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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Who finds this a turn on, I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

Mrs x

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

It's those simple things

Opening a door

Walking on the correct side

Carrying bags (shopping) to name a few

Maybe I'm old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was raised always to do this and still do. Once held a door open for a lady only to get growled at and 'I can manage myself' message. Slightly dents the confidence but I still do this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not me. I like a man to be polite and to understand how various rules of etiquette make for easier, less awkward social interaction but I understand those things too.

Mr N has serious back problems it's always me carrying the bags

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Although I'm ocasionaly told that women find it demeaning and sexist or intimidating.... I just can't help it. I was raised with very traditional manners and etiquette and its hard to break the habits of a lifetime.

I will automatically hold doors, open car doors, offer a seat to a lady, or my hand if she is stepping up or down.... If a lady drops something I'll pick it up and if I see a stranger struggling I would offer to help carry bags, reach a high shelf etc.

I've often stopped to help strangers change tyres, even mended bicycle punctures on the side of the road.

That's been one of the hardest parts about covid and social distancing, and I wonder what the wold is going to look pike when all of this has finally ended?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was raised to be polite and have good manners, never an issue if someone objects to it.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think it just shows good manners. I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

Kx

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes I do

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I was brought up old school by the most wonderful inspiring parents, so tbh it just comes naturally to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just do it and be damned....

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way."

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me. "

Lady on your weak side to keep your sword hand free...

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me. "

Pavement side not roadside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember an ex standing by the car door. It's ok it's got central locking says I. Yes, I know it's unlocked she replied I'm waiting on you to open it for me. And there began my training

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I was brought up old school by the most wonderful inspiring parents, so tbh it just comes naturally to me "

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Well said, and credit to my parents for also instilling this trait in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me.

Pavement side not roadside. "

Ok, so that's the modern, boring, take on it. I suppose there's no point taking my cape out anymore, either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's those simple things

Opening a door

Walking on the correct side

Carrying bags (shopping) to name a few

Maybe I'm old fashioned "

I consider myself fortunate to have married a woman who can do all of those things and more for herself.

Although to be honest she can struggle with the walking on the correct side part.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me.

Pavement side not roadside.

Ok, so that's the modern, boring, take on it. I suppose there's no point taking my cape out anymore, either?"

Boring?

If you wear a Cape... Sure why not.?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I appreciate others who make life easier and more pleasant for me and others. If a guy flirts too, I'll happily engage

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me. "

Walking on the correct side is the lady walks furthest from the kerbside,so a car hits you and not the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be chivalrous when possible

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Lady on your weak side to keep your sword hand free... "

Gotcha

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I find the vast majority of people regardless of gender acknowledge when you hold the door open for them. If someone said I can open a door myself - id reply Really in a sarcastic tone and well that’s wonderful news! Now just work on your manners and your good to go!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Turn off.

I like manners. I loathe "chivalry"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m not sure what I think of it be honest, a bit outdated? Harmless , respectful? But it’s a great way to flirt still

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I find the vast majority of people regardless of gender acknowledge when you hold the door open for them. If someone said I can open a door myself - id reply Really in a sarcastic tone and well that’s wonderful news! Now just work on your manners and your good to go!! "

But there’s a difference between being spacialy aware and holding the door I’m travelling through open for anybody , which I always do, it’s just basic decency, unless I’m feeling very grumpy! vs doing it to catch eye contact and a smile for someone you want to talk to

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I’d be just as likely to hold the door open for a man if it worked out that way.

This.

I’m unsure what the other comment about “walking on the correct side” means, though. That’s a new one on me.

Lady on your weak side to keep your sword hand free... "

Ahhh makes sense in days of yore... Probably replaced the sword with a knife these days.

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