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By *aul k OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Why is it when a women puts a profile up on here and she’s playing away nothing ever gets said . And there are women who judge guys but women are going it openly ,let’s be fair about it don’t judge the men (yer me too) and say nothing to the women on the site for doing the same thing . I’d like to get feed back on that please .

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think people can do what they like tbh

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Couldn't care less but, no longer meet attached men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when a women puts a profile up on here and she’s playing away nothing ever gets said . And there are women who judge guys but women are going it openly ,let’s be fair about it don’t judge the men (yer me too) and say nothing to the women on the site for doing the same thing . I’d like to get feed back on that please . "

It’s penis versus vagina , which one do you think will win ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when a women puts a profile up on here and she’s playing away nothing ever gets said . And there are women who judge guys but women are going it openly ,let’s be fair about it don’t judge the men (yer me too) and say nothing to the women on the site for doing the same thing . I’d like to get feed back on that please .

It’s penis versus vagina , which one do you think will win ? "

Fiiiiiiiggggggghhhhhtttttt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a double standard here. When I was on here alone no one minded and I've seen the same for a huge number of other attached women. Men that don't shout about it sometimes get quietly accepted, but many get hammered on the forums xx

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Women cheating = another opportunity for men, so no one cares

Men cheating = more competition for men and the feeling of “that could be my husband/boyfriend!” So naturally people hate

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

There are many double standards in life, fab is an extention of that..so you'll get double standards on here as well.

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By *aul k OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Pussy always wins sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares it's their relationship, not mine.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Its just market forces.

If the site was 75% women, sending vejayjay pics left right and Chelsea, then married men would be more welcome.

There would probably be more of a backlash for the ladies playing away as well.

However, as the swarm of insatiable, dick sending copy and paste specialists that dominate Fab have a limited moral compass, I think that the status quo will remain

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By *c5th XXXMan
over a year ago

boston

Hummmmm

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Most married women do t start posts about why people won't meet them...

Plus some men seem to like the thought that they've got one up on the womans partner, you only have to see the constant threads about men wanting to meet a cheating wife.

We don't meet women, but feel the same about anyone cheating, regardless of gender.

Miss

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Yep I get loads of abuse but I’m only human I miss the joys of won’t say sex it’s the whole area of love making I miss from kissing to just playing so yes that’s why I’m on here ( ready for the abuse)

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

It's primary a sex site so why does that even come into the equation.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"It's primary a sex site so why does that even come into the equation. "

Because women view things differently.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Being a dirty bastard behind any partners back is lack of balls or pussy to tell the truth and be honest there no excuse to cheat on a partner. How can people sleep at night with deception in their heart (mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's primary a sex site so why does that even come into the equation. "

Swinging is about sharing and trust and honesty.

Swinging is *not* cheating.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were totally not here to judge people for being here. We all have needs. And no one but the person here understands what's going on in their own lives, so it's not fair to judge imo.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"It's primary a sex site so why does that even come into the equation. "

It’s a swinging site

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

[Removed by poster at 16/12/21 09:40:23]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you’ve had experience of the devastation of a cheating partner, you find both utterly abhorrent. Take my word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you’ve had experience of the devastation of a cheating partner, you find both utterly abhorrent. Take my word for it."

Agreed. We don't condone cheating. I just don't see how anyone here is in a position to judge peoples circumstances without actually knowing them, if you get what i mean.

Having previously been victim to this myself, i know from experience that things aren't always simple or the way they appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't agree with it but we're not on here to judge others.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up. "

This is spot on. This is exactly the reaction I have seen on here time and time again when this subject is brought up. According to so many especially on here it is always the man's fault no matter what the circumstances are. Women get sympathy men get blamed.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

The site is designed to cheat so unsure what the point is OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree with cheating from either side, it's disrespectful not something I'd want to be apart of but agreed each to their own, also agree it is double standards on here cheating is cheating.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Because there's a hell of a lot more men on here and so there's a lot more people who are willing to ignore certain morals just to get their end away.

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"The site is designed to cheat so unsure what the point is OP?"

Not quite sure you understand swinging

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really interested in people's relationship status.

On here for sex with someone else. They can deal with their own emotions and morals. I'll look after my own!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The site is designed to cheat so unsure what the point is OP?"

Cheating is when your partner doesn't know, not when you're doing it right in front of them and they're cheering from the sidelines

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"The site is designed to cheat so unsure what the point is OP?

Cheating is when your partner doesn't know, not when you're doing it right in front of them and they're cheering from the sidelines "

Digs out pompoms for Mr Nice.

Just in case

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"Being a dirty bastard behind any partners back is lack of balls or pussy to tell the truth and be honest there no excuse to cheat on a partner. How can people sleep at night with deception in their heart (mr) "

Absolutely, scumbags .

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up. "

Pretty much sums it up in a nutshell

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The site is designed to cheat so unsure what the point is OP?

Cheating is when your partner doesn't know, not when you're doing it right in front of them and they're cheering from the sidelines

Digs out pompoms for Mr Nice.

Just in case "

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By *aul k OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Certainly a mixed bag of options on here some for some against I’d say . Lots of men and women do it every weekend in bars clubs .. even supermarkets lol

Nothing seems to get said then ladies who flirt with guys at at the office party etc lol .. blame it on the drink don’t u naughty naughty lol

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Why is this even an issue? I’m off to France where it’s just an accepted way of life.

Cinq a’ sept

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By *aul k OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Packing my bag for France lol

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Because of the ratio of men to women on here, there will always be a huge amount of Men who won't care if someone is married or not and will take what they can get.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Time I start seriously of leaving this site me thinks, just makes me feel more shit than I already do . Merry Christmas to you all who thinks life is so blk n white .

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I believe it goes back to basic animal behaviour. So to massively simplify and stereotype the sexes.

Females choose reliable mates because they bear the young so cheating males are less desirable. Males criticise cheating males to curry favour with females.

Males just want to dump their sperm into any female so cheating females are fine.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up.

This is spot on. This is exactly the reaction I have seen on here time and time again when this subject is brought up. According to so many especially on here it is always the man's fault no matter what the circumstances are. Women get sympathy men get blamed. "

This

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Everyone is free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up. "

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies


"There are massive double standards on fab and in wider society.

Men are expected to accept bad treatment and just "ignore it and move on" while women are showered with sympathy. If women are cheating it's because their husband is a bastard who isn't giving her what she wants. If men are cheating it's because he's a bastard and not giving his wife what she wants. A woman complaining about a sexless marriage is told that her man must be a fool and there are hundreds of men (including the respondent) who will gladly take the task on. If a man complains he's in a sexless marriage it's his fault because he doesn't do the washing up. "

99% true

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Most married women do t start posts about why people won't meet them...

Plus some men seem to like the thought that they've got one up on the womans partner, you only have to see the constant threads about men wanting to meet a cheating wife.

We don't meet women, but feel the same about anyone cheating, regardless of gender.

Miss"

Our views exactly

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Time I start seriously of leaving this site me thinks, just makes me feel more shit than I already do . Merry Christmas to you all who thinks life is so blk n white . "

Life certainly isn't black and white x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most (not all) men on here are desperate to get their hole so won't demonise the women for fear of losing another opportunity.

Most (not all) women want to be seen as having morals and standards so will say they won't fuck a married man. The reality is, plenty will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rising cock has no conscious,

Most horny guys forget they are married. I used to.....

See pussy, want pussy

It's more cerebral for most women, they chose who to fuck. It's like Jim Jeffrey says it's hard to be a stud but easy to be a slut.

Your chances are greatly increased on here though.

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