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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is there in a profile that makes you want to message someone or what would turn you off instantly?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Really well taken photos! We've gotten chatting with people after just messaging to say how much we like their pics

Also a bio that shows a sense of humour.

Turn offs are pretty well the opposite. Bad photos or a bio that makes them sound negative or hard work.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"Really well taken photos! We've gotten chatting with people after just messaging to say how much we like their pics

Also a bio that shows a sense of humour.

Turn offs are pretty well the opposite. Bad photos or a bio that makes them sound negative or hard work. "

This about sums it up. Good post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gym fit" ......

Instant turn off we just think "boring" ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is there in a profile that makes you want to message someone or what would turn you off instantly?"

Status'!!!!!

I'll be compelled to message when I read some of them.

No matter what is wrote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like profiles with face pics (smiling ones) and ones that don’t show too much of the body…leaves something to my imagination!

I love a good read so always scroll to the bio section and hopefully find;

Humour

Modesty

No passive aggression

Oh and for the life of me something that describes what their type is….I hate it when there’s the saying of “I have a type” and then there is no elaboration on it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minging houses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Minging houses."

Got to agree with that. The ones where all the dirty washing is behind them in the photo and one we saw where his fingernails were black and guess where they were.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm far too nervous to message women!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


""Gym fit" ......

Instant turn off we just think "boring" ...lol "
so someone taking care of themselves must mean their boring?

People who say that make me think 'jealous'

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley


""Gym fit" ......

Instant turn off we just think "boring" ...lol so someone taking care of themselves must mean their boring?

People who say that make me think 'jealous' "

Really? Have you seen the pics and profile of the couple that made the comment. Absolutely stunning figures. I can’t see how on earth they would be jealous by a self claimed “gym fit” profile!

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


""Gym fit" ......

Instant turn off we just think "boring" ...lol so someone taking care of themselves must mean their boring?

People who say that make me think 'jealous'

Really? Have you seen the pics and profile of the couple that made the comment. Absolutely stunning figures. I can’t see how on earth they would be jealous by a self claimed “gym fit” profile!"

They must be very boring then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn ons - good grammar, humility, naughtiness, several photos of boobs

Turn offs - passive aggressive statements, exclusion of races, any right wing status updates

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Plenty puts me off but mostly gents, close the lid of the lav! Couples, show off your man and tidy up.

What would make me message? A profile that showed me people with similar interests, realistic expectations and nice photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Gym fit" ......

Instant turn off we just think "boring" ...lol so someone taking care of themselves must mean their boring?

People who say that make me think 'jealous' "

Lol....far from it ..

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Turn offs;

Messy houses in background, toilet pics, incredibly bad grammar and poor or zero pictures.

Turn ons;

Great pics, good veri's, comfort in their own profile and the ability to string a coherent sentence. Being bi helps a lot as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty puts me off but mostly gents, close the lid of the lav! Couples, show off your man and tidy up.

What would make me message? A profile that showed me people with similar interests, realistic expectations and nice photos. "

Realistic expectations….soooo many men would never get a messsge if that were the case

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Plenty puts me off but mostly gents, close the lid of the lav! Couples, show off your man and tidy up.

What would make me message? A profile that showed me people with similar interests, realistic expectations and nice photos.

Realistic expectations….soooo many men would never get a messsge if that were the case "

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We're ordinary people but expectations of us are high.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Turn ons - pics of both halves of the couple, witty, down to earth.

Turn offs - self entitled people, demanding profile, pics are all close ups of the ladies vag.

Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would want to make me message is intelligence and like minded. What would turn me off is lack of the above

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