FabSwingers.com forum: how hard to get a gangbang

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..

Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..

Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..

anyone else have this problem?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Get to know guys on the club scene and then invite those. You know they are reliable as they attend clubs

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Always book double the amount of guys that'll you'll need because half of them will always drop out

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Have always wanted this just find it difficult to arrange.

X Storm X

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Or find an established GB group. Getting randoms to a gangbang is like herding cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check Greedygirlsparties’ website. You may be able to arrange one through them

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off.

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Use to be quite easy want 6 cocks invite 8 possibly get 5 now want 6 invite 20 4 might turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the same problem two weeks ago. 22 guys confirmed they were coming. How many showed?

Three.

The rest when very quiet while remaining online..incredible how many arses fall out when you say yes to a single guy!! To get 10 you’ll need 50 that say yes.

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus

Search gamgbang in the search feature and quite a lot of organisers come up, just need to find one near you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given how difficult it seems for some to meet 1 person, I don’t know why you thought it would be easy

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By *r Normally KinkyMan
over a year ago

Somerset

I have arranged and attended a fair few.

But its always been the case that you need to add 30-50% more guys than you actually want.

I did have a group of reliable guys but they all drifted off and found long term partners, damm shame really.

Do love a nice sticky GB

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Use to be quite easy want 6 cocks invite 8 possibly get 5 now want 6 invite 20 4 might turn up "

Be carefully what you wish for, we wanted MMMF session so told to invite 5 and all 5 turned up.

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Never been involved in one but really don’t get the no show bit. If I commit myself to something I want to be involved in then, short of death, just bloody turn up and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and cinemas are probably the best way to go

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"We had the same problem two weeks ago. 22 guys confirmed they were coming. How many showed?

Three.

The rest when very quiet while remaining online..incredible how many arses fall out when you say yes to a single guy!! To get 10 you’ll need 50 that say yes. "

We invited 6 one time.

Nobody turned up. Lol

Went for a pizza and a movie instead.

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By *dge of HeavenMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I always show up and perform - just a damn shame you are all so far away!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have a fab friend who organises gangbangs so all the guys he knows show up and participate well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been trying to organise one or two. So many time wasters. But with this pandemic isnt helping either

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In my experience you have to invite the guys who either you know or who have proper veris to prove they turn up. I know a few couples who try to organise gb’s or parties and they all say the drop off in numbers is crazy - which kind of makes a mockery of all those guys who complain that they can’t get a meet.

If people have proven they are reliable then you can probably rely on them to turn up.

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By *ullseye100Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Would love to go to one

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By *anter007Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off. "

I went to one at VA years ago, didn't expect to get charge so heavy at the door, about £100, I travelled, so paid, but found i out why once inside, as the club had rented it out to a woman from Birmingham, who had 4 other girls there.and 50 paying guys, plus a few burly minders. Clearly hookers, get 1hr of blow job's then 30 minute break, then an hour of fucking/gangbang.

But rules, rules,rules. Felt ripped off. Then got asked to leave, only to find another bunch of men waiting to get in for the evening shift.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes we have the same problem.

Loads of talk but no action from some people on fab.

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

Have arranged a few gangbangs I find it easier to use guys I know who are reliable and know just want fun. Last one was a two girl GB both ladies had massive fun

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"In my experience you have to invite the guys who either you know or who have proper veris to prove they turn up. I know a few couples who try to organise gb’s or parties and they all say the drop off in numbers is crazy - which kind of makes a mockery of all those guys who complain that they can’t get a meet.

If people have proven they are reliable then you can probably rely on them to turn up."

You would thinks so, but nothing is guaranteed. We organised a small group gathering a few months ago. Had loads of guys with verifications say they were “in” so we chose a select few, ones who had been messaging for ages and had good verifications (apparently) gave time and location and still had to call on some stand ins last minute as 4 guys all with more than 15 veris each went quiet and ignored messages. Felt like just because they had loads of veris, that gave them the right to mess people about. Annoyingly, we and the guy hosting had put so much effort into arranging the evening which is something these timewasters have no consideration for. Total lack of respect.

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

It’s really annoying for us guys who will turn up if invited. I would say contact my veris to see what kind of person I am, but what would promote trust that someone will actually turn up? I’d love to participate but understand the hesitation when you get so many no shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason that I gave up on arranging a gangbang was how hard it was. It not just you having to invite more than you want but it's the number of messages that you get from guys asking if they can come early or ask if it would be a one on one.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think the easiest way to organise it is to do it at a club on a night when single men are welcome, and then just use you would like an invite them to your selected area.

You already have a choice of people, the venue and the atmosphere.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If people have proven they are reliable then you can probably rely on them to turn up.

I am sorry to hear that. I didn’t say it was guaranteed but in my experience I tend see couples meet the same people so maybe they know they can generally trust them?

I can imagine that if everyone was a new invite (verified or not) then that makes it more likely to be a no show.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Only invite people who you've already met, is my key rule. You know them, reliability etc. And they lose the chance for future interactions, if they mess you about.

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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago

Oldham/Birmingham

Please do share your experiences x my guy wants me to try one

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Please do share your experiences x my guy wants me to try one

You probably won’t turn up anyway

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Always book double the amount of guys that'll you'll need because half of them will always drop out

Only half? That is optimistic.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

For the ones I have helped organise it is usually a 50% drop out or no show from the guys... so be prepared to invite twice the amount that the lady at the center of attention would be happy with.

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..

Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..

Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..

anyone else have this problem?"

Yes tell me about it. We've tried arranging it but not successful so far

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..

Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..

Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..

anyone else have this problem?"

You've got more chance of getting a wank from the pope than you have of all the blokes turning up as arranged. We've given up trying to get one sorted

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

“how hard to get a gangbang” Discuss!

All I can say is when I attend a gangbang the ladies are superhot and consequently us males get very hard indeed. If we weren’t it wouldn’t end up a gangbang but more like a masonic lodge with a visiting nun!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"We never realised how difficult it would be to either arrange or have an arranged gang bang..

Dawn enjoys multiple guys at clubs, but instead of having to travel many miles we thought perhaps having one nearer home..

Not as easy as thought lots of guys talk the talk but then back out just do not show up..

anyone else have this problem?

You've got more chance of getting a wank from the pope than you have of all the blokes turning up as arranged. We've given up trying to get one sorted "

The current Pope has very liberal views so I think your chance of getting a wank from him is probably fairly good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop cry that nobody meet you when you look on the other part of the wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop cry that nobody meet you when you look on the other part of the wall "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a couple of gangbangs. One of the organisers said that older men were more reliable, and that men around my age were much more likely to turn up.

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By *inis_and_HeelsCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I would imagine it's maybe much easier to just accept the travelling and go the club route The atmosphere is there from the start and there's a ready supply of willing guys. The more house party type of events tend to be better or so we've found.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

we tried a while back, invited 20 thinking 10 would show up, one did, allthe others got cold feet

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By *aul349Man
over a year ago

Newcastle area

"We invited 6 one time.

Nobody turned up. Lol

Went for a pizza and a movie instead."

My FB and I had the same problem last year.

So much random car trouble on the same night.

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By *e Platypuss de ErotiqueMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Noted. I was considering setting one up for my FB (it's number #1 on her Fuck-it-list) but after reading the above comments I may not bother, I'm sure all manner of chaos and random car trouble would ensure!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

As a couple who loves Gb's, they can be very frustrating to organise. So many talk the talk, time wasters and limp dicks. Not to mention the ones thats just want to come and watch. Ones that want to meet before for a 1 on 1.

We also get the cold callers after saying let them know the next one and they will turn up. Or if they'd of known about it, they would of been there.

So very frustrating, when everyday you see status saying they can't get meets.

Theres no answer to it. It's got worse over the years. But that's the luck and excitment of swinging. You never know what your gonna get. We're old school swingers. We never do the same type of meet in a row. If we go doggin today. We're go clubbing next ect. Mix it up keep it fresh and exciting. And if we don't meet others, we still have an amazing time between us.

Ps, I'd love to have 50 guys for my 50th next Nov. That won't happen, but a girl can dream.

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Doesn't seem to be any couples from northwest complaining must be randy gits lol.

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

Established group here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stop cry that nobody meet you when you look on the other part of the wall "

I am sure you may have all of the words in there somewhere but any chance you can put them into some sort of coherent sentence?

Either that or your pissed

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"As a couple who loves Gb's, they can be very frustrating to organise. So many talk the talk, time wasters and limp dicks. Not to mention the ones thats just want to come and watch. Ones that want to meet before for a 1 on 1.

We also get the cold callers after saying let them know the next one and they will turn up. Or if they'd of known about it, they would of been there.

So very frustrating, when everyday you see status saying they can't get meets.

Ps, I'd love to have 50 guys for my 50th next Nov. That won't happen, but a girl can dream. "

Love your tent pics. Yes mixing up experiences keeps it fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to to be invited to a gang bang party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love one but really fussy and the groups around here do nothing for me ( sorry! )

However I did arrange one myself perhaps 8 yrs ago via Fab. 11 turned up, over 7 hrs

Those were the Fab days

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By *anter007Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"Stop cry that nobody meet you when you look on the other part of the wall "

What?

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

only chat to people here who are user verified for a start. Otherwise the suggestion's mentioned before of going to venues and clubs and exchanging contact details with people you get along with, like, think you can trust. Or simply do it in the clubs there and then spontaneously....

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

"Clubs and cinemas are probably the best way to go "

Bugger asking for that at the odeon..

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Be carefully what you wish for, we wanted MMMF session so told to invite 5 and all 5 turned up. "

Result and a bonus

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I really think you need several preparatory meets, leading up to a gangbang. Include socials potentially in check compatibility. Having smaller groups is good too, just 2 or 3 people - helps check they are OK with others and perform.

Some men like to hide in groups, so you can filter those out.

These also help you to gauge reliability too, of course.

Typically the most unreliable are a group of unknowns. It can work but often causes disappointment. If you're not relying on available men at clubs and that spontaneity, increasing the reliability and compatibility factors in advance, is the surer way. And meeting up front is also a lot of pleasure too. I also find these friends endure and can evolve into more action in future. You learn as you go

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We always get this problem asked for five or six we may get one working cock for 10 mins its a nightmare so now we keep a regular list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not my type more than threesome is not good for me.. I want to feel her and enjoy her completely....not intrested in enjoying only a little bit part of her !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love the wife to have even three plus me but you get enough no shows even with one guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's even harder when you need a venue as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to find an established, reliable group of guys.

Such as mine.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Only invite people who you've already met, is my key rule. You know them, reliability etc. And they lose the chance for future interactions, if they mess you about. "

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"You need to find an established, reliable group of guys.

Such as mine."

Sadly, no reliable established groups that I have found down our way. Therefore, have to arrange it myself.

Hopefully Saturday will be a success. 3 of the 10 are guys we have met before and then there is the host (if he doesn’t turn up we are all fucked …. Or not as the case may be!) The rest have all been meet verified, so we will have to wait and see!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

You could always make them pay a fee before the event and give it back on the night when they show up.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off. "

Its the £100 contribution you need to put in for the £68 a night Premier Inn they are staying in.

I always find that somewhat difficult to get my head around

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"I love a good gangbang but it's these profiles that charge £100+ to attend a gangbang puts me off.

But rules, rules,rules. Felt ripped off. Then got asked to leave, only to find another bunch of men waiting to get in for the evening shift."

There are definitely profiles on here that advertise too regularly for meets. All of which are paid meets. Definitely sex workers and not swingers

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

You need a group of regular guys you see and then get them altogether would be the most reliable way of getting it to work.

Inviting random guys will always be a let down on numbers.

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By *mids LadMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I have a married friend who's been trying to get a group of guys together as its always been a fantasy of hers but all she gets is cancellations and no shows

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

"Use to be quite easy want 6 cocks invite 8 possibly get 5 now want 6 invite 20 4 might turn up

Be carefully what you wish for, we wanted MMMF session so told to invite 5 and all 5 turned up. "

That doesn’t sound like a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to experience my first gangbang

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