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"Can't think of anything worse..lol" Yeah I thought it might not be to popular. Lol. I’m just trying to live my best life and make all my little kinks a reality. I’m guessing I like the idea so much as I’m always someone who loves the social side of swinging. Typical of me really I always want what I can’t have! Lol | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet" Lol. Well you’re entitled to your opinion | |||
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"I think that refers to the guys who only vocabulary on here is ‘how are you’ and ‘what are you doing’ !" It’s not meant at all like that. It’s purely a question. Personally I always prefer the social side of meets and have no problem in putting effort in. I suppose it’s a kink of mine as it’s the opposite to what I actually do……. Which makes little to no sense I know! | |||
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"I've never been involved in one of them either. They seem to be getting more popular nowadays. Im looking forward to seeing people's comments on this thread x "That’s kind of why I’m asking as I’ve seen a few post about these meets but I’ve never been involved in one | |||
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"Yeah, I like this. I have a thing for just being used as someone's plaything. " I have to ask is it something you’ve always been into or is it something that you’ve developed over time? I’m always intrigued to know what makes people tick | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" It'll be a no from me, I've been offered and always turn it down | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink? It'll be a no from me, I've been offered and always turn it down " That’s fair enough as it’s always each to their own and what they’re comfortable with | |||
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"Yeah, I like this. I have a thing for just being used as someone's plaything. I have to ask is it something you’ve always been into or is it something that you’ve developed over time? I’m always intrigued to know what makes people tick" Great question. I think it was born out of a Lady Chatterley type fantasy, being someone's bit of rough. It grew from there. I'm fairly dominant and have a job with lots of responsibilities so maybe this gives me a chance to let go of all that. | |||
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"I've been offered this several times by the same couple and couldn't think of anything worse! They wanted me to walk into their open house, undress in the hall, go into a pitch black bedroom and find the Mrs on the bed. Then leave with no words spoken. The fear of being given a fake address was enough! " There needs to be trust but, then again, that's true of any encounter. | |||
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"Yeah, I like this. I have a thing for just being used as someone's plaything. I have to ask is it something you’ve always been into or is it something that you’ve developed over time? I’m always intrigued to know what makes people tick Great question. I think it was born out of a Lady Chatterley type fantasy, being someone's bit of rough. It grew from there. I'm fairly dominant and have a job with lots of responsibilities so maybe this gives me a chance to let go of all that." That’s interesting. I’ve heard a few people who have responsible jobs say that they like to be dominated. Maybe there’s something in that about letting loose, and letting go of the mental pressure of decision making | |||
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"I've been offered this several times by the same couple and couldn't think of anything worse! They wanted me to walk into their open house, undress in the hall, go into a pitch black bedroom and find the Mrs on the bed. Then leave with no words spoken. The fear of being given a fake address was enough! " Not everything is for everyone. It maybe their kink but if it’s not yours it’s never going to be enjoyable. Fake addresses aside it’s also a little risky in the dark as you don’t know what you might be playing with | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" I've personally done this many time and for a very very long time it was my preferred method of meeting. X | |||
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"In clubs before, while engaged with play, I’ve caught the eye of one of the guys watching. Invited him over with a quick nod of the head. She was bent over and he started fucking her straight away. He finished in her tits and left, with just a smile and a thanks. She said it was really sexy not knowing who was fucking her and not talking to them. " As I’ve said earlier on here it’s all about what people want and are comfortable with. Your scenario sounds good, and it’s got the added advantage of people around you to keep you safe. I suppose I was more thinking of an arranged meet scenario in my head. | |||
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"In clubs before, while engaged with play, I’ve caught the eye of one of the guys watching. Invited him over with a quick nod of the head. She was bent over and he started fucking her straight away. He finished in her tits and left, with just a smile and a thanks. She said it was really sexy not knowing who was fucking her and not talking to them. " That's a brilliant story xx | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink? I've personally done this many time and for a very very long time it was my preferred method of meeting. X" Is it still your preferred method of meeting? I know you like other types but I’m intrigued to know what makes people tick and what their kinks are. Also if you don’t mind me asking. What’s the biggest buzz that you get from it? If that’s too personal then I apologise and don’t expect an answer | |||
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"In clubs before, while engaged with play, I’ve caught the eye of one of the guys watching. Invited him over with a quick nod of the head. She was bent over and he started fucking her straight away. He finished in her tits and left, with just a smile and a thanks. She said it was really sexy not knowing who was fucking her and not talking to them. That's a brilliant story xx "You should have seen it play out live. Amazing | |||
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"In clubs before, while engaged with play, I’ve caught the eye of one of the guys watching. Invited him over with a quick nod of the head. She was bent over and he started fucking her straight away. He finished in her tits and left, with just a smile and a thanks. She said it was really sexy not knowing who was fucking her and not talking to them. That's a brilliant story xx
You should have seen it play out live. Amazing "All I can say is lucky guy! | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" Lucky enough to have experienced it before | |||
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"Not for me, i like a laugh and banter always feel sex is better when theres a connection, fuck and go seems so clinical "Exactly this  | |||
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"It not something I would do, except possibly in a club, but I’m curious, can you explain what makes it a kink for you? " No kink just like the young lady above you stated. It cuts out all the BS. You go in she's there waiting for you. Fuck suck, lick and leave. No lingering about afterwards and it can turn out to be a regular thing as a connection starts to form. Sometimes it works the other way around. | |||
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"I would feel like a rubber doll with no talking." Agreed, I’d rather have a wank | |||
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"Only once and it was a dogging meet on portsdown hill about 9-10 years ago . Watching a car , door opens and she is bent over sucking the drivers cock , leggings and knickers pulled down , he signals me to fuck her without saying a word …….so I did , came inside her . His only words were “cheers mate “ then he shut the door and got on top of her . Bearing in mind I was nearly 40 and at a guess they were mid twenties , it was a very horny experience and I have wanked over the memory many times ! " That sounds horny. | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" Yes we have done this before, not a word spoken, just sex. | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet" it’s not really ideal unless they are willing to pick me up - get me a Greggs - let me blow my beans on her boobs then give me a lift home with a 6 pack of Stella as a thankyou for a job well done so I’m sure you’ll agree it’s far from ideal!!  | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet" This | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet" I agree to be honest. I would never do this- I know I’d get no pleasure from it at all, and it would just make me feel used and unhappy about being used with there being nothing in it for me at all. Unfortunately, it seems like this what 95% of the men in here are looking for/want- at least those who message me anyway. And when I sat no, that’s not what I’m looking for they tell me that I’m stupid to be looking for a relationship on fab and I’m in the wrong place. I’ve given up now  | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet I agree to be honest. I would never do this- I know I’d get no pleasure from it at all, and it would just make me feel used and unhappy about being used with there being nothing in it for me at all. Unfortunately, it seems like this what 95% of the men in here are looking for/want- at least those who message me anyway. And when I sat no, that’s not what I’m looking for they tell me that I’m stupid to be looking for a relationship on fab and I’m in the wrong place. I’ve given up now "Wow that's rude of them, it's your life to do with as you please | |||
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"I've been offered this several times by the same couple and couldn't think of anything worse! They wanted me to walk into their open house, undress in the hall, go into a pitch black bedroom and find the Mrs on the bed. Then leave with no words spoken. The fear of being given a fake address was enough! " I've been involved in stuff similar to this in the past. I always put some kind of safeguard in place first so I couldn't possibly be in the wrong house. Also been involved where I come into the house and the lady was tied to a chair in the lounge, blind folded, waiting for me to do with her as I wished. The husband was upstairs apparently. I did this a free times with them. Whether he actually existed I have no idea. It might have been that she was single and felt safer playing, because i thought there was a man in the house too. It was in my early days of swinging. I loved it, they loved it. Everyone was happy | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet I agree to be honest. I would never do this- I know I’d get no pleasure from it at all, and it would just make me feel used and unhappy about being used with there being nothing in it for me at all. Unfortunately, it seems like this what 95% of the men in here are looking for/want- at least those who message me anyway. And when I sat no, that’s not what I’m looking for they tell me that I’m stupid to be looking for a relationship on fab and I’m in the wrong place. I’ve given up now "Well I am glad to say I fall into the 5% of those who you exclude from the silent sex brigade. That said it is a recreational sex site with, it seems to me, sexual requirements ranging from the erotic to the offensive. On that scale I would say this is a practice often requested on Fab particularly by couples. | |||
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"I had version of this scenario a few years ago. She said she would come straight to my hotel room, no chatting beforehand, then a quick fuck and go. I thought ok, give it a try. She arrived on time as arranged, wearing a long coat - and completely naked underneath! As agreed, we went straight to the bed and got stuck in. Very cold and mechanical, but strangely quite exciting too. After we both orgasmed her attitude changed, though. She relaxed and instead of her leaving straight away as planned, we cuddled and made love again more slowly, which was much nicer. But it was a one off meet, worth doing it but not really what I was looking for. " Made love haha Whens the wedding lol  | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet" To be fair I’ve seen female profiles who are into this too. Whilst I’m the polar opposite (a social, connection and fondness are vital in order to ensure mind-blowing sex imo) - wouldn’t it be a rather dull world if we were all the same? | |||
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"I’ll let you into a secret, the social and the socialising is the best bit of the lifestyle! " That’s the worst secret lol…. It’s the worst bit in my opinion haha! Good job we’re not all the same  x | |||
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"I’ll let you into a secret, the social and the socialising is the best bit of the lifestyle! " Really  | |||
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"I’ll let you into a secret, the social and the socialising is the best bit of the lifestyle! " I know not all agree but I do! I love the social aspect. Getting to know and understand people and find out what makes them tick. That for me is why play is a bonus | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet To be fair I’ve seen female profiles who are into this too. Whilst I’m the polar opposite (a social, connection and fondness are vital in order to ensure mind-blowing sex imo) - wouldn’t it be a rather dull world if we were all the same? "I agree. If everyone was the same it would be very dull. Getting to know people socially and finding out what makes them who they’re and their kinks leads to far more satisfying fun later. | |||
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"Not for me. I like a good old natter before we fuck." Damn right a good social and flirt before any potential play is always a turn on | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet To be fair I’ve seen female profiles who are into this too. Whilst I’m the polar opposite (a social, connection and fondness are vital in order to ensure mind-blowing sex imo) - wouldn’t it be a rather dull world if we were all the same?
I agree. If everyone was the same it would be very dull. Getting to know people socially and finding out what makes them who they’re and their kinks leads to far more satisfying fun later. "You should have left it at would be very dull if all the same…. Haha Getting to know people socially absolutely doesn’t make it more satisfying for some at all. Completely contradicts the sentence before lol | |||
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"I've been offered this several times by the same couple and couldn't think of anything worse! They wanted me to walk into their open house, undress in the hall, go into a pitch black bedroom and find the Mrs on the bed. Then leave with no words spoken. The fear of being given a fake address was enough! I've been involved in stuff similar to this in the past. I always put some kind of safeguard in place first so I couldn't possibly be in the wrong house. Also been involved where I come into the house and the lady was tied to a chair in the lounge, blind folded, waiting for me to do with her as I wished. The husband was upstairs apparently. I did this a free times with them. Whether he actually existed I have no idea. It might have been that she was single and felt safer playing, because i thought there was a man in the house too. It was in my early days of swinging. I loved it, they loved it. Everyone was happy" Lol. Imagine been in the wrong house…. That’s gonna take some explanation! | |||
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"We did that ones with me (mrs) tied up, i really enjoyed that!" Out of pure intrigue we’re you worried, and if so did that add to the buzz?? I’m always interested in what makes people tick | |||
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"I had version of this scenario a few years ago. She said she would come straight to my hotel room, no chatting beforehand, then a quick fuck and go. I thought ok, give it a try. She arrived on time as arranged, wearing a long coat - and completely naked underneath! As agreed, we went straight to the bed and got stuck in. Very cold and mechanical, but strangely quite exciting too. After we both orgasmed her attitude changed, though. She relaxed and instead of her leaving straight away as planned, we cuddled and made love again more slowly, which was much nicer. But it was a one off meet, worth doing it but not really what I was looking for. " As long as you were happy at the time then alls good. If you decided after that it wasn’t for you then it’s a lesson learnt and no harm done. Just another little memory to look back on | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet it’s not really ideal unless they are willing to pick me up - get me a Greggs - let me blow my beans on her boobs then give me a lift home with a 6 pack of Stella as a thankyou for a job well done so I’m sure you’ll agree it’s far from ideal!! "??????. Love it! | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink? Yes we have done this before, not a word spoken, just sex. " Can I ask what the biggest thrill you got from it was? Sorry if that’s too personal I’m just inquisitive | |||
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"It not something I would do, except possibly in a club, but I’m curious, can you explain what makes it a kink for you? " I think it’s a kink as it’s the total opposite of what I would normally do. I love the social side and getting to know someone so it’s the exact opposite of that. I will be honest though and say I’m definitely one of those people who always wants something I don’t have | |||
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"My wand is easier. " That’s fair! But is it as magical! | |||
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"I wouldnt say it is even a kink at all...it just the lazy man's ideal no effort meet To be fair I’ve seen female profiles who are into this too. Whilst I’m the polar opposite (a social, connection and fondness are vital in order to ensure mind-blowing sex imo) - wouldn’t it be a rather dull world if we were all the same?
I agree. If everyone was the same it would be very dull. Getting to know people socially and finding out what makes them who they’re and their kinks leads to far more satisfying fun later.
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Getting to know people socially absolutely doesn’t make it more satisfying for some at all. Completely contradicts the sentence before lol "You’ve totally lost me there. I’m not sure how it contradicts to be honest?? Maybe it’s just me though as it has been a long day | |||
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"I’ve been to one of these. The couple gave me grief on fab after because I talked too much lol. I didn’t enjoy it at all" They gave you grief for talking too much! I’ve never heard that one on here before! | |||
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"I'd imagine it's more common when dogging or at clubs. More difficult to arrange in a private meet due to safety issues. As has been said, not wise to go to a strange couple's house in pitch black. There could be anyone there and how would you know consent was given. " That’s a fair point well put | |||
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"Done it a few times , tied and blindfold to our bed , fully clothed , wife loves it . Not since covid though , grrr !" Covid gets the blame for everything nowadays. Lol | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" I've got a guy I regularly do this type of meet with ..... usually on my lunch break at work turn up at hes place of work get down and dirty then clean up and fxxx off Works for us as we've been regular for a longtime now | |||
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"it is our prefer meet and normally works cuz we meet strangers on beaches and they do not speak english! I hate it when men try to make conversation when we all know they are there just to use my wifes body" That’s a bloody good reason and I can see your point there! | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" A lot of girls and couples ask for this, it’s just for a sexual pleasure no need to get personal just come relieve yourself and go. I ve met a few girls and couples like that | |||
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"A lady said if we went ahead, the door would be open, I would climb the stairs and find her with a blindfold on on the bed with her legs spread and I should spunk up into her and go. So I get the impression it happens..." She sounds very accommodating! | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink? A lot of girls and couples ask for this, it’s just for a sexual pleasure no need to get personal just come relieve yourself and go. I ve met a few girls and couples like that " I’ve never been asked for this at all, must just be my luck. Lol | |||
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"Only once and it was a dogging meet on portsdown hill about 9-10 years ago . Watching a car , door opens and she is bent over sucking the drivers cock , leggings and knickers pulled down , he signals me to fuck her without saying a word …….so I did , came inside her . His only words were “cheers mate “ then he shut the door and got on top of her . Bearing in mind I was nearly 40 and at a guess they were mid twenties , it was a very horny experience and I have wanked over the memory many times ! That sounds horny. "It was amazing ! | |||
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"I’ve heard of these but never been lucky enough to be involved in one. Is a not a popular kink?" Ive done it a number of years ago. Was a really horny meet. Got let into her house, fucked her up against the door, so anyone who happened to have walked past would have known what was going on, then left when we were finished. Met her a number of timea after this too, but that was the only no talk meet | |||
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