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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it out of the ordinairy for a woman to demand a man wear a condem when giving him oral sex when in a swinging club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all it is what you are comfortable with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all ! It's your mouth so your rules

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not at all. It's a sensible precaution. If that's how you want to play then stick to it and don't give in to pressure. Your body your rules. Xx rog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I've never ever seen anyone at a club give oral with a condom on.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I've never ever seen anyone at a club give oral with a condom on.

Cali"

I tend to put the condom on before having sex rather than when I'm giving oral to a lively female, however, joking aside, I have on two occasions been asked to wear a condom to receive oral whilst at a club, makes sense, not complaining.... Bet it doesn't taste too great though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tastes disgusting and to me becomes pointless... as I want the guy to cum in my mouth and over me.. so where would be the point.

it is each to there own but I would rather be celibate than use a condom for oral.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected "

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"It tastes disgusting and to me becomes pointless... as I want the guy to cum in my mouth and over me.. so where would be the point.

it is each to there own but I would rather be celibate than use a condom for oral.

Cali "

luv cali's input on the forums

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

If mrs shy dont know the guy she has been known to use one for oral and all ways for full sex

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected "

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not what's normal it's a matter of personal choice.

Its like saying is it normal to have a social meet first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected "

Ummmm, what protection would be used if a guy went down on a lady?!? I'm getting images of a tongue covered condom!!!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dental dams x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected

Ummmm, what protection would be used if a guy went down on a lady?!? I'm getting images of a tongue covered condom!!!lol"

Femidom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey i'm so innocent naive...;) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do know of people on the scene that insist oral is done with protection both ways.

However as said, it is entirely your choice, weigh the risks up and make your decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Splash some listerine or equally stingy/strong mouthwash on it first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey i'm so innocent naive...;) lol"

I think I must be, as decided to say femidom, as first thing that popped into my head haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one and only time I saw a femidom was in sex education at school lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one and only time I saw a femidom was in sex education at school lol"

I have never seen one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one and only time I saw a femidom was in sex education at school lol

I have never seen one!! "

Your not missing out.

If you imagine that a condom is shaped like a cock and when worn doesn't affect the appearance too much.

A femidom is like a big crisp packet that hangs out of the vagina and definitely affects how things look lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That google is great for the uneducated innocent sorts...!

Apparantly you can make your own dental dam with a condom and scissors, all thats missing is sticky back tape and you've got an episode of Blue Peter, on I'd liked to have seen any way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected

Ummmm, what protection would be used if a guy went down on a lady?!? I'm getting images of a tongue covered condom!!!lol"

As already said dental dams, they as a thin sheet of latex, you can also get latex free ones, that you cover the lady garden with before licking, I have used them but to be honest I'd rather not have oral than have a guy use one because there's no sensation at all and for me it seems pointless a guy doing it of I'm not enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected

Ummmm, what protection would be used if a guy went down on a lady?!? I'm getting images of a tongue covered condom!!!lol

As already said dental dams, they as a thin sheet of latex, you can also get latex free ones, that you cover the lady garden with before licking, I have used them but to be honest I'd rather not have oral than have a guy use one because there's no sensation at all and for me it seems pointless a guy doing it of I'm not enjoying it"

I thought the whole point was to get everything nice and wet lol saves you having to spit on your hand to use it as lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected

Ummmm, what protection would be used if a guy went down on a lady?!? I'm getting images of a tongue covered condom!!!lol

As already said dental dams, they as a thin sheet of latex, you can also get latex free ones, that you cover the lady garden with before licking, I have used them but to be honest I'd rather not have oral than have a guy use one because there's no sensation at all and for me it seems pointless a guy doing it of I'm not enjoying it

I thought the whole point was to get everything nice and wet lol saves you having to spit on your hand to use it as lube"

I know a guy who won't even touch a woman's bits without later gloves on, I did ask him why and he said incase he catches something after he's been fingering her if he touches his cock, some get obsessed with safe sex but its their body so upto them how they play, personally I wouldn't play with such a person but that's my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latex gloves even lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean. For me perfect sex would be everything skin on skin, maybe a little lube for that extra smooth sensation.

Unfortunately it's not really an option when swinging.

For me condoms are all I feel necessary to minimise the risks and obviously looking for a partner who looks to be in good health lol

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Is it out of the ordinairy for a woman to demand a man wear a condem when giving him oral sex when in a swinging club? "

To answer the question asked - it is out of the ordinary at a club - never seen it in over 12 years of very regular clubbing. However, you should make your own rules to suit you so it doesn't really matter what most other people do.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We ALWAYS practice safe sex when swinging but not for oral.

Then again you can catch clamidia from oral sex, found that out the hard way when we got a mail from a couple a few weeks later to say someone had contacted them to say get checked out and yes they had it, fortunately we did not but got the meds anyways.

Its like everything in life, there is always a risk of something but not always necessary to avoid the risk

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt something today had to google dental dams and it sure does go on... just a snippet ( excuse the pun )....

Oral sex may be a lot of fun, but it can also spread various sexually transmitted diseases. To make oral-vaginal sex (cunnilingus) and oral-anal sex (rimming) safer, you can use a barrier such as a dental dam. Unfortunately, dental dams can be hard to find, and they also may be somewhat expensive. There is, however, a way around this problem. Using a condom and scissors, you can make a dental dam yourself!

A step-by-step photographic walk through of the process of making a dental dam from a condom can be found here.

Difficulty: Easy

Time Required: 3 Minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We ALWAYS practice safe sex when swinging but not for oral.

Then again you can catch clamidia from oral sex, found that out the hard way when we got a mail from a couple a few weeks later to say someone had contacted them to say get checked out and yes they had it, fortunately we did not but got the meds

Its like everything in life, there is always a risk of something but not always necessary to avoid the risk

P"

its not the only thing you can contract orally...hep b from rimming...gonhorrea..herpes...scarry.

not seen condoms used for oral in the clubs we've been to...but maybe we all should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen guys put a condom on to receive oral sex but have never seen anyone use a dental dam. I wouldn't use one, I don't see the point of putting a latex sheet over your bits. Why would I want to do that when I can enjoy a knee trembling oral session with my OH.

I do give bjs without condoms but not penetrative sex. There is a risk but I do my own mental risk assessment and I'm checked regularly so that's the limits I'm prepared to play to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen guys put a condom on to receive oral sex but have never seen anyone use a dental dam. I wouldn't use one, I don't see the point of putting a latex sheet over your bits. Why would I want to do that when I can enjoy a knee trembling oral session with my OH.

I do give bjs without condoms but not penetrative sex. There is a risk but I do my own mental risk assessment and I'm checked regularly so that's the limits I'm prepared to play to "

no me neither.....deffo doesn't feel very sexy..the thought of rummaging about for your latex sheet.....I did read you can use clingfilm...that would cause a few laughs pulling that out my bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen guys put a condom on to receive oral sex but have never seen anyone use a dental dam. I wouldn't use one, I don't see the point of putting a latex sheet over your bits. Why would I want to do that when I can enjoy a knee trembling oral session with my OH.

I do give bjs without condoms but not penetrative sex. There is a risk but I do my own mental risk assessment and I'm checked regularly so that's the limits I'm prepared to play to "

ive had guys put condoms on before they get a blow job too

Usually in group sessions, i dont think a lot of guys like the idea of you sucking their cock when you have just had another guys cock in your mouth, ive had guys refused to kiss me after ive sucks someone elses cock too lol

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Frisky always makes men cover up... Including me...lol Not only for safety but also due the fact she hates the taste of spunk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely missread this forum title. I thought it said 'oral sex when swimming'!!!!

Damn, I'd just got the flippers and mask down from the loft :o(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I completely missread this forum title. I thought it said 'oral sex when swimming'!!!!

Damn, I'd just got the flippers and mask down from the loft :o("

Don't worry, I misread it as well and thought it was a bizarre version of the factors and said oral sex when singing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I completely missread this forum title. I thought it said 'oral sex when swimming'!!!!

Damn, I'd just got the flippers and mask down from the loft :o("

now that would cause a few laughs

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected "

Do you realise just how many bugs live in your mouth!

Your choice but really you're more than likely going to be covered in lots of different saliva,

Just wrap your body in cling film !!!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"its your body you do what you like

If you want a guy to wear a condom that your choice then its upto him if he decided to carry on or not

What i do think would be wrong, and im being honest here, is if a women asked a guy to wear a condom for oral then expected him to go down on her unprotected

Ummmm, what protection would be used if a guy went down on a lady?!? I'm getting images of a tongue covered condom!!!lol

Femidom "

Cling film!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ive had guys put condoms on before they get a blow job too

Usually in group sessions, i dont think a lot of guys like the idea of you sucking their cock when you have just had another guys cock in your mouth, ive had guys refused to kiss me after ive sucks someone elses cock too lol

"

I've never actually had a guy even hesitate to get in my mouth even when I still have cum in my mouth.

Cali

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border


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I've never actually had a guy even hesitate to get in my mouth even when I still have cum in my mouth.

Cali"

Going off on a bit of a tangent,

How many guys have you had orally in one session?

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