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By *unfirst1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Okay, so I’ve tried to be eloquent and respectful

In previous posts but it ain’t getting anyone anywhere

So. I need a guy to meet a FB during the day in Leeds with me, as a surprise for her. She will t know what’s happening. I have full permission to decide what happens to her and we’re gonna push her hard.

Couples are preferred but message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you can prove that there’s another woman involved I don’t think you’ll have much luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay, so I’ve tried to be eloquent and respectful

In previous posts but it ain’t getting anyone anywhere

So. I need a guy to meet a FB during the day in Leeds with me, as a surprise for her. She will t know what’s happening. I have full permission to decide what happens to her and we’re gonna push her hard.

Couples are preferred but message me "

Sounds dangerous.

What does "She will t know what’s happening." mean?

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By *unfirst1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

That’s a very valid point. I can prove there is a female there. She’ll message those of interest from her own account which is on here. But you’re right because there’s way too many blaggers and bullshitters on here

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Unless you can prove that there’s another woman involved I don’t think you’ll have much luck"

The guys well verified so don’t see why you’re doubting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unless you can prove that there’s another woman involved I don’t think you’ll have much luck

The guys well verified so don’t see why you’re doubting him "

I didn’t doubt him. I’m saying other people might. Personally I think it would be easier for the female to find people and then hand over to him for arrangements but that’s just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

another option could be to set up a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any decent guy would want consent from the lady not the guy arranging

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"any decent guy would want consent from the lady not the guy arranging"

If you read his post he has got consent and she has asked him to surprise her

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By *unfirst1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks all for the comments. All vey valid points and I truly welcome anyone’s thoughts. She has actually tried to find people but you’d be surprised how many guys flake or even just make stuff up. She’s utterly lost interest in reaching out into the Fabisphere for people to show interest, so I’m was giving it one last go.

We’re not into clubs but that may be what we need to do to show we’re genuine and another is too.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yeah, no. Lots of red flags for me. It's entirely possible this whole thing is genuine but there's just so much potential for things to go wrong here.

I'd feel a lot more comfortable if I could at least speak to the woman first just to talk out the scenario and boundaries.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any decent guy would want consent from the lady not the guy arranging

If you read his post he has got consent and she has asked him to surprise her "

if you trust a guy you dont know for consent of another woman then thats down to you ...many wont

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By *unfirst1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

She would absolutely be involved in any chats before anything progressed. After all, play is exactly that. But it’ can’t be fun unless there respect and everyone knows what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She would absolutely be involved in any chats before anything progressed. After all, play is exactly that. But it’ can’t be fun unless there respect and everyone knows what to expect "

Is she well verified on here as well? Make a couples profile and put your singles account names in your bio. Message people as a couple and you’ll probably find it a lot easier. Just make it clear that you’re FB and not an actual couple.

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By *unfirst1000 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks. Will probably do that. Thanks for the advice.

She is verified. Had an old account and set up new - has 5 veris on there

Anyway. Enough of all this. Have a good NY Fabisphere

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