FabSwingers.com forum: Profile feedback....

By *ilverfoxcharlie OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Hi all,

Looking for some constructive feedback for my profile and pics please. Ive not had any replies for 7 months

I'd be grateful for any feedback on the photos and profile to see if there's anything I can do to improve my chances of striking up a conversation with somebody?

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

You've made a decent effort with your pics and your bio however I don't think you need the last sentence it kinda ended with a bit of an "oh"

it's not necessary in my opinion.

Your second and third pic you look scared to death and I don't know what enm means?

Maybe it's the messages you're sending out?

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By *ilverfoxcharlie OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Thank you for taking the time to give me some feedback, it's appreciated. Yes I added that last bit as someone said she was confused between me being straight or bi because of my veris. It felt a bit "meh" adding it so happy to drop it

only want to speak to open minded peeps anyway lol.

ENM is ethically non-monogomous. So basically playing with full support from my wife. A lot of people seem to jump to the "cheating" conclusion so just wanted a bit of clarification in there.

Generally my messages are along the lines of "hi there, lovely photos and I liked xyz in your profile. I've attached my face pics and would love to hear back from you."

I tried to tailor them a little but after sending over 200 messages and not getting any replies, it starts to feel like a massive time waste putting much more effort in lol

Anyway thanks again, really grateful for the feedback

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

If you keep on doing the same old things............

Then you will keep on getting the same old result!

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By *ilverfoxcharlie OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

This is true... Hence reaching out for some advice

And in the first few month I tried a variety of different things. Some were long and funny. Some were rude/naughty, some purely polite and friendly. Some commenting on photos, some complimenting the profiles. Sometimes long, sometimes short... But basically everything gets ignored.

So it's either the ratio of men to women or I'm doing something very wrong lol. Or I'm fugly... But I don't think I'm that bad?

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

Not bad at all, duplicate boxers pic but otherwise good

You come across as a but none descript, might be worth emphasising your differences

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Couple of duplicate pics and women in particular don't tend to like "action" shots. I'd change the profile pic for a start then get rid of the bareback action shot especially as you say safe only.

However....maths works out that for us (and we think we're pretty typical) doing one meet each week and going on the numbers of messages we receive, just 1% will result in a meet.

(Bry)

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By *ilverfoxcharlie OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Not bad at all, duplicate boxers pic but otherwise good

You come across as a but none descript, might be worth emphasising your differences

Hmmm nondescript, that's a shame. Not sure how to stand out from the crowd though? Lol

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By *ilverfoxcharlie OP Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Couple of duplicate pics and women in particular don't tend to like "action" shots. I'd change the profile pic for a start then get rid of the bareback action shot especially as you say safe only.

However....maths works out that for us (and we think we're pretty typical) doing one meet each week and going on the numbers of messages we receive, just 1% will result in a meet.

(Bry)"

I think that's a fair shout actually re the bareback action. I only do that with the wife, but I agree the photos could be misleading.

And I think 1% is probably right! Lol I'll have a juggle with the photos and see if I can add some spice.

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