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By *M_RCouple
over a year ago
Swinton |
No, dogging is still live & kicking in our area at least & we’re lucky enough to live in an area with lots of good sites within a five mile radius. It’s much more popular in the summer though as people tend not to like baring their bums & bits to the elements when it’s -2 degrees & cold weather isn’t particularly kind to one’s John Thomas. It can turn a 9” dong into a clitoris in less than a minute in that kind of weather, haha! Also, it depends on what time you go out dogging. I can’t speak for all areas but every site we know of round here is best from 10pm until 1 or 2am. Venturing out at 3pm tends to lead to disappointment as playtime has finished, although we were lucky enough the first time (around 4am) to bump into a very nice gay fella who we got chatting to who pointed us towards this website, which then led on to us joining the club scene. Happy days! If you’re interested in voyeurism, putting on shows, just watching or actually letting others join in or full on swapping I can’t recommend the club scene enough, it’s fantastic. NOTHING like you can imagine it to be until you try it. It’s also much, much safer than dogging. Our favourite club is Pandora’s in Leeds. There are many reviews of that club on here including one written by ourselves. The place is massive, with so many different not to mention well maintained & sanitised rooms & has a sexy/erotic and fun atmosphere and most importantly it’s safe. The Gaffer (do NOT get on the wrong side of her!) & her Husband AKA Big Daddy (a HUGE man who’s friendly but stands no nonsense) are almost always on the premises when open, patrolling the club regularly without interfering unless things get out of hand (we’ve not actually witnessed any trouble there at all ourselves). Also, the regular customers look out for everyone too, new faces included. The only incident we’ve witnessed ourselves involved a single male making a nuisance of himself in the smoking room & put his hand down my Mrs bra without asking. She’s a tough woman & although she thought it was rude to do so without asking, she let him have a good grope anyway. He then made an inappropriate comment along the lines of ‘now I eat the pussy’ ie telling, not asking. This is when I stepped in & all it took was a snap of my fingers whilst pointing at him (people hate this but it shows you really don’t stand any nonsense) & just said a firm ‘no’. Job done, he didn’t say another word or try anything else like this again. Big Daddy had been watching the whole time & actually thanked me later for not overreacting but stopping trouble before it actually began. Incidents like this are rare but do occasionally happen in any club, but to put this into context, out dogging the very same incident could have turned into sexual assault on my Mrs or more likely me assaulting him if he started being more pushy. We do find the element of danger of dogging a turn on ourselves but we can handle ourselves & again, even on the dogging scene dangerous situations are rare in our area at least but the clubs are much safer. We’re hibernating from outdoor sex during these cold winter days & nights (a bit like hedgehogs! ) but whilst we now prefer the club scene anyway, we will be returning to the occasional dogging night when the mood takes hold! Stay safe, don’t be afraid to try new things & most importantly enjoy yourselves! Sex is meant to be fun, let’s all keep it that way! Oh, one last thing (that’s my crap Columbo impression) the club scene is fantastic for the social side of swinging, which is very important to us & many others. If you want to have naughty fun with people of all genres, sexualities, shapes, sizes & from all walks of life and make some very good friends who you also get to f*ck without emotional attachments or strings attached, why not give it a go? If you’re a couple I’d advise on going on the ‘couples only’ nights at first. Oh, Pandora’s has a swimming pool, jacuzzi & pool table downstairs too! Just don’t get caught carried away ‘playing’ in the jacuzzi as…. “some friends of ours” did on their first trip there! (The staff only politely ask you to stop, one of the barmen is always getting told off for it & he works there! Haha!) but just be mindful that others will be sat relaxing in that water after you & don’t wish to be sat in other people’s bodily fluids… although it’s quite difficult NOT to end up f**king when you’re naked in warm bubbly water next to some very sexy people you’ve just got chatting to! They’re also a sauna which I *think* you can play in, but don’t quote us on that one, we’ve not got round to using it yet. We hope you find this post-come essay useful in regards to the fact that dogging is still very much live & kicking, the best months being May to end of July/mid August around 9/10pm to 2pm depending on which months, and hope to inspire you to try the clubs if you haven’t already. All the best,
SM_R |
