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If you know them should you tell them?

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By *lwaysonmymind! OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Wanting to get peoples opinions about messaging people who you think you recognise.

At what point should you tell them that you know who they are?

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Just a simple block and move on

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk


"Just a simple block and move on "

^ this!

Best piece of advice if you find someone you know on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them, had a neighbor see mine and she really was indiscreet made it rather awkward

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By *lwaysonmymind! OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Just a simple block and move on

^ this!

Best piece of advice if you find someone you know on here"

I suppose that you are right.

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By *lwaysonmymind! OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Block them, had a neighbor see mine and she really was indiscreet made it rather awkward"

That’s what I fear. Seeing these people in local shops and them knowing could get really awkward

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Just a simple block and move on

^ this!

Best piece of advice if you find someone you know on here"

I honestly wonder how common this happening is. We’ve never spotted anyone we know in person.

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By *lwaysonmymind! OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Just a simple block and move on

^ this!

Best piece of advice if you find someone you know on here

I honestly wonder how common this happening is. We’ve never spotted anyone we know in person. "

Been on here a few year now and this is only the second time that I recognised someone.

The last person is actually my fwb now

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Wife's female cousin!

Not a close family so didn't feel too awkward. Didn't stop at just a social either.

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By *oulivCouple
over a year ago

Newtown

When we first joined, she saw her friend, recognised the tattoos and then texted her, 800 text messages later….. we have no interest in playing with them, or them with us but had a good chat about it at real life social event and some funny story swapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should it get awkward?

You would both be registered on a swinging site - so what?

Be adult about it, if they get awkward, lay them out - simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should it get awkward?

You would both be registered on a swinging site - so what?

Be adult about it, if they get awkward, lay them out - simples. "

Lay them out on a bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them, had a neighbor see mine and she really was indiscreet made it rather awkward"

Although it may be a fake profile and some poor woman may not know her pics are being used.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I suppose it depends if you want to have fun with them and also how well you know them / see them around and if you have lots of mutual friends.

You could say that you think you know them and say who you are and include a face photo.

State that discretion is desired, that you hope that they are not too shocked and that you don't mind if they choose to block you.

Close by saying that we are all here for the same thing and you will respect their privacy however they choose to proceed (and mean it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come across.. I've just blocked.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them, had a neighbor see mine and she really was indiscreet made it rather awkward

Although it may be a fake profile and some poor woman may not know her pics are being used. "

No she was indescreet in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting to get peoples opinions about messaging people who you think you recognise.

At what point should you tell them that you know who they are?"

It would turn me on if someone did admit to recognising me x

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By *ervent X KissMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I’ve always wondered if I’ll ever meet or recognise anyone in person from here. I doubt it very much back in the 90’s someone recognised me from chatting online but I wouldn’t of realised whom they were if they had never said.

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We prefer when people let us know that they regognise us on here and then can take things from there depending on who it might be.

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Recognised a customer of mine on here ,i didnt say a word ,but when she paid in cash i couldnt help but say thats, fab thanks

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

A message on here is fine but never say anything in real life is my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody worked us out from a photo, then messaged us, knew our names the lot, he let us know who he was and our secrets is safe.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Wanting to get peoples opinions about messaging people who you think you recognise.

At what point should you tell them that you know who they are?"

I have had guys tell me in their first message. They have even told me my real name.

And one or two have said how they used to perve me when they were teenagers. And one even said he lived across the opposite Grove to ours.

I haven't bothered blocking though. They just eventually disappear, or leave the site. Xxxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Wanting to get peoples opinions about messaging people who you think you recognise.

At what point should you tell them that you know who they are?"

Iv seen people I know I ignore them

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By *ammyjayneWoman
over a year ago

hull

Recognized bloke whose pub I worked in . Didn't work for him he rented out Kitchen and dining area. Messaged him on here to say I hoped he'd keep it a secret as I knew he'd looked at my profile. Ended up having very enjoyable night with him.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Wanting to get peoples opinions about messaging people who you think you recognise.

At what point should you tell them that you know who they are?"

You have to ask yourself why would you need to message them..it would only cause embarrassment for you both so just block and forget you saw them....there would be no other reason to msg them apart from to say...hey I know you..think how you might feel.

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Its mutual respect isnt it ,like a tipping of a hat lol

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By *rBBCMan
over a year ago

Croydon

I recognised someone from my work place, and I have not said anything to her. I do wonder if she recognised me or saw my profile. I would be embarrassed I she spoke to me about Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen someone we know on here and another at a club.

No problem.

We’re here for differing degrees of the same thing.

Discretion is mutual.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We've been recognised by a few people. No big deal

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