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By *scarpat OP   Man
over a year ago

sexy town

Hi all.

Genuine question as I've never been to a club..I'd like to introduce someone to soft swinging and thought a club maybe the way forward? We'd like to have sex with each other but with others also having sex in the same room or watching us.

She's not ready to have others join us physically.

Any helpful advice would be greatly received.

Please be kind.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Hi all.

Genuine question as I've never been to a club..I'd like to introduce someone to soft swinging and thought a club maybe the way forward? We'd like to have sex with each other but with others also having sex in the same room or watching us.

She's not ready to have others join us physically.

Any helpful advice would be greatly received.

Please be kind. "

This will be possible in any swingers clubs. Nobody should touch you without previously asking. Enjoy the whole experience. Have a read of club reviews to get a feeling what clubs are like. Have fun.

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By *scarpat OP   Man
over a year ago

sexy town

Thank you Lizzy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs would be a pretty good idea then.

I’d probably suggest a couples/single females only night. There are rules in place that mean people can’t just “join in” unless invited to play, but some single men take advantage when the female is in the throws of things. Couples/single female nights will be more relaxed.

Most clubs have couples only playrooms too which can be people having sex in their couples just near each other. Which seems to be what you’re after?

There should never be any pressure from anyone to play, so maybe even popping along just for the social side first may be an idea?

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By *scarpat OP   Man
over a year ago

sexy town

That's good advice thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs would be a pretty good idea then.

I’d probably suggest a couples/single females only night. There are rules in place that mean people can’t just “join in” unless invited to play, but some single men take advantage when the female is in the throws of things. Couples/single female nights will be more relaxed.

Most clubs have couples only playrooms too which can be people having sex in their couples just near each other. Which seems to be what you’re after?

There should never be any pressure from anyone to play, so maybe even popping along just for the social side first may be an idea? "

Superb advise. We're looking to try our first club after New year's. Planning on valentines event. That was helpful

Your photos are amazing by the way

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

My Mrs was the same and wanted soft swap or people watching only but now there is no stopping her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We want this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm the same (Bebop) I'm guessing it's all about the confidence thing for me. I'm wanting to get stuck in but I'm holding back. I guess until I'm in that position then hopefully with the help from Rocksteady I will be more confident and try new things

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Hopfully early new year (restrictions depending) we are hoping to get to a club to see if it is for us, hopfully some people there with L plates on like us lol xxx

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