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"I’m married but just get abuse " Same, hard to find people who are okay with it, used to be fine but I think this site has changed unfortunately | |||
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"Wives who like other wives husbands !!!!" As long as everyone is aware, why not. | |||
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"Wives who like other wives husbands !!!!" I am.single i hope you like single men too | |||
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"I’m married but just get abuse Same here, I want and give total discretion but it seems some are so embedded in the lifestyle that they judge, criticise and seem to feel it is ok to verbally abuse. Surely we should all simply accept person choice and decision making. There is a potentially rich and rewarding playtime for us all but we also need to accept when we are aren’t the right fit for others too. " Hits the nail on the head | |||
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles" This too | |||
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"I only do if their wife is fully aware they are on here. Otherwise no thanks Miss" What if her exact words are go out and sort yourself out as long as I don’t hear about it or know about it ? | |||
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles" I do, at the very start of my profile, | |||
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles" If your married and your on here without your partners permission , you should just become single . The ones that make me laugh are the ones that boast about their honesty about being married but can’t be honest with the one person they should always be honest with ! | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread " I make no apology for it , it’s a swingers site not a cheaters site . | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread " But what do you expect? Can't go expecting randomers to trust and believe whatever sob story they have for being on here as if they aren't honest and truthful with their own partner they aren't exactly going to be honest and truthful with randomers on here! Don't care if that sounds judgemental, but cheaters have to see it from honest folks point of view. | |||
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"I only do if their wife is fully aware they are on here. Otherwise no thanks Miss What if her exact words are go out and sort yourself out as long as I don’t hear about it or know about it ?" Sorry I wouldn't meet as I'd need confirmation from the lady (I am half a couple and confirm to others that my partner meets with consent). Others will meet though if you're upfront with them. | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread " Everyone judges others,and I have my preferences as do you I'm sure. Miss | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread " An awful lot of people that can’t be honest with the people they’re married to in this thread… | |||
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"We prefer men that are in a cpl situation and there other half doesn’t mind husband playing away.. " That’s me. It doesn’t make any difference. Must couples just don’t believe it. I guess they’ve been burnt by liars previously | |||
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe” Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part. You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. " Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her" Not you can shag others with permission. So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows. Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow? Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. | |||
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe” Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part. You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her" Not you can shag others with permission. So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows. Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow? Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. " You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread . You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe. | |||
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe” Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part. You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her" Not you can shag others with permission. So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows. Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow? Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. " was going to say the exact same thing. A load of twaddle this "making a mockery" commentary. Folk have their own reasons for being on here,fair enough,but some of the nonsense you read on hear for excuses to denigrate people is laughable. Dont want involved in a domestic being another. Well unless you are meeting at yours or their home and have coughed up your phone number then how are you going to get dragged into it? | |||
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe” Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part. You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her" Not you can shag others with permission. So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows. Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow? Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread . You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe." My point is you have no idea of their situation. My partner was terminally ill and passed away 3 years ago. We couldn't have a physical relationship for 4 years prior to his death. He told me to find someone else to have sex with but he wanted to know nothing about it if I did. I had his blessing although I never did it. Others could be in a similar situation. I don't judge simply from a sentence on a profile where the person is being honest about being married. You have a choice not to meet them but you don't have the right to judge without the facts. | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread " Not necessarily judgmental.... But if someone is going to lie to the person they are supposed to love, then why would they be honest to complete strangers on here? | |||
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe” Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part. You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her" Not you can shag others with permission. So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows. Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow? Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread . You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe. My point is you have no idea of their situation. My partner was terminally ill and passed away 3 years ago. We couldn't have a physical relationship for 4 years prior to his death. He told me to find someone else to have sex with but he wanted to know nothing about it if I did. I had his blessing although I never did it. Others could be in a similar situation. I don't judge simply from a sentence on a profile where the person is being honest about being married. You have a choice not to meet them but you don't have the right to judge without the facts. " I don't think anyone has a problem with people who have permission or consent from their other halves to be here, it's the dishonest ones that people like to avoid. If there are people that are in a similar situation to you but instead choose to cheat without them knowing or without their blessing then we'd class them as absolute scum and they need to have a long look at themselves as a human being. | |||
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"One of reasons we stick to singles is because it can be hard to know if they are single or not. What cheaters have to understand is that the majority of us don't want the risk of possibly being dragged into a domestic and have to understand that trust and honesty is a important thing when is comes to swinging and being a cheat shows they don't have either. " Totally agree, this is our view as well. Don't really want an irate wife causing problems. Sex in a club scene is different to in someone's home where their wife could come home unexpectedly or find out what's going on and turn up on our doorstep. | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread I make no apology for it , it’s a swingers site not a cheaters site ." Say it louder l, for the ones in the back | |||
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"No problems with married men here. Just need to be honest and upfront. " With you or their wife ? | |||
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"“SoMe VeRy JuDgEmEnTal PeOpLe” Grow up. You made a vow to your spouse that you will be together through sickness, and in health, rich or poor, till death do you part. You’re making a mockery of vows. Disgusting. Vows also state "and keep you only unto him/her" Not you can shag others with permission. So if you want to get picky lots of you are breaking your vows. Married couples on here just just choose which vows they want to follow? Everyone has their own reason for being on here. Just because you don't approve does not give you the right to abuse them when you don't know their situation. You do have the right to an opinion and the right to express it though , I have not seen anyone being abusive on this thread . You don’t need to know someone’s situation to know that cheating is wrong and can end in catastrophe. My point is you have no idea of their situation. My partner was terminally ill and passed away 3 years ago. We couldn't have a physical relationship for 4 years prior to his death. He told me to find someone else to have sex with but he wanted to know nothing about it if I did. I had his blessing although I never did it. Others could be in a similar situation. I don't judge simply from a sentence on a profile where the person is being honest about being married. You have a choice not to meet them but you don't have the right to judge without the facts. " Difference is that your partner knew and was supportive of you doing it , lying to your partner about it is not on . | |||
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"This is a great and passionate conversation. Do people have the same feeling if the wife is meeting couples without the husbands knowledge?? The obvious answer is yes.. but do we? If a pretty lady messages you saying she would like to come and spend a few hours with you are you going to interrogate her as much as men are?? Just a thought.. " Yes . | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread I make no apology for it , it’s a swingers site not a cheaters site . Say it louder, for the ones in the back " Here for this And that applies to any sex before the men start the woe is me, if it was a woman it’d be different moan ha | |||
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"well men and women can cheat on there partners there is always a reson why they could be in a lovless marriage or a sexless marriage but who knows we should not condemed there choice as log as you or the other person don't hurt eachother and enjoy the time together what is wrong with that " I will always condemn those choices , along with people who are happy to be the other man/ woman . There are always other choices than cheating , it’s just a lot of people are too weak minded to take them . | |||
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"Some very judgmental people this thread I make no apology for it , it’s a swingers site not a cheaters site . Say it louder, for the ones in the back Here for this And that applies to any sex before the men start the woe is me, if it was a woman it’d be different moan ha" So glad there are a few others on here with some morals and a heart , anyone who has felt the pain of being shit on by someone you love , should never want to inflict that pain on others . | |||
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles" It's in the first paragraph of mine x | |||
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"No problems with married men here. Just need to be honest and upfront. " Totally agree. | |||
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"Probably most the single people you meet are married lol. How will you ever know unless you get someone knocking at you door? " Soon as they say the can only do daytime meets during the week I instantly think they are cheating on a partner maybe just the way my mind works!! | |||
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"much prefered. they are safer" Safer how? I’ve only had drama on here once and that was with a married man who lied ha! (I obviously showed all evidence to said wife and confirmed everything ) | |||
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"much prefered. they are safer Safer how? I’ve only had drama on here once and that was with a married man who lied ha! (I obviously showed all evidence to said wife and confirmed everything ) " Why would you do that? And how would you even get the opportunity? | |||
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"We prefer men that are in a cpl situation and there other half doesn’t mind husband playing away.. " Agreed. Both borrowing and also loaning. Transparent, honest, horny af! | |||
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"much prefered. they are safer Safer how? I’ve only had drama on here once and that was with a married man who lied ha! (I obviously showed all evidence to said wife and confirmed everything ) Why would you do that? And how would you even get the opportunity?" Because she made contact with me after she found out (I didn’t/ wouldn’t go looking, should have clarified that!) I’m not lying to her and covering for him, why would I? | |||
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"Probably most the single people you meet are married lol. How will you ever know unless you get someone knocking at you door? Soon as they say the can only do daytime meets during the week I instantly think they are cheating on a partner maybe just the way my mind works!!" Or maybe they work night shift, with overtime I can work 6 or 7 nights a week. I'd rather be open to overtime than letting a potential meet down because of work | |||
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"Wives who like other wives husbands !!!! As long as everyone is aware, why not." Because ‘Fab Judgement’, where other people decide on your martial situation and dynamic on your behalf, without even knowing you. | |||
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"I like women who like my husband. I actively encourage him." Gold star! And another one for your gallery…. | |||
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles I do, at the very start of my profile, " So do I. Up front and honest | |||
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"Those of you who are married should state that on your profiles" I do always up front no use hiding it | |||
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"Depends if the wife knows or not " You're our favourite person on the forums at the moment! | |||
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"Depends if the wife knows or not You're our favourite person on the forums at the moment! " Lol, what did I do? | |||
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"Who loves naughty chat about their wifes messages me I love to wank while chatting x" I do | |||
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