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messages getting worse ...if thats possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it just me ? but nearly all messages now come across full of desperation ? surely people understand that sounding desperate is a turn off ... some to the point of begging and more offing gifts money ... lots of blocks this last few weeks ... i understand its hard for lots on here but desperation makes it worse for you not better...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

All the message we get are polite and respectful at the moment. Have had some terrible ones in the past but not in the last year or so.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

It puts off the normal blokes from ever sending off the first message.

Is now a good time to become strict with your filters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it just me ? but nearly all messages now come across full of desperation ? surely people understand that sounding desperate is a turn off ... some to the point of begging and more offing gifts money ... lots of blocks this last few weeks ... i understand its hard for lots on here but desperation makes it worse for you not better..."

Yes I understand that but is your wife a goer? Nudge, nudge, wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything I get consists of one word, which is generally “hi”

Desperation may not be the word but lazy definitely fits the bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo something in the water. I find messages of the two extremes. Either people are amazing, normal, kind or utterly stupid, wtf? Why did you message me?

Strange!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say we've had nothing but really nice messages from people, yes get the occasional odd ball but compared to when we were on here last I think the guys have really picked up there game xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything I get consists of one word, which is generally “hi”

Desperation may not be the word but lazy definitely fits the bill"

As a single chap are you inundated with Hi messages?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It puts off the normal blokes from ever sending off the first message.

Is now a good time to become strict with your filters?"

we only meet guys so its a little different but our filters are set up and the biggest filter is our block button ...im only on about recent messages as other say most are polite but the last couple of weeks mainly desperate or wierd ... one message over the weeked was ... i, into everything including shit ??? now not kink shaming as if thats your thing then fine but a random messase ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything I get consists of one word, which is generally “hi”

Desperation may not be the word but lazy definitely fits the bill

As a single chap are you inundated with Hi messages?"

Yep… from other guys who seem to lack the ability to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything I get consists of one word, which is generally “hi”

Desperation may not be the word but lazy definitely fits the bill

As a single chap are you inundated with Hi messages?

Yep… from other guys who seem to lack the ability to read "

The blind leading the bi ?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

If it’s any consolation, nearly all the first messages I’ve received from women lately have been abysmal too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the messages are getting worse. I've blocked a heck of a lot more than usual because of it. I'll be glad when everyone's celebrating Xmas then I won't get pestered lol x

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Defo something in the water. I find messages of the two extremes. Either people are amazing, normal, kind or utterly stupid, wtf? Why did you message me?

Strange! "

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"It puts off the normal blokes from ever sending off the first message.

Is now a good time to become strict with your filters?

we only meet guys so its a little different but our filters are set up and the biggest filter is our block button ...im only on about recent messages as other say most are polite but the last couple of weeks mainly desperate or wierd ... one message over the weeked was ... i, into everything including shit ??? now not kink shaming as if thats your thing then fine but a random messase ??????"

Well if you are talking odd ball messages then yes get them regularly but they don't sound desperate just people attempting to find like minded fabbers. A polite "not our thing" works perfectly well.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

All good for us really. Nothing obnoxious or insulting

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I've suddenly had 3 couples wink at me, but all silhouettes look the same to me. so I thank them for the wink and ask for a pic to see if there's any attraction.

Leaving something to the imagination is one thing, but this ain't helping things.

Come on send a pic, don't be shy.

Then things go quiet.

Don't you just love FAB.

(Sorry for hijacking OP)

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