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When is the right time to ask their name?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When is the right time to ask their name?

Before initiating sexual contact, during the act itself, or post action?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's polite to get someone's name before they put their penis in you no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. It's irrelevant.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Their real name of the name they want to give you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their is no right time to ask, only a right time for someone to choose to give it.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We usually give our name's on the day of the social, up until then we are clit and cock lol.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

We share our names earlier on in chat if it’s going well…

At clubs…names aren’t necessary unless you are talking beforehand

K

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

After they have cum on your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give my name out the moment someone looks at my profile title not sure why people are quite so paranoid about a first name I'm Tom and I imagine there is quite a lot of toms in the world I have nothing to hide and am very comfortable with the lifestyle I lead it's not illegal do any one can no my name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once asked a guy when i was on my way to his btw whats ur name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their is no right time to ask, only a right time for someone to choose to give it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my name out quite readily to people I talk to, but I think it’s good (if you’re going to ask) to ask early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. Lots of people with different circumstances might not want to give it. That's fine xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always confess and give the woman or couple my real name when I meet.

It just feels like the right thing to do

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As long as I have something to call or refer to them by I don’t care if its their real name or a scene name.

If needed I will use my own pet names for them, especially if they insist on being called something stupid like thunderclit65

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By *JSwingsMan
over a year ago

The Midlands & North West


"It's polite to get someone's name before they put their penis in you no? "

You've got mine.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's polite to get someone's name before they put their penis in you no?

You've got mine..... "

Insert penis here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to know their name before meeting, even socially. I'm not really doing anything too shocking - just a single primarily meeting singles and I'm pretty good at judging who is cool, so not that big a deal to tell each other some personal info while chatting. Meeting as a couple I could see why you'd maybe want to be more discreet and use fake names.

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By *erry 58Man
over a year ago

doncaster

When writing a receipt for payment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am gonna invite someone to spend some time in my body then i think at least an exchange of names is polite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I am gonna invite someone to spend some time in my body then i think at least an exchange of names is polite."

But at what point, before, during or after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never; it is irrelvant in casual one of meetings. We do not give a toss what your name is and would not tell you are real names either, so why bother asking?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I need to know someone’s name before meeting them , the kind of person that uses false names or doesn’t want to give their name isn’t for me, indicator of weirdness and drama to come

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

My name is Sarah, same as it says on my profile.

I did once call a FB by the wrong name for almost 12 months. He didn't like to correct me initially, then he got to like it. He hadn't told me his name so I think I just made one up and convinced myself he'd told me it.

I only found out when he'd booked a table at a restaurant and had to tell me it was booked under his real name (real name? What do you mean, "real" name?).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to once we feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose when you click...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Moment we've clicked and are exchanging numbers can't exactly put chick from fab

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"When is the right time to ask their name?

Before initiating sexual contact, during the act itself, or post action?"
I found out a gentleman's name 7 years after we first had sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best find out their name before you let them jump on your carpet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have I done it wrong by putting my name in my bio then

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Moment we've clicked and are exchanging numbers can't exactly put chick from fab "

I have people listed under all sorts of names that aren't their real names!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting


"When is the right time to ask their name?

Before initiating sexual contact, during the act itself, or post action?"

I would have given that piece of information at the beginning.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I never ask, wait for it to be volunteered, there could be many reasons why someone might not want to give their proper name. I like to exchange names before a social though.

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan
over a year ago

reading

exchanging names seems as polite as exchanging bodily fluids.

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By *r Cram-BetweenMan
over a year ago

York, your bedroom or a club near you!


"My name is Sarah, same as it says on my profile.

I did once call a FB by the wrong name for almost 12 months. He didn't like to correct me initially, then he got to like it. He hadn't told me his name so I think I just made one up and convinced myself he'd told me it.

I only found out when he'd booked a table at a restaurant and had to tell me it was booked under his real name (real name? What do you mean, "real" name?). "

That's so funny

We play mostly in clubs and tends to be that we introduce ourselves afterwards quite often

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"Have I done it wrong by putting my name in my bio then "

No not at app, you've done what works well for you and been open about it. World would be a boring place if we all thought and did the same xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I done it wrong by putting my name in my bio then

No not at app, you've done what works well for you and been open about it. World would be a boring place if we all thought and did the same xT "

Phew….thank you for the reassurance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't normally ask their name if they give it to me,I am most likely have forgotten it by the time they have left.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We like to build a connection with someone so usually share names pretty early on, we're not into stranger meets.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I was meeting someone regularly for a few months before we both realised we didn't know each others real names.

I usually just go by Bo on here there's only a handful of people know my real name. And they are the only people who I know theirs as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll tell you so that you can use it appropriately

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"I don't normally ask their name if they give it to me,I am most likely have forgotten it by the time they have left. "
hahaha you sound like me

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By *lutForYou69Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I like to give my name out the moment someone looks at my profile title not sure why people are quite so paranoid about a first name I'm Tom and I imagine there is quite a lot of toms in the world I have nothing to hide and am very comfortable with the lifestyle I lead it's not illegal do any one can no my name."

It’s harder I guess if you’re name isn’t a common name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible with names

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Before meeting

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

People can introduce themselves without asking another for their name. When they feel comfortable, I find people share.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

When they tell you an anecdote and accidentally give away their real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met someone multiple times, at least 6 times, and we don’t know each other’s names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met someone multiple times, at least 6 times, and we don’t know each other’s names."

Maybe it was John?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I am gonna invite someone to spend some time in my body then i think at least an exchange of names is polite.

But at what point, before, during or after?"

Before..we like to have a conversation first to make sure they are not a complete plonker.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've always given my real name after we've chatted for a while, I wouldn't be able to remember a fake one.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"exchanging names seems as polite as exchanging bodily fluids."

Quite! Or telephone numbers! Getting their number is a must... I just feel safer knowing their phone number. If they refuse, then that's a deal breaker for me.

I save their number with their profile name, and that is when I ask them what name they'd like to be called, a Fab Name is fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When is the right time to ask their name?

Before initiating sexual contact, during the act itself, or post action?"

When you get the results from the GUM clinic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just before they carve it on the bedpost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just before they cum...lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's polite to get someone's name before they put their penis in you no? "

Don't think they follow this convention at glory holes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before they cum...lol x "

I can’t be doing with my name constantly being chanted to the rhythm to a Cozy Powell drum beat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's polite to get someone's name before they put their penis in you no?

Don't think they follow this convention at glory holes."

You could put it in a note and post it at the start or end?

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We usually give our names very early on during initial chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before they cum...lol x "

Everytime? Do I really have to call you on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Hopefully. Lol

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

There have been times when I have asked after carnal knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you're sat on their face pedaling their ears,

"soo, what's your name by the way"…

"mfhuumfmf"

"what"?…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been times when I have asked after carnal knowledge"

What's your name again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol before but I have had instances when the name came after or not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet someone for me automatically that I introduce with my name..

I think is a way to show your trust to the others and it is paying back by trust.

I'm more worrying that my web browser selling my data than anyone can hurt to know my name HAHA

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"There have been times when I have asked after carnal knowledge

What's your name again "

I’d remember that length

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been times when I have asked after carnal knowledge

What's your name again

I’d remember that length"

I'd remember those boobs

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Moment we've clicked and are exchanging numbers can't exactly put chick from fab

I have people listed under all sorts of names that aren't their real names! "

So you go by rating good banging bad terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to know their name to have a good time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I introduce myself with my name. I’m trying to talk to the human being, not the profile.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We would give our names if we are getting along on fab after a bit, but in a club we would introduce ourselves with our names as in any other social situation

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London, South East & Europe

It's pretty fucking hot to never know their name tbh

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

When it's your turn to shout out tonight Matthew I going to be

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Moment we've clicked and are exchanging numbers can't exactly put chick from fab

I have people listed under all sorts of names that aren't their real names!

So you go by rating good banging bad terrible "

More nicknames than anything. Massivecock Mike, Pete the Pounder, Racist Justin. They are all meaningful names to me!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't always need to know their real name, that's half the fun of Fab having an alias. I might tell people if they ask what mine is, most don't.

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a turn on not knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask and I don't give mine out untill I meet them face to face. Up until that point, I'm Sparkles.

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By *inTonic2018Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Never. It's irrelevant. "

We agree.

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