations out there, why limit yourself".

Just wondered how it appears from the outside looking in.

Love you all xx"

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks people, it's nice to hear. As I am planning on having as many as possible

, it's so much fun.

My partner compares it to food "there's so many tastes & sensations out there, why limit yourself".

Just wondered how it appears from the outside looking in.

Love you all xx"

Great outlook

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By *hades of FunMan
over a year ago

Hitchin

It's not really what others think it's more about what is right for you. If you're having lots of sex and enjoying it then carry on ... it is the most wonderful, exciting thing after all!!

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

My two cents would be that any men who would find that you are "too sexually active" do not deserve a moment of your time, let alone to be in an intimate situation with you. I must admit that just the idea makes me see red because it is blatant misogyny and glaring double standards so my opinion is very biased.

Well done for venturing to explore your sexuality further and for being adventurous and doing what you want. I say, trust the advice of the fabulous Mae West - "too much of a good thing can be wonderful!"

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

Dunno but love the fact you've found such sexual freedom!

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"I've been wondering and kind of nervous to find out, is a sexually active woman off putting to men?

For instance, in 19 years I've only ever had sex with about 3 different guys but since my first ever meet about 5 weeks ago i may have become addicted & i have had 5 or 6 since then.

Would that put off some guys from wanting to meet or even just talk to someone like that?

Is there such a thing as too much? Honestly."

My own personal point of view is that there is no such thing as “too much”.. far more important to me is the attitude and personality of a potential meet rather than how many previous partners they may have had..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, fill your boots

it’s a site to have fun and just stay safe

I love a women with Experience

they know what they want that way

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By *guyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

It’s not off putting at all. We’re on a swingers site, so a high sex drive is implied…the more the merrier imho

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