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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do men still go to clubs and look like they have never botherd .Some wear old trainers and look so unsmart like they have just got out of a lorry or done a days work down the pit .What is the matter with them .If I had a club guess I would ban trainers and have a bit of a dress or undress code rant over .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your right. i dont like scruffy people either.

trainers are ok if they are new ones though, and some people wear them because they have bad feet.

i saw adam faith in the paper once and he was wearing a suit with trainers.

he still looked good though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men still go to clubs and look like they have never botherd .Some wear old trainers and look so unsmart like they have just got out of a lorry or done a days work down the pit .What is the matter with them .If I had a club guess I would ban trainers and have a bit of a dress or undress code rant over ."

We go to Libs and men aren't allowed to wear trainers and have to wear trousers and shirt.

Much better!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Thought you just wore towels ? Shows how innocent I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt think they were allowed in in trainers?

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

I asked one guy at arousal club why he didnt dress he said the wife would ask where he was going all dressed up he tells her hes going to the pub with his mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked one guy at arousal club why he didnt dress he said the wife would ask where he was going all dressed up he tells her hes going to the pub with his mates"

Which direction did you walk?

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Reminds me of seeing girls with business suits and trainers on wtf look in the mirror and say to yourself fuck i look stupid 10 times.

Agree with OP though don't have to spend much to look and dress appropiately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that in some cases, the overall quality of the club dictates the quality of the people in it - men or women.

Clubs with strong management polices about dress codes etc. would probably not allow anyone in their establishment who is scruffily dressed, in possession of bad body odour and generally looking like they have made zero effort.

However, when those characteristics actually describes the club management themselves, its pretty much a given that they wont turn that contingent away.

Oh and lets not forget that when single guys are paying two to three times the entrance fee than a couple, you really don't want to be driving away the 'cash cows' in herds, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that in some cases, the overall quality of the club dictates the quality of the people in it - men or women.

Clubs with strong management polices about dress codes etc. would probably not allow anyone in their establishment who is scruffily dressed, in possession of bad body odour and generally looking like they have made zero effort.

However, when those characteristics actually describes the club management themselves, its pretty much a given that they wont turn that contingent away.

Oh and lets not forget that when single guys are paying two to three times the entrance fee than a couple, you really don't want to be driving away the 'cash cows' in herds, do you?

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We have been at Libs and a single guy was turned away because he was not dressed appropriately.

Another time a single guy came with trainers on, quite smart at that, he was told if he wanted to stay he had to get changed into his towel straight away and take his trainers off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they wear just a towel, are they alowed to wear flip flops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

uve either got dress sense or u havent

or u either give a shit or u dont i guess

even the old gear i lounge in looks good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"uve either got dress sense or u havent

or u either give a shit or u dont i guess

even the old gear i lounge in looks good "

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By *uggers nemesisCouple
over a year ago

london


"Why do men still go to clubs and look like they have never botherd .Some wear old trainers and look so unsmart like they have just got out of a lorry or done a days work down the pit .What is the matter with them .If I had a club guess I would ban trainers and have a bit of a dress or undress code rant over ."

Moral of the story,never go to any club that allows scruffy people in,it speaks volumes about the venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh - I don't think it applies just to clubs!

I see pics on here that make me think "god no!" - but if people just put a little more thought and effort into how they portray themselves - they'd have a hell of a lot less to winge about in terms of lack of interest and problems getting meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of going to a meet or a club (not done that yet!) looking scruffy or unkempt. First impressions are a big factor - and the same applies to profile pics, as Obi says. I always look in the background too, if the place is littered with dirty washing and overflowing bins, I move on - call it snobbery or whatever you like, presentation and looking the part goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think that in some cases, the overall quality of the club dictates the quality of the people in it - men or women.

Clubs with strong management polices about dress codes etc. would probably not allow anyone in their establishment who is scruffily dressed, in possession of bad body odour and generally looking like they have made zero effort.

However, when those characteristics actually describes the club management themselves, its pretty much a given that they wont turn that contingent away.

Oh and lets not forget that when single guys are paying two to three times the entrance fee than a couple, you really don't want to be driving away the 'cash cows' in herds, do you?

"

Yes turn them away they are there for the odd single lady and hope a couple shares . If they turn enough couples off and the couples don't come back then no club its as simple as that

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

iv been to two clubs and i have to say it isnt just the men who dont bother,some of the ladies it has to be said didnt look as if they had tried either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about lack of self respect!!

It really is enlightening being on this place and shows how naive I am. I'd never in my wildest dreams have thought that guys turn up to clubs/meets unkempt!!

Shower shave and a dab of aftershave should be a given surely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought you just wore towels ? Shows how innocent I am "

in a lot of clubs you do, i think thats the problem with a lot of people, including some women, because they get changed into a towel they just turn up in what they have been wearing all day, but people still see them coming in and if they look scruffy it does put you off

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By *outhlondondudeMan
over a year ago

london


"Tbh - I don't think it applies just to clubs!

I see pics on here that make me think "god no!" - but if people just put a little more thought and effort into how they portray themselves - they'd have a hell of a lot less to winge about in terms of lack of interest and problems getting meets! "

Good point here-men's fashion or style can be as simple as smart trousers, a good shirt and polished shoes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The amount of guys that don't even try on a fetish night when the least you should wear is all black . Fancy dress at parties and clubs how many bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd treat going out to a club the same as going out on a night out. Shirt, trousers shoes. Why would they see a swinging club as any different unless they literally plan to ditch the clothes on arrival?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit I turn up to my local club in jeans and t-shirt, but that's cos I'm on a motorbike.

It's quite a transformation when I come out of the ladies!

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