FabSwingers.com forum: How did you get in to swinging

By *ull of the year 25 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

How got you in to it and who was it with

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"How got you in to it and who was it with"

I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since

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By *ull of the year 25 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

"How got you in to it and who was it with

I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since"
did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet

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By *eepgliderMan
over a year ago

Chacewater

I responded to a social media (!) post and had no idea I'd just got myself invited a a lady's surprise birthday gangbang - organised by the husband I'd corresponded with.

F**k I was so innocent..

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I went to a swingers club with a female friend. Everyone was asking if we were on fab but we had never heard of fab then.

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"How got you in to it and who was it with

I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since

did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet"

Obviously, as it was a sex party not a Tupperware party

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By *unkymale65Man
over a year ago

Worksop

Back in the day there was a contact magazine called Rendezous that's how I got into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw it on Mumsnet

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By *iFunMale_southMan
over a year ago

Reading

"I responded to a social media (!) post and had no idea I'd just got myself invited a a lady's surprise birthday gangbang - organised by the husband I'd corresponded with.

F**k I was so innocent.."
What did you think was happening !?

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I (male) wanted to swing for many years but my exes wouldn't

I was such a horny guy

Finally met my soulmate who is just as horny

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

About 25 years ago, on a chatline and arranging to visit a woman who casually asked if would be OK if her husband watched - hadn't even realised she was married...

....threw me to start with as that was new to me, but she was very re-assuring - visited the next evening as arranged, soon forgot he was even there, and the rest, as they say, is history!

Search 'How I got started' in the box at top left to read the full account...

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

My GF (at the time) and I were getting erotic photos developed. We asked the guy if he knew someone who would take the photos for us and it went from there!

Gbat

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Went to a club and this very nice person helped me out with a stiffness I had. Never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My facebook female.friend told me about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a hot wife couple at the pub I used to worked at. They introduced me to the world of swinging.

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

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By *eWillMakeYouSquirtCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Popped up that she liked women on our first date lol what more can I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my previous partner introduced a mate to join us. Partner was so wet as it was a new experience. She has been swinging ever since and sometimes asks me to join her with her current partner, which is always an enjoyable meet

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries

My boss got me into the scene.

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

Mentioned to ex I liked cock and would love to see her fucked and eat pussy

Next thing we are on a swingers site meeting a bi couple on Friday night

Wonderful

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My filthy imagination always was a need to explore and expand and conquer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my local playpark and then some kiddies parents told me I was too old and too big to be on them.....oh dammit, wrong type of swing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How got you in to it and who was it with"

I got started with an Ex about 8-9 years ago with the sole purpose of being watched . We went to a club and agreed to stay for at least an hour . Ended up being last ones out and playing on huge orgy bed with many people watching ! It was Epic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't even know what was doing had a name till my 20s

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Watching porn together and then realising we wanted more than just to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me being 3 months pregnant sat at work horny sent a pic to him and telling him I been having naughty dreams of me with other men and sent link to swingers club

2 days later we went to club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby was on the scene before we met, and then we talked about it about a year into our relationship... and well here we are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Watching porn together and then realising we wanted more than just to watch."

Intresting

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Was flirting with an d female friend on Facebook and she kinda let it slip she was on here.. the rest as they say is history.. still have ambition to fuck her as a thanks ..

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"How got you in to it and who was it with

I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since

did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet

Obviously, as it was a sex party not a Tupperware party "

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss

Was a dare that's turned out to be a lot of fun !!

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By *ull of the year 25 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

"Was a dare that's turned out to be a lot of fun !! "
please tell me more

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Our first experience was in a club 5 years ago we were in holiday in Welsh and we go to the club for curiosity for see how work

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I like to go out dressed up and just like the Fetish scene it’s another place to go. Pick the right night and it can be a great place to meet others socially, have a dance, get a bit tipsy and occasionally….well I’ll leave that to your imagination

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By *ifer67Man
over a year ago

markinch

Was on a dry run many years ago in my late teens and started buying Exclusive, Journal of love and New Direction magazines which had swingers sections and ads. The good old days!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Back in 2000 a much older Client took me aside me and told how how his wife cuckold him, and that she fancied me. He invited me to fuck his wife when he left for work, and said that if I liked it they would offer free board, lodging, and as much sex as I wanted.... I lived with them for over a year and by the end of it I was fucking both of them and, was hooked on MMF 3sums and the swinging lifestyle

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Hubby talked me into it, it really wasn't my thing but I am so glad he did. Never looked back since and he loves seeing me with other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame a guy called Dave....

(I really do)

Who introduced me to his 'spa' weekends

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By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

Bf was on the scene beforehand n convinced me

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"How got you in to it and who was it with"
I got me into it. Had an accidental 3sum and loved it .... went from there x

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By *wifterMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Thanks for sharing all these experiences. Really horny. Interesting how some just fell into it and some planned it. Just for info I was quite reserved in earlier life. Got into porn sites and found Swinging Hvn. Chatted to a couple who invited me round. Loved it and had a few more meets before I got fed up with people lying and messing me around which led me to trying clubs about 10 years ago. Love naturism too now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a girl.on plenty of fish. She introduced me to swinging. Never looked back

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By *rucking-HellMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I went into Chams by mistake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met an older couple when I was 19 , had the wife while he watched and then was hooked was with them at an orgy the following week, ah good times

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

Via a contact magazine in the 1970s when I was in my 20s. Photos were all black and white and you corresponded by letter to a box Office address who forwarded it to the potential contact. Laborious but incredible exciting.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

Came across a contact mag in the early 80s as a teenager

It really turned me on, real men and women not paid models

Also found pictures of my father with other women

So horny I was a teenage wannabe swinger

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Rosie told me her greedy girl fantasy so we joined here as was on before as single ( male) and a few couples profiles going back to the days of contact mags with ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs dragon suggested it !

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By *affygt61Man
over a year ago

rhondda

Hosting a French couple who were over for a rugby International. In the evening after the game, and via one of their female friends who spoke good English, they said they wanted to swop. What a great evening we had! Also enjoyed several holidays with them.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

"How got you in to it and who was it with

I (Old fart) just progressed into it in the 70s and 80s. Milf has only been involved in the scene for about 12 years. We actually met at a sex party 9 years ago and haven't been apart since

did your wife know you was a swinger when you meet

Obviously, as it was a sex party not a Tupperware party "

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

back in the days of MSN messenger and chat...I got chatting to a local married lady who's hubby was away in the week..we met, fucked in all sorts of ways...then he found out, liked the scenario and every day he was due home...he wanted to come back for sloppy seconds..worked great until they moved away...since then I have a thing for married ladies and couples...

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

About 18 years ago in a car buying magazine at the back personal service section the was a ad for a swingers party in the Barons Court West London area I called the number and I attended a midweek party.It was only after about a hour I realised it wasn’t a swingers party but a sex party.I attended a few more where occasionally real swingers turned up and after talking and playing with some of them I was advised to go to Raquels spa in Walthamstow , Rios spa in Kentish Town or Sunset cinema in Soho if I wanted to meet real swingers.I attended all of these places and eventually found my way on to Fabs.

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By *uff the Boner!Man
over a year ago

SWANSEA

I was " Corrupted" by a older woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the local park and tried out the equipment. Scuffed my knees on the concrete piping in the mound, otherwise enjoyed myself for an hour. Slide was my fave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How got you in to it and who was it with"

A very long story

Anyone interested can message

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

"How got you in to it and who was it with

A very long story

Anyone interested can message

Why can't we all enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The misses likes cock, I like pussy. Really is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lived in Ibiza and eyes were opened lol .

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I followed the breadcrumbs leading to it.

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

A mate of mine invited me to join him and his gf and I have never looked back!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Was always into the idea of it used to look at the old contact magazines before the Internet. I actually had my first encounter through aa couple answering an ad I out in one.

Went and met them on a whim because they invited me over anytime and had the most amazing time and was hooked.

Sadly after far ro long with no real results I feel maybe it's time to stop now.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We both joined fab as we both enjoy lots of naughty fun with others and then after a few meets we got together as a couple and now live together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was about 17 years ago. Always been an avid porn site viewer. Ended up on a swinging site, which had various clubs advertising on it. Found a greedy girls night was going on that day, got in my car and went.

A couple of hours later I'm walking naked through a club in Croydon with a hard on, chatting to people and getting involved. I thought to myself at the time, this is the life for me

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By *asy going swingersCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We spoke about fantasies one night in bed, both said mmf threesome. Started on a different kind of site but then the wife of a couple recommended fab and eventually offered us her husband so we dived straight in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saw it on Mumsnet

Me too!

Sam

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Bedroom fantasy talk ended up going to swingers club to have a first hand look and we were hooked played with a lovely couple and neva looked back since

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By *onnydayzMan
over a year ago

preston

How do you have an accidental threesome?? Intrigued!

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

We was in holiday in Welsh and we go to the club for curiosity for see how work and what happened was unexpected

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Saw it on Mumsnet

Ditto ??

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Wanted to explore my bi side, did and haven't looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My late wife and I often fantasied whilst we played about having someone else joining us, both really got turned on at the thought. Then we took the plunge with a message to a younger guy on a different website, and the rest they say is history.

The first night it happened was amazing and things just went from there, single guys, couples and then on to the occasional club then finally onto the cuckold scene…..many happy memories

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

We had often fantasises during our lovemaking. The Mrs Lux was seduced by a girlfriend one boozy evening. Mr Lux looked on amazed, was invited to join them in front of the fire and the rest is history.

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By *ornyCouple17Couple
over a year ago

IPSWICH

"How got you in to it and who was it with"

Goddamn hot tub!

I reckon alot of us newbies can blame Lay-Z-Spa, ha! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like lots of others,my first wife and I had fantasies, discovered porn (this was the 80's), realised we fgncied other people, gave it a go, moved on to 3somes....I've never looked back. Threesomes still my fave and I've developed my bi side too so life is better than ever.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Was massively into wanting to be practicing bull hotwife/cuck fantasies and then on a Friday night in the City after work about 3 years back I bumped into a bi-woman who told me of her sex club exploits in Germany. That night in the early hours I signed up as a member to fab and felt like I'd walked through the stage curtain.

Been a member since and to be frank, quite a liberation. Love the community too; many friends made here.

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By *ull of the year 25 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

A lot of people are mailing me How they got in to this So if you like your story on here but not your name mail me and I’ll post it anonymously

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
over a year ago

Silverdale

Mrs decided she wanted to sleep with a woman while we were in Amsterdam! Wasnt that great so we tried again when back in the UK and had an amazing time. Some great ffm since x

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Charlotte admitted that she was turned on by the thought of being made love to by multiple men at once. I said “Well if you want to, we can fo that.” I had never thought about that, and was surprised by how turned on I was.

Charlotte replied “No we can’t - you would be too jealous,” and it took me six months to convince her I wouldn’t be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuinely went for a massage for a thigh strain, innocent first and second session.

The therapist who was a qualified sports therapist offered a full body deep tissue massage which I took up the offer.

As is the way when I turned onto my back I was tenting and she noticed but made comment and professionally carried on. Just as she was finishing she subtly asks if I would like that dealt with. I was 22 innocent and sheepishly accepted. Asking about wouldn’t her husband mind. (Photo of them both and wedding ring) she went into detail explaining about swinging and clubs and they actively swap and encourage each other.

She took me under her wing and I was her BF for two years and never looked back.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)"

Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call.

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By *ull of the year 25 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)

Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call."
do you have a list and telephone numbers lol

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)

Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call. do you have a list and telephone numbers lol"

If I did, I wouldn’t be posting on forums of a Saturday night.

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By *ull of the year 25 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

"Vicar warned me about it during pre-marriage pep talk, so had to try it ASAP. (27 years later)

Shame he didn’t give you a list of clubs to avoid and telephone numbers that you absolutely mustn’t call. do you have a list and telephone numbers lol

If I did, I wouldn’t be posting on forums of a Saturday night."
I know what I’d like to be doing on a Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my late teens (ahem

) I started posting naked photos of myself on exhibitionist forums. Not my finest moments looking back but there you go.

Anyway, I soon ended up meeting mature couples.

Had a break for over 10 years as I had a normal, mundane life. Got back into this about a year ago.

Once kinky, always kinky.

Message me if you want to here about my “adventures” until I was about 23.

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

Ex wife was 'playing away'so I decided to treat myself to a visit to my closest naturist club one Saturday night, obviously not thinking with proper brain until I realised the what 250 naked dancing party goers were up to, so it felt rude not to join in with the fun, that was over twenty years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To begin with I did it alone for some extra fun, but then got my husband involved too xx

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By *estlo-mMan
over a year ago

west lothian

I was 18 and babysat for a woman, 9 years my senior, a couple times each week. After about 6 weeks we started having sex, one year later her husband found out and decided we should all play together. Unfortunately we grew apart before I found fab, I think they would have been great on here.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

We always notice that people say there relationships is strong. We think you just fed up with the same old cuppa and fancy some Earl Gray.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

About 12 years ago I was camming on another webcam site and a couple liked what they saw and asked if I would join them. I did that weekend, then another couple the following week, and then another couple the following week. That last couple told me about fab. I havent looked back.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

It was all hubby’s idea, he’s so smart

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

It’s a great way for Mrs to explore her bi side

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Husband at the time was cheating on fab... I found out, offered to join him (because I had my own unfilled fantasies) he refused, we divorced and a unicorn was born

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Kind of found ourselves at Hedo in Jamaica 25 years ago and thought oh hello this looks like fun

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