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How do you feel about meeting & they want to film/take photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you feel about meeting and they want to film the session, or take photos for their use?

Is it common for couples to film ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

It would be a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's part of what we do so anyone who we meet needs to be comfortable with this. I would never ask anyone to do it if they didn't trust me so it's completely their choice. It's hard to trust people but I know from my end, I respect people's privacy and like the same in return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's part of what we do so anyone who we meet needs to be comfortable with this. I would never ask anyone to do it if they didn't trust me so it's completely their choice. It's hard to trust people but I know from my end, I respect people's privacy and like the same in return."

So is this for your use only, or does the other person meeting you get a copy aswell for there use?

Do you find most are ok and up for it or do you find most decline the meet because of the camera x

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire


"How do you feel about meeting and they want to film the session, or take photos for their use?

Is it common for couples to film ?"

I used to meet a couple where the husband would film us for their use. I trust them to be discreet with it as they don’t want everyone knowing what they do either

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I'm always happy to be photographed and/or videoed, especially when I'm given copies with permission to include them on my profile...

....even when copies are supplied strictly for my eyes only, it's still great to have visual reminders to go with the memories...

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By *uminmyhole69Man
over a year ago

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I am always up for being filmed or photo's being taken but of course respect others choices if they don't wish to be filmed or photo's taken

For me it is a real turn on

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Once the trust is their and no face shots becomes pretty kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's part of what we do so anyone who we meet needs to be comfortable with this. I would never ask anyone to do it if they didn't trust me so it's completely their choice. It's hard to trust people but I know from my end, I respect people's privacy and like the same in return.

So is this for your use only, or does the other person meeting you get a copy aswell for there use?

Do you find most are ok and up for it or do you find most decline the meet because of the camera x"

Yes for personal use only, I am happy to send them clips but they don't get a full copy. And before anyone says, I totally understand that's hypocritical.

Everyone I meet we always get to know each other first, so they are happy to film. Also, it's clear from my profile I never share anything from meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fine with being filmed xx

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Depends on the type of video! If you meet someone regular and trust them no limits really. But also film it on your own phone just to be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, nuh uh, no, not happening

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would be very uncomfortable with it and decline but each to their own.

Once filmed its out there forever and good at any point get into the wrong hands.

It's just not something I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is why we prefer to play in clubs. As phones filming is banned and you can relax and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is why we prefer to play in clubs. As phones filming is banned and you can relax and enjoy yourself "

But if you agree to being filmed before youve met surely you would feel comfortable and expect to see a camera in the room lol?

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By *anter007Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Meet up with a couple and agreed to film and photos, as I'm not shy.

Ended up on pornhub lol

Conned as I'm became a free porn actor haha. Who knows maybe ill get a porn golden globe award in Vegas haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it with folks you trust and see on a regular basis,one offs then faces need to be hidden

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Love reminders of the meet to watch back with hubby... He knows the bits I'll want to see and will only show me those but I'm getting braver at watching myself back we always ask, we always all agree or it's not done, we always share the evidence with those we play with. We only film with those we trust.....

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never...even with someone I trusted. Not my thing x

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

We always film the meet but never allow the filming to be done on phones (to easy to be shared) plus it's only us that do the filming (which would be for our viewing only). Hubby does all the filming and tried his hardest not to include any faces but our own. We always make sure that the person we are meeting is totally at ease with the filming taking place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Never...even with someone I trusted. Not my thing x"

It would be difficult to erase from my thoughts (embedded) that's enough in your company x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to filming but no face shots of the guests lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance.

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

I was stationed to Berlin in 1979 only been there for about a week and i turned 18. A gang of us went out to celebrate ended up it what must have been a swingers club most people where naked some having sex also going on was a live sex show. I ended up with 3 gorgeous naked ladies on the stage in a big champagne glass full of bubbly water, what they did not do to me a real eye opener it was brilliant. It was all filmed and ended up being shown with other porn in certain bars, my only regret was not being able to obtain a copy. The blokes told the club owner and the girls it was my 18th. No problem being filmed or photographed since.

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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago

Feltham

We have filmed most of our meets over the years mainly with males having fun with Lucy while I film, completely for our own use no copy's except ours. Never really had any issues as long as we make it clear before meeting not for everyone but plenty of people find it a turn on

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

I would never suggest it but am not camera shy and happy to be filmed. It can make for a pleasant souvenir.

Unfortunately people do not always keep to their word about not sharing......

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

We film most of our meets but would never endanger the other person's privacy or show their face if we did share anywhere.

Plus we always ask permission first

Mark

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Very rarely film anything but do like to take some pics. We ALWAYS ask first and we're totally fine if anyone says no (no-one has said no!) and we absolutely guarantee that no faces will ever be posted on our profile or anything.

We like to flick through the pics

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite no !

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not sure it would depend on the person or couple. As I wear a lot of makeup and wig it’s not too much of an issue.

My photos on here have been used elsewhere without my permission, so it’s not like it hasn’t happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't trust strangers taking potentially compromising pictures, videos of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first met the couple I see regularly at their house,they asked if they could film and I agreed if I could have a copy which they gave me. Now we meet at my house and the same happens in reverse. When that's almost the only sex you have, the films are very useful for pleasure in between meets!I have posted heavily edited pics on my profile but mainly as private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I trust the person 100% then yes but it takes a special kind of person to let me take my guard down. I've always been someone that wouldn't expect them to except something done to them unless I was prepared to do the same to myself too

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We well I (boxers) often take pics when we are playing with guys. No faces of course other than my greedy little cum slut. Actually most of them are masked lol.

We always ask prior to playing and often show them their performances also prior to posting we ask permission.

Have to say if trust isn't there why are they going to do the intimate things they do?

We trusted them after all.

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By *usty kayCouple
over a year ago

Burnham

Photos and videos are a huge part of what we as a couple need for each other when we meet separately. There is also a camera with a live feed on my bedroom.

When I meet a guy he already knows what's expected and I haven't found a man not willing to take pictures. I usually give him my phone to take the pictures. That way they are mine but he has control of how much of himself is shown. When hubby meets the women is in control and I have to be more understanding that I may not get as many but again they've had the conversation before hand that I need something. The camera with the live feed has only ever been used with a meet once as that's a repeat meet kind of thing once the trust has already been built up. I would never do anything someone else isn't comfortable with but equally I wont meet someone who won't take pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have allowed vids or pics in the past but i really dislike it. I hate watching myself back, i always worry people wont be sensible with the footage (which has happened - posting pics and not editing out faces), plus its hard to switch off and relax when someone waving a phone around trying to get the best angle.

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