FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles

By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

We're as guilty of this as anyone else, but it's a shame that most of the pictures on a couples profile is of the lady.

Would the ladies like to see more pictures of the male halves or is there some magical connection between the attractiveness of the lady and the male half?

Just curious....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a constant observation. We have been blocked more than a few times for simply asking for some male torso photos...... How very dare we!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both but only for friends x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah we find we have to ask for pics of Mr.

There’s more of C on ours but there’s enough of me on pics to get a good indication. We made sure we done that as we wanted our profile to represent both of us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

as with every profile its up to them what they put on it. But I won't engage with profiles if I can't see the guy, I'm straight, I'm only interested in the woman from a social point of view, the other guy has seen pictures of me and the other woman has seen pictures of my husband its really disrespectful to expect me to just rock up without knowing who I'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just assume that if theres no photos of the man on a couples profile its a fake profile or it's just a single man sharing photos of an ex catfishing people. Quite often we used to ask for pictures of the man and get no reply, suspicious much, don't pay those kinda profiles any attention now

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

our experience has been that if there are no pictures of the guy he's not interested either because he only wants to watch his wife with other people or he just doesn't want to swing.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

K is more attractive but I'm an attention whore so I think there's more of me than her on ours

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby has issues and thinks he's ugly xx

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We try to have a good mixture of us both and photos of us together.

It really does depend on what the couple is looking for for that balance to be right

The Beard

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Depends on the couple I guess. Not much point in my picture being front and centre as I do not play at meets. My wife is the one we want to have the attention. She provides the physical fun. I just provide the humour and take photos for later So what I look like is irrelevant although there may be a shot of my Willy in our photos, and one with my belly in it. Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I put up pictures of my husband we would never get attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same…. All of the Mrs but it proves to be very popular

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"We're as guilty of this as anyone else, but it's a shame that most of the pictures on a couples profile is of the lady.

Would the ladies like to see more pictures of the male halves or is there some magical connection between the attractiveness of the lady and the male half?

Just curious...."

Not particularly. I'm more interested to see what people themselves like to post - it's an indication of how they want to portray themselves and therefore a good way to decide whether we're interested in them. Why should anyone else dictate which pictures you have in your profile? There are plenty of things I would like to see, or not see, but it's up to them not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing the female half may be more appealing to the men, seeing the male half may be more appealing to the women. As a single woman, looking to join a couple, I'd like to see equal amounts of both parties. Many only have female pics, then a random dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately people judge male bodies in a more strict aesthetic boundary. It is easier to pretty up a woman than a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately people judge male bodies in a more strict aesthetic boundary. It is easier to pretty up a woman than a man. "

agree, sad but true ….. the female shape has always been something to be admired

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By *ittlechick77Couple
over a year ago

Staines

"as with every profile its up to them what they put on it. But I won't engage with profiles if I can't see the guy, I'm straight, I'm only interested in the woman from a social point of view, the other guy has seen pictures of me and the other woman has seen pictures of my husband its really disrespectful to expect me to just rock up without knowing who I'm meeting "
100% agree we always like to see both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love seeing pics of both in a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately people judge male bodies in a more strict aesthetic boundary. It is easier to pretty up a woman than a man.

agree, sad but true ….. the female shape has always been something to be admired "

Couldn’t have said it better myself

…on both male body judgement and the admiration of the female shape!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately people judge male bodies in a more strict aesthetic boundary. It is easier to pretty up a woman than a man.

agree, sad but true ….. the female shape has always been something to be admired

Couldn’t have said it better myself

…on both male body judgement and the admiration of the female shape!!"

If only other ladies could see my man the way I do.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We have plenty of us, but struggle with other profiles where there's pages of pics of the lady and a cock pic of the male.

I'm straight,so if we get interest from this type of profile, unless they've attached pics of Mr, we ignore,makes me feel its all about the lady and I'm insignificant.

Of course people can run their profiles how they choose and if its just the lady playing, totally understandable why it's only her on the pics.

Experience has shown several times that if we chat to a profile like this, they take ages to send pics of the male, then I've had no attraction to them.

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By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

"Seeing the female half may be more appealing to the men, seeing the male half may be more appealing to the women. As a single woman, looking to join a couple, I'd like to see equal amounts of both parties. Many only have female pics, then a random dick pic "

That’s the other thing isn’t title - the dick pic. Should there be one on there?

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By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

Thank you so much for all your comments we’ll have to get more pics of my I up there. Now to convince him….

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We keep meaning to address our imbalance however since life has gone back to "normal" we never seem to find the time, hopefully we will get chance over the festive period.

Mr Hayes.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’ll always have pictures of both of us..

If people don’t want to meet us based on pics of either of us then better to find out sooner rather than later.

We’ve asked for pics of the Mr before when chatting to couples and if they’re not forthcoming then chat stops there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately people judge male bodies in a more strict aesthetic boundary. It is easier to pretty up a woman than a man.

agree, sad but true ….. the female shape has always been something to be admired

Couldn’t have said it better myself

…on both male body judgement and the admiration of the female shape!!

If only other ladies could see my man the way I do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately people judge male bodies in a more strict aesthetic boundary. It is easier to pretty up a woman than a man.

agree, sad but true ….. the female shape has always been something to be admired

Couldn’t have said it better myself

…on both male body judgement and the admiration of the female shape!!

If only other ladies could see my man the way I do.

That comment made me all warm inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the other thing isn’t title - the dick pic. Should there be one on there?"

Leave it to the imagination…I think majority prefer a teasing pic then one pumped up and up close

…but that’s my opinion…others will disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try hard to get pics of hubby in, but he's like once you've seen a cock then why would you want to see it again and again. Underwear on a lady is different. We do have pics in friends tho bit more intimate that we can share, if chatting

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't see the problem, either take our profile as it is or don't look at it, no worries to us. If people want to think it's fake that's their problem, can't see why anyone would want a load of male photos on the profile, the messages are usually directed to the female anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made a couple of pics with hubby public, he said you will see what he means, I think he's cute but he has body image issues with himself

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Male half here. Most of our pics are of Rosie as I'm not really confident anymore at my age and we are a greedy girl couple so I am not the attraction these days.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

There are more of Mrs than me but there are a few of me to show my body shape. It’s important to represent me as the lady’s need to see the gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have made a couple of pics with hubby public, he said you will see what he means, I think he's cute but he has body image issues with himself

Aww he's hot! Fabbed

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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago

Nr Salisbury

We have been asked for more M pics. Trying to rectify!

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Majority are of basque she just looks better there are couple of boxers(me) but lets face it basque is far better to look at than me.

Add that to fact I don't like to have my photo taken and adore to capture her in her glory answer imbalance of photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's tough to balance because w lot of women don't like dick pictures and other male pictures are pretty dull.

Between our public and private pictures we have tried to mix it up a bit xx

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Pics of both on ours x

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We are a couple profile but its 90% me (SJ), he likes to be involved with helping set up meets for me & then watching through video call usually, so we felt it was only right to do a couple profile so people are aware from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you're looking for really, and who controls the profile, we both have the login but it's only me (Mrs P) that does the admin lol.

We have pics of us both on friends only, i'd upload more pics of him if he wasn't so self conscious about his gorgeous body. I sort the photos and i'm on the hunt for men whereas R is more looking for women and couples.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I think it’s a personal preference for each couple really! Mr pc doesn’t like having his photo taken, so images of him don’t pop up as regularly as photos of me do! We do have a lot more of him, and us together on our friends only, and always share these with genuine potential playmates. We take responsibility for what we chose to show on our profile, and that won’t be enough for some, but so be it, we’re good with that

Miss pc

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

nuneaton

She’s definitely more photogenic than me . But we have plenty of pics of us together showing faces In our friends gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby really has a problem with body image, it's mostly due to his meds and illnesses, he's the most caring guy I have ever known and he is perfect, best of all he's mine

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By *ountry PeaksCouple
over a year ago

In The Surrey Hills

We’ve tried to mix it up with pics of each of us and some together, but the reality is, Mrs CP looks better and cream rises to the top

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

As we are only looking for guys it seemed pointless putting hubby's pics up

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We try and keep ours even

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

We're here together so You can find pictures and videos of both of us. Judging by numbers of fabs Love is much more popular lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need both to begin to see if it's a poss match with initial attraction. Most of us a favoured body type or more importantly a type of body that isn't for us. Photos of us both and a dairy detailed profile to sink your teeth into

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We like to think we have a good mix on ours! We like to see both partners too so we know what to expect

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By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

"We’ll always have pictures of both of us..

If people don’t want to meet us based on pics of either of us then better to find out sooner rather than later.

We’ve asked for pics of the Mr before when chatting to couples and if they’re not forthcoming then chat stops there.."

Well that's fair enough. We do the same, but even then we struggle a little as there's not that many of him anyway. He's normally the one behind the camera/phone.

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By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

"Love seeing pics of both in a couple

Well this is what it's all about. If you're interested in both you should see both.

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By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

"Majority are of basque she just looks better there are couple of boxers(me) but lets face it basque is far better to look at than me.

Add that to fact I don't like to have my photo taken and adore to capture her in her glory answer imbalance of photos. "

I'm not sure that was the original point, but it's certainly a different point of view.

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By *andS OP Couple
over a year ago

Old London Town

Thanks again for all your comments.

There's certainly a lot sitting behind why people do what they do, which we never appreciated.

We're not going to keep tabs on this any more as we've got more out of it than we ever thought we would. Hopefully it will prove useful to others with similar questions though. xx

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Check ours very 50/50Xx

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Don't get me wrong the lady part of a couple is probably the most interesting half. However I do find pictures of both Halfs together are very appealing and tend to make the best pictures.

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By *lee cuckold coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

You don't go fishing with a worm for a good result, hang some alluring sea siren on your hook and the men come running. Simples lol

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By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

Good point. Defo need to balance ours up a bit more…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom's in most of the videos and some pics but no pics of him on his own. But we're looking for males not couples so we didn't think men would be interested in what Tom looks like. I'll put a pic of him on now, just for balance

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We have a few of Mr but only ever been asked for face picks, but always happy send more to people we are chatting too

xxx

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We are guilty of this too, there are pics of Mr there but just very few compared to Mrs. Something we should probably try and address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile mainly has pictures of me on it, but due to what we are looking for we feel it's more appropriate, however we would be open to comments on whether you feel Mr should be on display more

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"Our profile mainly has pictures of me on it, but due to what we are looking for we feel it's more appropriate, however we would be open to comments on whether you feel Mr should be on display more

We think there is not much a man can do apart from a body shot or two, it's not like we have loads of little outfits to show off lol

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We have pics of us both of us.

I do get frustrated when profiles looking to meet couples only have pics of the female half, but ultimately it is their profile so their choice.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

We have a couple of me (male) but fully appreciate that female is easier on the eye and what most want to see, which we're totally fine with x

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

Have a couple of the Mr on here. Enough to know who you’re talking to

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

We have a few of me (Old Fart) but Milf looks far better than I do, so that's why we have lots of her. We have spoken about going through our pics and chosing some more, but I'm not in the least photogenic

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

She's the one physically playing, makes sense, no?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My opinion if it's a joint account to show they are both serious about this site and each other by this site.it would be normal to have few pictures of both as this shows chemistry between the two,if it's concerning of face crop or carefully angle when taken still adds creativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're new to the scene and site so, don't have many pics yet but, I like to think we have a balance of both of us

We have noticed that it's very much more one sided on a lot of profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"K is more attractive but I'm an attention whore so I think there's more of me than her on ours

LvM"

Lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"We're new to the scene and site so, don't have many pics yet but, I like to think we have a balance of both of us

We have noticed that it's very much more one sided on a lot of profiles

Took a peak yours great set of pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're new to the scene and site so, don't have many pics yet but, I like to think we have a balance of both of us

We have noticed that it's very much more one sided on a lot of profiles

Took a peak yours great set of pictures

Thankyou, Gladys enjoyed them. Always appreciated

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Wife is crap at taking photos, well when taking them of me.

I look nothing like the ones she has taken, well in my head anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the other thing isn’t title - the dick pic. Should there be one on there?"

I personally enjoy a dick pic yes! But I'd also like to see more of the man, I like to see build, body hair, that sort of thing. No necessarily face pics, as I only exchange though once I've been chatting to someone a bit myselfa

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

We are definitely guilty on this front, it’s one of our New Years resolutions to get more pictures of Kieran on our profile (although there are a few) and not rely on people seeing us both on cam via chat room lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get annoyed by this quite often! We both like the look of the woman but rarely is there any of the guy. We have pics of us both on ours.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"We get annoyed by this quite often! We both like the look of the woman but rarely is there any of the guy. We have pics of us both on ours. "

Annoyed by someone else's profile? That's taking things a bit far - after all who tells you what you should put on your profile? Would you take any notice if they did? As long as someone's profile works for them it's no one else's business to decide the content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We obviously have a couples profile

and we feel it’s a really fine balance in getting it set up just right. By that we mean with just enough representation of both protagonists. We have decided to have more pictures of Ruth up than Shaz. We have seen these ‘critique our profile’ messages from a lot of single guys but we haven’t seen any, ourselves, from couples. If any couples would like to maybe take a look at ours and offer some constructive criticism we would be more than willing to take it on board. Thanks x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's a problem that makes using Fab difficult for us. It's important to know who Hannah is attracted to. It's as if most couples don't realise that both of them need to be found attractive for things to work out with them. We just don't get why so many couples don't appear to realise that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We obviously have a couples profile

Newbie here so possibly not the most qualified to offer advice or feedback but, it reads well. You know who you are and what you want. Open honest, respectful write up, selection of photos, verifications etc. Ticks all the boxes. If we were a better fit fir eachother we wouldn't hesitate to message you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever comments on my other half, although he’s not too bothered.

He gets a lot of attention from the gay men though. He’d do well if he was gay I think

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Depends on the couple I guess. Not much point in my picture being front and centre as I do not play at meets. My wife is the one we want to have the attention. She provides the physical fun. I just provide the humour and take photos for later So what I look like is irrelevant although there may be a shot of my Willy in our photos, and one with my belly in it. Does that count?

Exactly the same here. I only play with the occasional bi guy, and am only there to watch, tidy up, take the pics, etc. There's some pics of my face just so people can see I exist, but no-one is really interested in me.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am greedy - want to see pics of both the lady and the man! We are also guilty of this though - far more of my pics than his although we do try and post one every so often! Jayne x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Bry)"

I am

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I am

Awwww...thanks.

(Bry)

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

most of Dicks pics are in private if people ask they can see them.

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