FabSwingers.com forum: Catfish Cuckolding

By *opella777 OP Man
over a year ago

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Is it common or its just me that's getting catfished by cuckolding couples ? So often I see profiles of couples that are into couples and as I get chatting to them they claim I'm chatting to the Mrs but It's actually the Mr chatting to me pretending to the Mrs , then asking me to send them my vids and pics . And even sometimes asking me to meet and fuck the cuck first before meeting the MRs . Is this common or am I just falling for the traps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just not right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo....step away, OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its actually more common than you think. You start to spot the sighns after a while.

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By *amesreally999Man
over a year ago

Badlands

Very common..

Loads of wasters acting out fantasies..wasting time for lots of people.

Can spot the signs early doors anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like this site is ruined. I don’t have the same issue with cuck but similar issues with couples . It’s really hard to navigate

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Soo many timewasters op ;(

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

There have always been timewasters, pic collectors, single men pretending to be couples/females etc. However, I think the pandemic has made it worse as more bored people drawn here. Try to spot the signs. There are genuine people on here but a lot of them are currently not meeting at the moment due to Covid.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes, very common. I really love the dynamic of a real cuckold couple and enjoy meeting them. However this means I get caught on occasions by sick fucking trolls who sit in their darkened bedroom, on sweat stained sheets, wanking their tiny cocks and pretending they are real human beings.

This happened to me last Saturday. 1 hour before we were due to meet "they" (or he) goes silent. You live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very common occurrence, usually single bi guys, but you just need to try suss them out, there’s a lot on the site.

Even genuine couples come on demanding pictures then if you’re not their type they just block you. That old line, ‘your pics gets our pics’ doesn’t always happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've experienced a few couple profiles contact us, looking for just meets with the Mrs for them as a couple or alone with the male.

They get blocked.

Most are easy to spot, just a quick read of their profile and you'll either some shitty status update or a profile which makes no reference to wanting to meet a couple, it'll be all about single females.

Also, check they are photo verified as a couple.

But this is fab, its normal to get chancers like this. The single male profiles are the worst though imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it seems to happen a lot on here atm!

For me it’s opposite to the op and I get caught out by single guys and couples happy to play with me in front of my partner and they turn out to be fake!

It is extremely frustrating but seems to be a part of fab now!

I thought I was good at spotting non genuine profiles but I’ve been caught out a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us you’re talking to both, mainly to me the mrs, when my husband replies he puts his name after the message. We often get ‘ the wife’ messaging us saying she wants me to fuck her husband when I reply ‘sure give me your phone number and I’ll sort it out with the wife’ they delete the message and block me haha. We are a genuine couple, pinky promise haha

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Unfortunately it seems to happen a lot on here atm!

For me it’s opposite to the op and I get caught out by single guys and couples happy to play with me in front of my partner and they turn out to be fake!

It is extremely frustrating but seems to be a part of fab now!

I thought I was good at spotting non genuine profiles but I’ve been caught out a few times

I thought I was reasonably good at spotting them too but like a virus they mutate and become more difficult to see. It's annoying when they ghost you at the last minute but IF you trust no-one you may never find the real one. So you roll the dice....

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By *esterosBBCMan
over a year ago

derby

These troll accounts are ruining the experience and making it hard to tell who’s real and who’s not. Then when you get to talk to what feels like a real couple you find out that make have is bi and they try push an bi oral or fuck the partner into the meet even when you have clearly stated you ain’t bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are getting so fed up trying to find a genuine couple, that actually aren't a single guy or have weird notions of the word swinging!

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"With us you’re talking to both, mainly to me the mrs, when my husband replies he puts his name after the message. We often get ‘ the wife’ messaging us saying she wants me to fuck her husband when I reply ‘sure give me your phone number and I’ll sort it out with the wife’ they delete the message and block me haha. We are a genuine couple, pinky promise haha "

Luckily for couples they can get away with "let my mrs phone yours". As a single man if you make even a suggestion of asking for proof, even with real couples and women, they cast you aside like a used tissue and shoot another fish in the barrel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That really sucks! When we like the person we’re talking to me always offer them a WhatsApp group chat or webcam or something, we’ve never been accused of being fake either. Fab must be hard as a single man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it is common.

Not long after I joined fab I was chatting to the female half of a couple (apparently). ‘She’ seemed nice and the chat was normal until she asked me to take part in a fantasy.

She wanted to set up a meet for her husband as a surprise and it would be a case of me turning up to the house and saying I had been sent to him as a surprise. Sounded hot but when I suggested a social first she was reluctant and really wasn’t keen to meet. She just wanted me to meet her husband and fuck him. She wasn’t interested in meeting me which I thought odd.

The alarm bells started to right and the more I thought about the profile the more if felt dodgy.

Their photos were old. No recent verifications. She was reluctant to share photos. The classic line of ‘I can’t share pics because of my job’.

I voiced my concerns but she did nothing to try and alleviate them. No officer to meet or share photos to prove she was genuine . So I called her out on it and reported and blocked the profile.

I’m glad I trusted my gut. But I wonder how many would fall for it.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thank you for your understanding. It is very hard.

The latest trend with real, verified, single women who agree to meet and then decide, usually last minute not to, is "false concern".

For example, out of the blue you get:

Them - "Oh, if you don't want to meet that is ok"

me - "What? Yes please I really do want to meet you. we have been planning this for 3 weeks."

Them - " I am really concerened now, I dont know ....."

Me - "Concerened about what?"

Bang - ghosted.

Why not. "Sorry, but I have changed my mind. I don't want to meet you now or in the future. Good bye and good luck" ?

Single women and couples are welcome to copy and paste that reply when they decide not to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always offer to prove I'm real when meeting on my own or together. Too many fakes or couples where the wife doesn't exist.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always offer to prove I'm real when meeting on my own or together. Too many fakes or couples where the wife doesn't exist. "

Thank you for that! There are a handful if genuine people on here.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Very common occurrence, usually single bi guys, but you just need to try suss them out, there’s a lot on the site.

Even genuine couples come on demanding pictures then if you’re not their type they just block you. That old line, ‘your pics gets our pics’ doesn’t always happen."

pm me 4 info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are are cuckold couple, its me, the Mrs that runs the profile and answers any messages. It's also my choice who we meet. I'm a lucky lady

We did get accused of being fake so I went on cam a few times to prove I was a genuine woman. Although our profile says we've been joined a year we've not been active on fab until November this year time so still organising meets. We are not all fakes OP but must admit there are a lot of them out there xxx

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

I'd say it's disappointingly common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've ran into a few already. It's infuriating. I don't understand why those guys do that?? What do they hope to achieve

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think I've ran into a few already. It's infuriating. I don't understand why those guys do that?? What do they hope to achieve"

It's schadenfreude. They sit in their cum stained saggy Y fronts, iPhone 3 in hand, and wank off, alone, thinking about how they have conned you.

In another time they may have actually got a life of their own but the internet facilitates their warped minds base desires.

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By *otHungGuyMan
over a year ago

cardiff

It happens all the time, mostly you can learn to spot the signs. I try to ask questions and look for things that don't add up. Sadly though the time wasters are everywhere, I just don't get it as they'd be better off elsewhere.

Love to meet another cuckold couple for a genuine longer term relationship - I'll keep looking

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

As a couple, we see both sides. I (Bry) do almost all the Fabmin as Char can't be doing with the constant messaging from guys. But that makes me acutely aware that I might come across as another single guy pretending to be a couple. We try and prove we're real and often send an unsolicited pic of the pair of us with Char reading the other person's profile and visible on her screen

We we also get SO many couples message us and all looks good for a while, then *she* suddenly has to work a lot more, or develops a skin condition or sone other reason why she now can't meet, but *he* is still up for it.

(Bry)

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

All too common, sadly - and in a couple of cases recently, from apparently photo-verified profiles...

....in one instance, the exact style of writing - spelling, use of grammar etc. - in messages to me purportedly from 'her' was then duplicated in a 'Stories and Fantasies' forum post written by 'him'...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Aim for dialogue with both parties of the couple early on, so that you can verify that there are still 2 people in it.

Report suspect site misuse to Admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately it seems to happen a lot on here atm!

For me it’s opposite to the op and I get caught out by single guys and couples happy to play with me in front of my partner and they turn out to be fake!

It is extremely frustrating but seems to be a part of fab now!

I thought I was good at spotting non genuine profiles but I’ve been caught out a few times

I've had it happen to me to. I'm to nieve. I get caught out quite often. Sad world we live in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the other way for us. We’ll get chatting to a guy who fits all the criteria, but it’ll fizzle out when we come to arrange a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's frustrating that that happens the pixie wants to watch me with another woman she can't wait but I could never turn up alone if that is what was arranged she would have to be there

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By *lexWkdMan
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Lots of guys hoping their wives will go for it but it's really just their fantasy

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By *tstillworksMan
over a year ago

Darlington

"I feel like this site is ruined. I don’t have the same issue with cuck but similar issues with couples . It’s really hard to navigate "

It’s the same on other sites too I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are more n more wannabe cucks doing the sly ie making up couples profiles so they can fool guys into thinking its a couples profile and then go on a wank fest .... pretty sad and most of the time easy to spot ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like this site is ruined. I don’t have the same issue with cuck but similar issues with couples . It’s really hard to navigate

It’s the same on other sites too I’m afraid "

not on proper cuckold sites its not as real ones are invite only and have a more detailed veri process ... fab is free and with all free sites these things happen ...i will also say fab is a fantastic site that if used properly yield great results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All too common, sadly - and in a couple of cases recently, from apparently photo-verified profiles...

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I'm worried because of similar reasons, but they have a lot of verifications. Am I overthinking? She says it's her over text, but I have only spoken with him on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at a guess id say 50% of cuckold couples on here are single men wannabe cucks ..

id also guess 80 to 90% of cucks on here are not even in relationships therefore are not cucks as they have no cuckold relationship...

id guess that this would be the same in all other scenes on fab men acting out there wishes via false profiles well over half the site i fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"at a guess id say 50% of cuckold couples on here are single men wannabe cucks ..

id also guess 80 to 90% of cucks on here are not even in relationships therefore are not cucks as they have no cuckold relationship...

Damn.. that's some pretty depressing stats!

id guess that this would be the same in all other scenes on fab men acting out there wishes via false profiles well over half the site i fear"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's getting ridiculous now, I have been a bull on and off for a number of years and have found recently that since the dynamic has become more main stream it seems to be full of fictional people

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Yes we're finding a lot of fakes and fantasists on here now, some look so genuine too with flags and verifications yet still they mess you around and lead you on !

. One couple admitted they were using us as backup just incase their meet didn't show

. We only found out 15 minutes before we were supposed to meet, Cherry was furious after spending an eternity getting ready...

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

The fake profiles are really pathetic and make the site a lesser experience for the rest of us. You learn to spot the fakes. I don't chat to many people without veris. Every once in a while I give someone without them a chance - invariably they turn out to be another time waster.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

If I start messaging a couple and it's the woman who writes back I always start from the premis it's the man and then take it from there. Cynical I know but unfortunately proved correct on a number of occasions. However I have chatted to some nice women on here so there are some genuine one!

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

This is why I've started a private bi only interracial chat group using Telegram. Its slow to grow because I'm carefully vetting everyone but at least I'm reasonably assured that everyone is genuine etc

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