FabSwingers.com forum: “All limits respected”

By *iniskirtcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

A common phrase on here, this “all limits respected”

Does anyone ever write messages or profile text saying “nope, not gonna respect your limits I’m gonna probe them, push them and bust them down if you like it or not”?

Or is that reserved for another, more extreme swinger’s website?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think people put that because so many either don't respect limits, completely ignore them or are horribly surprised that yours are different to theirs.

It should go without saying but unfortunately it doesn't

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

"I think people put that because so many either don't respect limits, completely ignore them or are horribly surprised that yours are different to theirs.

It should go without saying but unfortunately it doesn't"

For us we like to know and share limits so no one over steps anyones comfort and boundaries. It may not be the sexiest conversation but it is important as we dont fully swap unlrss just with a woman, so would never want to miss lead people.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We discuss limits before any sort of play. If anyone pushes those at all then everything stops and the evening stops. No excuse as we all have discussed before. Simple

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I get a lot of messages from guys who tell me they want to "push my boundaries". Not interested, my boundaries are there for a reason.

I'd much rather someone said they'd respect my limits.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve had people tell me they like to push boundaries. That they want to fuck my arse after I tell them anal is a limit. Got a message this morning from someone telling me even police dogs couldn’t get him off me.

So yes, this is a thing that happens, in messages and in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A common phrase on here, this “all limits respected”

Does anyone ever write messages or profile text saying “nope, not gonna respect your limits I’m gonna probe them, push them and bust them down if you like it or not”?

Or is that reserved for another, more extreme swinger’s website?

Some don't respect what you've wrote on your profile - so I wouldn't meet them to find out their no respect with consent....

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Probing does sound fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never break the speed limits, too fast and may never get invited again

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Our boundaries are set out before agreeing to a meet. Worked well so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men send messages ignoring what I am looking for, even when I point it out they carry on.

I'm not shocked that some people feel the need to state that they will be respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never put it on my profile (as yet) but I always ask people what are their limits and what they're willing or not willing to explore, that way the sex can flow more naturally.

But I'll add it to my profile later this evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men send messages ignoring what I am looking for, even when I point it out they carry on.

I'm not shocked that some people feel the need to state that they will be respectful.

I always watch a person's profile, read it b4 messaging them, I don't think it takes too long to do that, unless if you're someone trying to hit some quota of messages a day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men send messages ignoring what I am looking for, even when I point it out they carry on.

I'm not shocked that some people feel the need to state that they will be respectful.

I always watch a person's profile, read it b4 messaging them, I don't think it takes too long to do that, unless if you're someone trying to hit some quota of messages a day lol"

To be fair to the men they're probably just fed up of getting no replies so resort to messaging any woman online.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We post that in our profile but seems like some idiots dont read and still want to push our limits.

Sometimes we just want soft play and not full sex, had a few meets where we have explained this and they have tried to go the full way.

You push the limits you wont meet us again and the meet ends straight away.

Him

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By *aul349Man
over a year ago

Newcastle area

"I get a lot of messages from guys who tell me they want to "push my boundaries". Not interested, my boundaries are there for a reason.

I'd much rather someone said they'd respect my limits."

Common problem.

When I play with my FB we are constantly told by guys they want to both respect our limits and push boundaries...

Respect our limits and push your boundaries elsewhere.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

You’re right that we all say it, but we all have to mean it. Pushing boundaries if agreed is fine but not charging straight through and selfishly leaving the others to pick up the pieces!

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By *iniskirtcouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

To be clear.

We have limits.

Limits are to be respected and adhered to.

However, it would seem that most men on here can't read a profile.

We could put that we only play with Yetis and we'd still get men asking if miniskirt 'is free now'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people tell me they like to push boundaries. That they want to fuck my arse after I tell them anal is a limit. Got a message this morning from someone telling me even police dogs couldn’t get him off me.

So yes, this is a thing that happens, in messages and in person. "

Just truly shows the true deeper mindset within that shell of a person how they think ..

Never shocked easily!!

But some are overlooked many pass through the hoop un noticed!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We ALWAYS discuss limits, however on the one occasion the guy didn't stick to it which angered us immensely, we made our excuses and left, still annoys us to this day.

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