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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Easy to spot in profiles if you are concerned it’s just a male and not a couple.

Pics are self-taken of their cock

Statuses always say “male only free” or “who want to fuck my man so he comes back and tells me about it?”

Discrepancies is pics of female such as different boob sizes, thigh sizes etc.

Been on the site over a year but only one veri years ago by someone who only has one veri

They keep viewing your profile over and over without messaging

Been on years with no meets and not photo verified

Hope this helps anyone who needs help spotting it.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Rife on here sadly. I always do a reverse image search on any pics they have up. It's amazing how many pop up on porn sites.

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne


"Rife on here sadly. I always do a reverse image search on any pics they have up. It's amazing how many pop up on porn sites."

Reverse image search how dose it work x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Easy to spot in profiles if you are concerned it’s just a male and not a couple.

Pics are self-taken of their cock

Statuses always say “male only free” or “who want to fuck my man so he comes back and tells me about it?”

Discrepancies is pics of female such as different boob sizes, thigh sizes etc.

Been on the site over a year but only one veri years ago by someone who only has one veri

They keep viewing your profile over and over without messaging

Been on years with no meets and not photo verified

Hope this helps anyone who needs help spotting it."

Statuses always say “male only free” or “who want to fuck my man so he comes back and tells me about it?”

Those status’ make us laugh all the time. Yeah there’s a few that are possibly true, one look at the profile though and it’s obviously a single guy

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I report and block do my bit for the genuine users of this place and help admin and mods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can spot a fake a mile off.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Rife on here sadly. I always do a reverse image search on any pics they have up. It's amazing how many pop up on porn sites.

Reverse image search how dose it work x"

Use either Google or tineye upload images place in their search engine and boom results

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

My thigh size changes year to year. Currently downsizing . Our veris speak for us being a couple, not a bloke hiding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just block these profiles.

Recently a 2 month old profile contacted us and while chatting , the guy said " he broke with his partner , so just playing alone"

Lol blocked him and moved on

There are some female accounts as well asking for pass codes for the site .

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"We just block these profiles.

Recently a 2 month old profile contacted us and while chatting , the guy said " he broke with his partner , so just playing alone"

Lol blocked him and moved on

There are some female accounts as well asking for pass codes for the site .

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Yes, I know of a few single fems hiding on couples accounts.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester


"Rife on here sadly. I always do a reverse image search on any pics they have up. It's amazing how many pop up on porn sites."

god if we tried that you would be so dissapointed if we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rife on here sadly. I always do a reverse image search on any pics they have up. It's amazing how many pop up on porn sites.

god if we tried that you would be so dissapointed if we met "

It’s very disappointing when you realise that it’s a fake! I saw the most beautiful man on here, reverses the image and he was a Portuguese model! Too good to be true!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can usually tell from the way someone comes across and conversation also x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Easy to spot in profiles if you are concerned it’s just a male and not a couple.

Pics are self-taken of their cock

Statuses always say “male only free” or “who want to fuck my man so he comes back and tells me about it?”

Discrepancies is pics of female such as different boob sizes, thigh sizes etc.

Been on the site over a year but only one veri years ago by someone who only has one veri

They keep viewing your profile over and over without messaging

Been on years with no meets and not photo verified

Hope this helps anyone who needs help spotting it."

We would say a lot of that is correct, but there's even more to it than that. No doubt some Wives are real on some profiles, but they're not swingers. Real swingers meet other real swingers and verify each other. Many are on here just for titillation and to fool people into thinking they're swingers, it's unlikely to be a Lady doing that.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

OP you make some good points there.

I'm as blunt and up front as I can be on mine, which does result in a quiet life on here lol, but I think it's always best.

Great to chat with you guys the other day!

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We have had a few that fit that description One was a so called couple close to where we live, and we managed to identify them. His wife didn’t come across as a being a swinger. Blocked them.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We have at least one each week....couple wink, we wink, they message, four or five messages later it transpires that the woman is unavailable, guy would meet on his own.

Hopefully we don't come across as fakes!

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey that sounds like us!!! Though I hasten to add that neither the missus or me are meeting with covid still rife, and while profile says just mr here thats just to chat and to post pics. Actually dont know why im defending our profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds (or looks) too good to be true it usually is.

Reverse image search, veri trail, profile pref/bio not matching up (maybe an innocent mistake for some people but it's not that hard to get right). I report and block.

Also, people need to stop putting fake tattoo pictures on here. I find it somewhat hilarious and frustrating for the genuine but gullible people.

I'm maybe a rarity, but it's only fem on this account with mostly pictures of me. Luckily only one person has complained

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By *auti Lass and MoleCouple
over a year ago

Bicester


"Easy to spot in profiles if you are concerned it’s just a male and not a couple.

Pics are self-taken of their cock

Statuses always say “male only free” or “who want to fuck my man so he comes back and tells me about it?”

Discrepancies is pics of female such as different boob sizes, thigh sizes etc.

Been on the site over a year but only one veri years ago by someone who only has one veri

They keep viewing your profile over and over without messaging

Been on years with no meets and not photo verified

Hope this helps anyone who needs help spotting it."

Covid restrictions, and then personal comfort levels definitely prevents a lot of people from meeting. We attended a club a couple of days within the news saying it has hit our shores. After that, we were stuck working long hours for response team organising.

Lack of meets are also especially the case when, say, both partners have had it, even though they have done everything possible to protect themselves, have it brought to them through children.

Complications can and have arisen which reaffirms their stance that it is best to stay safe and not catch it again, to protect even more vulnerable family members.

There would be nothing but anxiety if doing a meet during those thought processes. Even a social one in some cases.

Does that mean they are fake, or just waiting until they are more comfortable with the situation and everybodies safety? Because they don't get a veri from a club within a short window of things opening up (spreader events etc).

Even looking at the local updates on fab, the ones saying they've been to a club, a few days later they complain about covid...

Yes, we would agree that those points you raise are pretty good under prior circumstances, however not so accurate under the current.

Can't fault the image searching or checking against others in their gallery, however, again, dates and fitness levels can and do change through the years which could attest to these changes.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

And the OP is now UNLOS. The irony is strong in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rife on here sadly. I always do a reverse image search on any pics they have up. It's amazing how many pop up on porn sites."

Some of us have done porn too xx

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Even if they have verifications we always check who they are from and look at the credibility of people they have supposedly met.

If they have been on here over a year without a veri we loose interest quickly

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"And the OP is now UNLOS. The irony is strong in this thread "

Madness

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

One or two couples are always in the cams....

You never ever see female

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