FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Orgasms

Jump to newest
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

When did it years ago with my mate we made sure the woman came first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky & always had the guys focus on getting me to cum aload before they do

Mrs x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"I've been lucky & always had the guys focus on getting me to cum aload before they do

Mrs x"

That’s how it should be

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"I've been lucky & always had the guys focus on getting me to cum aload before they do

Mrs x"

That's good

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet. "

Apart from when I feel like cumming all over your tits, arse or face… after Mrs has cum of course.

Mr.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

I find it quite difficult to ‘let go’ during a threesome just because nerves can get in the way sometimes.

I have orgasmed with other people other than Mr B but it does depend on how horny I’m feeling.

This isn’t new to me though I’ve been the same for years and Mr B had to learn what does and doesn’t work for me, he’s the only man who has ever taken notice of the signs and signals and rhythms of my body

Ms B

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

Isn't it simply good manners to be polite? I was brought up to consider "ladies first" to be polite.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet.

Apart from when I feel like cumming all over your tits, arse or face… after Mrs has cum of course.

Mr."

Well yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"I find it quite difficult to ‘let go’ during a threesome just because nerves can get in the way sometimes.

I have orgasmed with other people other than Mr B but it does depend on how horny I’m feeling.

This isn’t new to me though I’ve been the same for years and Mr B had to learn what does and doesn’t work for me, he’s the only man who has ever taken notice of the signs and signals and rhythms of my body

Ms B "

I find nerves get in the way a bit too. I'm hoping nerves lessen over time with experience.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

[Removed by poster at 15/12/21 18:46:41]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"Isn't it simply good manners to be polite? I was brought up to consider "ladies first" to be polite. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I never do with casual meets until I know them well and they know me well.

It's the journey as much as the destination that appeals to me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Isn't it simply good manners to be polite? I was brought up to consider "ladies first" to be polite. "

What if the lady doesn't want to cum first?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To feed her bi need L tends to focus on the woman that has joined us and I tend to play with both of them with little or no stimulation from them (safer that way).

Then it just becomes a free for all of fun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it impossible with others, infact i've had to fake it the last few times with others

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

First time we didn't orgasm in our 3some and put it down to the nerves.

The last few times we have certainly orgasmed but not quickly as we all teased each other. Once we crossed the boundary the first time, we now find it easier. May just be us. In terms of who went first, it depended in the action and what was going on but we did make sure we all finished. It really helped us being relaxed and having our second meet with the same gal

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urious_couple_ukCouple
over a year ago

South Cambs

Maybe I’ve just been lucky but I feel that there’s an unwritten “ladies first” rule in threesome scenario?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester


"Isn't it simply good manners to be polite? I was brought up to consider "ladies first" to be polite.

What if the lady doesn't want to cum first?"

In that case she should politely decline the offer and express her wishes.

This is what we call communication!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

When ever weve had a mmf us guys always try and make sure the lady gets to where she needs to be before us men before we cum. Personally its just polite lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So we are only talking about mmf here?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Have always ensured the focus is on what the couple wants. Love seeing the lady pleasured over and over again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Isn't it simply good manners to be polite? I was brought up to consider "ladies first" to be polite.

What if the lady doesn't want to cum first?

In that case she should politely decline the offer and express her wishes.

This is what we call communication!

"

Yes it is and you communicated to me at least that you consider it polite for the lady to cum first. That makes me impolite if I don't want to surely.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yesbeenopened2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rugby


"First time we didn't orgasm in our 3some and put it down to the nerves.

The last few times we have certainly orgasmed but not quickly as we all teased each other. Once we crossed the boundary the first time, we now find it easier. May just be us. In terms of who went first, it depended in the action and what was going on but we did make sure we all finished. It really helped us being relaxed and having our second meet with the same gal"

This gives me some hope. Thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hilcccMan
over a year ago

West Lancashire

In my experience the girl cums loads!! Probs cos she had 2 dicks to please her x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had a theeesome u lot are the lucky ones????

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was with my ex wife we would make sure she had many orgasms first best way.

I do this with my partners anyway. It turns me on seeing a women orgasm. Especially when you don’t give in an keep it goitn


"First time we didn't orgasm in our 3some and put it down to the nerves.

The last few times we have certainly orgasmed but not quickly as we all teased each other. Once we crossed the boundary the first time, we now find it easier. May just be us. In terms of who went first, it depended in the action and what was going on but we did make sure we all finished. It really helped us being relaxed and having our second meet with the same gal

This gives me some hope. Thanks"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet. "

Its interesting that you jave brought this up.a lady said a wee while ago that she never comes during a meet...I had a converstaion with hubby about this lastnight.

We have had 3 3sums so far...and although it was OK I felt very pressured to be the one that came first and not because they made me feel like this but when it's just myself and hubby, he makes sure I cum first and always has and that's fine..but when their is another person involved yea I feel pressured which maybe didn't have the desired effect I'd hoped because I was worrying about it, worrying I wouldn't be able to which took away alot of the fun for me...I said to him just the act of a 3sum is enough for me so if I don't cum then that's fine, if I'm worked up enough that I feel I need to xum then hubby can help along with that when the third party leaves and this is the way I'd prefer to play it...but if I cum great, but if I don't.. its also great.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I cum way easier, it’s like I’m

In my element or something whether the focus is on me Or not …but I do like it on me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet.

Its interesting that you jave brought this up.a lady said a wee while ago that she never comes during a meet...I had a converstaion with hubby about this lastnight.

We have had 3 3sums so far...and although it was OK I felt very pressured to be the one that came first and not because they made me feel like this but when it's just myself and hubby, he makes sure I cum first and always has and that's fine..but when their is another person involved yea I feel pressured which maybe didn't have the desired effect I'd hoped because I was worrying about it, worrying I wouldn't be able to which took away alot of the fun for me...I said to him just the act of a 3sum is enough for me so if I don't cum then that's fine, if I'm worked up enough that I feel I need to xum then hubby can help along with that when the third party leaves and this is the way I'd prefer to play it...but if I cum great, but if I don't.. its also great."

I harp on about this all the time. Expecting a woman to cum first and doing everything to make it happen to justify fucking her afterwards is awful.

It's horrible pressure to be under.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Most men loose interest when cum so always the women first in our house

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet. "

Maybe I am lucky as I cum quite easily. Maybe you are not relaxed or comfortable with the threesome. The chemistry, attraction and the mood need to be there. A lot of couples let the male choose their partners. Where as I do the choosing and set the boundaries take control and see if the works. But at the end of the day it's about being relaxed and comfortable with the situation

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We usually soak the bed !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet.

Its interesting that you jave brought this up.a lady said a wee while ago that she never comes during a meet...I had a converstaion with hubby about this lastnight.

We have had 3 3sums so far...and although it was OK I felt very pressured to be the one that came first and not because they made me feel like this but when it's just myself and hubby, he makes sure I cum first and always has and that's fine..but when their is another person involved yea I feel pressured which maybe didn't have the desired effect I'd hoped because I was worrying about it, worrying I wouldn't be able to which took away alot of the fun for me...I said to him just the act of a 3sum is enough for me so if I don't cum then that's fine, if I'm worked up enough that I feel I need to xum then hubby can help along with that when the third party leaves and this is the way I'd prefer to play it...but if I cum great, but if I don't.. its also great."

I don't expect to cum with a casual meet. I really dislike the assumption by some men that it's the right thing to do to tell me (and the rest of the world) when I should have an orgasm ans insist that this makes them better than other men. I genuinely don't understand the logic behind it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it impossible with others, infact i've had to fake it the last few times with others "

I don't ever cum with meets. I don't fake it either.

They forget I exist when they've cum.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female here. Couples who've had experience of threesomes, I'm curious. Do people find it harder or easier to cum during a threesome? Also in other people's experience who tends to cum first when you've had threesomes? My husband always makes me cum when it's just the two of us, we usually cum at same time together through penetrative and clit stimulation but ive not had the pleasure of orgasming during a threesome yet.

Its interesting that you jave brought this up.a lady said a wee while ago that she never comes during a meet...I had a converstaion with hubby about this lastnight.

We have had 3 3sums so far...and although it was OK I felt very pressured to be the one that came first and not because they made me feel like this but when it's just myself and hubby, he makes sure I cum first and always has and that's fine..but when their is another person involved yea I feel pressured which maybe didn't have the desired effect I'd hoped because I was worrying about it, worrying I wouldn't be able to which took away alot of the fun for me...I said to him just the act of a 3sum is enough for me so if I don't cum then that's fine, if I'm worked up enough that I feel I need to xum then hubby can help along with that when the third party leaves and this is the way I'd prefer to play it...but if I cum great, but if I don't.. its also great.

I don't expect to cum with a casual meet. I really dislike the assumption by some men that it's the right thing to do to tell me (and the rest of the world) when I should have an orgasm ans insist that this makes them better than other men. I genuinely don't understand the logic behind it"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I always cum quiet quickly, I am very sensitive, not sure if it's a curse or a blessing lol.

Also means I'm quite the ego boost for men as I squirt most of the time.

Some seem to think that once I've cum I'm done & they can finish, very wrong

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

In an fmf I came very quickly. But wasn’t a problem as there’s plenty of distraction while My nuts recharged. They focussed on me.

Mfm the girl came very quickly, and again and again. All that attention, hyper stimulating her.

So I guess it’s whoever is the center of attention.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top