FabSwingers.com forum: A sub man? Not really.

By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Chatting to a long lost fabber and gorgeous human this evening, reminiscing over old times and ourselves and the subject of sub men came up.

I've been on the Fab and fet scene a VERY long time but gave up the fet part about five years ago for many reasons but the main one being that I became disillusioned and disappointed with sub men and the theatre that fet can sometimes be.

So he came up with the scenario of me taking him off to a dungeon somewhere and attempting to flog the brat out of him (he's far from sub) and my heart sank...until he then went on to say that he would reclaim his position by returning to me once dressed, grab my bum and shove his tongue down my throat.

Talk about swoon!!!!

So that's made me want to ask; for those couples in that sort of dynamic, does that happen for you? Does the man switch easily? Does the woman enjoy that differing personality trait?

Tops.