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"A face pic is vital not just for the fact that then u can actually recognise you meet but it good for attraction purposes. Now I'm not saying looks are everything, but you've openly admitted your shy & un confident with women, so if that's the case, and it take a while for your personality to shine through u really have to hope they think u look gorgeous n are worth the effort" Oh and in regard to cock shots yes some like to see them but it doesn't impress a big majority of people. Body pics are a Defo yes as some pics are better than none | |||
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"It's what you say that matters first and foremost.... If you send a generic message, it's likely to get deleted without evening opening- in which case pics are irrelevant! " I'm not saying there is anything wrong with what you're saying - but why is what is said, so important to women; because I can guarantee, it's not that important to men - that's why we often get it wrong I think? I'm not rude, in either sense of the word, when I message people but am often at a loss as to what to say. This means I often don't say much at all until the conversation starts, then I'm a good conversationalist. I'd be interested in an example of a good first message? | |||
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"It's what you say that matters first and foremost.... If you send a generic message, it's likely to get deleted without evening opening- in which case pics are irrelevant! I'm not saying there is anything wrong with what you're saying - but why is what is said, so important to women; because I can guarantee, it's not that important to men - that's why we often get it wrong I think? I'm not rude, in either sense of the word, when I message people but am often at a loss as to what to say. This means I often don't say much at all until the conversation starts, then I'm a good conversationalist. I'd be interested in an example of a good first message? " I can only speak for myself, but say I get 30 messages a day.. 80% saying "hi, love the pics, how are you?", 10% dictating a passage from some random erotic book, 5% saying "fancy meeting tonight?", then the final 5% commenting on what I've put in my profile, or saying something funny which sparks my interest.. Do you think I'll read all of them? And in each case look at every profile?? No chance! But maybe that's because I'm looking for someone who I'm attracted to socially, as well as body? | |||
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"Hi, just wondered if cock and body pics would help if you dont want to show your face pics? Or does girls also like to see face pics? I am not having much luck on here as I dont have any pics on here, so wondered if cock and body pics may help me get some interest and messages from girls. Thanks" to make initial contact a body pic would be fine but if we got to the point of talking about meeting i would want to see your face I wouldnt meet anyone without seeing them first | |||
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"Hi, just wondered if cock and body pics would help if you dont want to show your face pics? Or does girls also like to see face pics? I am not having much luck on here as I dont have any pics on here, so wondered if cock and body pics may help me get some interest and messages from girls. Thanks" Well, as long as they were actually pictures of yourself, anything is probably better than nothing. However, if your face isn't on top of your body who's to say it is you? Personally we'd never meet a blind date or have contact with anyone with no pics, that goes for men AND women. It's no good having the body of Adonis, a cock like a mule but a face like a robbers dog. All women know what a cock looks like but in most cases its who its attached to that matters. XXXX | |||
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"Hi, just wondered if cock and body pics would help if you dont want to show your face pics? Or does girls also like to see face pics? I am not having much luck on here as I dont have any pics on here, so wondered if cock and body pics may help me get some interest and messages from girls. Thanks Well, as long as they were actually pictures of yourself, anything is probably better than nothing. However, if your face isn't on top of your body who's to say it is you? Personally we'd never meet a blind date or have contact with anyone with no pics, that goes for men AND women. It's no good having the body of Adonis, a cock like a mule but a face like a robbers dog. All women know what a cock looks like but in most cases its who its attached to that matters. XXXX" Could not have put that better myself | |||
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