FabSwingers.com forum: DDLG

By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

Thoughts please? It’s something I’d love to get into but how do you find a lady who wants that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!"

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well you need to figure that out before you go looking, or at least look for someone who is fluid in their role too.

It's difficult for inexperienced kinksters to find a dynamic though because most partners will be looking for experience especially if they are subs or littles.

If you're serious then treat it as a research and social phase only. Go to munches, learn from other people's experiences and learn what it is you like.

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

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This is one of my big no no’s it’s just not for me I find it creepy.

Just coz it ain’t for me doesn’t meen others can’t enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too "

There is a complete difference between being dominant and being A DOMINANT! Especially DDlg!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is one of my big no no’s it’s just not for me I find it creepy.

Just coz it ain’t for me doesn’t meen others can’t enjoy it "

You came onto the thread to say how creepy it is? Huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too "

Ddlg is quite consuming, it’s not really something you can dip in and out of in my opinion.

It’s a really beautiful dynamic, of trust, vulnerability and love.

Obviously it depends on the sub, but it may require a Dd that can hold space for the little.

I would say it’s not for the faint hearted.

Having said all that, it’s massively rewarding on both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too "

I agree with the others, start learning. Talk to others, read, read more. Maybe try a site more aimed at kinsters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, it needs a lot of patience, understanding and flexibility to establish trust and a strong dynamic

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

Ok maybe I don’t need the full DDLG just a submissive girl then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok maybe I don’t need the full DDLG just a submissive girl then "

If you’re not sure, then a sub might be better, but you still need to read, educate yourself and learn about it.

You’re taking someone’s safety and mental health into your hands.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok maybe I don’t need the full DDLG just a submissive girl then "

You need to read and learn for that too! It's not click your fingers and a sub lands at your feet.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too "

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Ddlg is quite consuming, it’s not really something you can dip in and out of in my opinion.

It’s a really beautiful dynamic, of trust, vulnerability and love.

Obviously it depends on the sub, but it may require a Dd that can hold space for the little.

I would say it’s not for the faint hearted.

Having said all that, it’s massively rewarding on both sides. "

Thanks are you DDLG or just submissive?x

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Ok maybe I don’t need the full DDLG just a submissive girl then

If you’re not sure, then a sub might be better, but you still need to read, educate yourself and learn about it.

You’re taking someone’s safety and mental health into your hands.

Good luck

I know but I’m a very caring guy! Maybe too caring.. it’s all new to me I just know I like to dominate x

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Ok maybe I don’t need the full DDLG just a submissive girl then

You need to read and learn for that too! It's not click your fingers and a sub lands at your feet. "

Thanks for the advice x

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual."

Sound hot to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Ddlg is quite consuming, it’s not really something you can dip in and out of in my opinion.

It’s a really beautiful dynamic, of trust, vulnerability and love.

Obviously it depends on the sub, but it may require a Dd that can hold space for the little.

I would say it’s not for the faint hearted.

Having said all that, it’s massively rewarding on both sides.

Thanks are you DDLG or just submissive?x"

Both

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x"

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Ddlg is quite consuming, it’s not really something you can dip in and out of in my opinion.

It’s a really beautiful dynamic, of trust, vulnerability and love.

Obviously it depends on the sub, but it may require a Dd that can hold space for the little.

I would say it’s not for the faint hearted.

Having said all that, it’s massively rewarding on both sides.

Thanks are you DDLG or just submissive?x

Both "

Thanks I’ll try with my next gf and see what happens.. I think it’s all about trust and communication x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Ok maybe I don’t need the full DDLG just a submissive girl then "

You need to figure out what you want.

You want a submissive girl, for what?

What kind of submission are you looking for?

You mention being dominant, in what ways? Being bullish, shouty, controlling?

What drew you to DD/lg? What do you think that is? Someone calling you Daddy while you fuck them, or wearing pig tails and a shirt skirt?

D/s and its many forms take a lot of trust and communication between both parties.

You need to learn to crawl before you can run.

Finding someone that will work with a novice can be hard, but isn’t impossible.

You need to learn about yourself, what you like, what you need, what you can offer.

Then you need to learn how to do all those things safely.

Learn about SSC, RACK and PRICK.

Learn about pre play checklists; the types of questions to ask your playmates to ensure a safe time for all.

And if all of that sounds like too much effort then D/s isn’t for you and you likely just need to find someone who enjoys “kinky, dirty sex”.

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char."

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??"

Personally I would look on some kink sites

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Not every DDlg relationship is always a dominant DD and submissive lg. In the same way, not every DDlg dynamic involves BDSM or sexual play.

One of my personas is a dominant, bratty, demanding LG, with a submissive dd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??

Personally I would look on some kink sites"

There’s lots of knowledgeable Dd and lg on the forum

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??"

Not a challenge, just where did it come from?

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??

Not a challenge, just where did it come from?"

I’m chatting to a couple on here and they are ddlg.. she been telling me how it all started and it turned me on x

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??

Personally I would look on some kink sites

There’s lots of knowledgeable Dd and lg on the forum

Thanks I’ll have a nosey sometime x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??

Not a challenge, just where did it come from?

I’m chatting to a couple on here and they are ddlg.. she been telling me how it all started and it turned me on x"

Brilliant, would have been a tad concerned if it had come from porn.

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By *hilccc OP Man
over a year ago

West Lancashire

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Mmm my wife will submit to me, however if she picks up on a chink of weakness in other assertive attitude she will rip them into submission.

This is is so much more than sexual.

Sound hot to me x

What made you come up with this kink? Not everyone’s cup of char.

Just wanted peoples thoughts.. I can’t ask my friends about it ??

Not a challenge, just where did it come from?

I’m chatting to a couple on here and they are ddlg.. she been telling me how it all started and it turned me on x

Brilliant, would have been a tad concerned if it had come from porn."

Porn no chance!! That’s made up crap! If I do watch porn I watch amateurs! It’s real people and real sex!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen to that !!

Absolutely nailed that response !

Takes time to get into the dynamic. Years in some cases, and whilst individual, I feel it needs that time to grow and develop.

Had the dynamic once. She’ll always be my first baby girl and I’ll never ever replace her, nor enter into the dynamic with anyone new. I think that should indicate how deep the connection, trust, dynamic and relationship really is.

"Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Ddlg is quite consuming, it’s not really something you can dip in and out of in my opinion.

It’s a really beautiful dynamic, of trust, vulnerability and love.

Obviously it depends on the sub, but it may require a Dd that can hold space for the little.

I would say it’s not for the faint hearted.

Having said all that, it’s massively rewarding on both sides. "

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Amen to that !!

Absolutely nailed that response !

Takes time to get into the dynamic. Years in some cases, and whilst individual, I feel it needs that time to grow and develop.

Lots of ladies are into it. You do however need to do a shit ton of research, proper subs want proper doms. Not wannabe Daddies!

Thanks I’m not sure I want like 100% DDLG I just like being dominant.. tho I also like being submissive too

Ddlg is quite consuming, it’s not really something you can dip in and out of in my opinion.

It’s a really beautiful dynamic, of trust, vulnerability and love.

Obviously it depends on the sub, but it may require a Dd that can hold space for the little.

I would say it’s not for the faint hearted.

Having said all that, it’s massively rewarding on both sides. "

I think it depends on the dynamic. In my last DDlg relationship it was very fluid and I wasn't always little (especially because we played with regression).

Part of me is desperate for a new DD. But finding someone that fits me is proving exceptionally difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do lots of research.

It's lots off communication.

What kinda little do you want?

What kinda daddy will you be?

You need answers to those questions, well thought out answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being an older DD I feel I have changed in the role over the years, almost grown into it, is no longer an image to project but more of who I am. Would love that DDlg relationship again, who knows it may well happen, if not I have a lot of good memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being an older DD I feel I have changed in the role over the years, almost grown into it, is no longer an image to project but more of who I am."

this!

exactly how my DD is.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

"Thoughts please? It’s something I’d love to get into but how do you find a lady who wants that?"

Check the fetish sites or perhaps OKC. Not my thing but that's where the ladies I know who like this hang out.

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By *niformed professionalMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I find it very rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the tip.....what is OKC?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the tip.....what is OKC?"

Ok Cupid

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

Check out fetlife xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the tip.....what is OKC?

Ok Cupid"

Are there a lot of people on ok Cupid who have an interest in fetishes then?

I’ve tried fet in the past and didn’t like it, seemed like a lot of Americans on there (got nothing against Americans other than them living miles away from me) and also loads of fake profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duck and cover

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Being a DD has become an integral part of me now.

After so long I can't seem to separate. It's basically just how I am.

That said, even now I am always learning more and evolving.

Different littles need different things.

If you want to be a DD and explore DDlg then be prepared to research the role. Talk to people in that lifestyle. Don't rush into anything, especially with a little. Build her trust, nurture and encourage her.

It's a very time consuming lifestyle, if that makes sense.

But it is a very beautiful one

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