FabSwingers.com forum: Pet Peeves on Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it highly annoying when a couple or even a single woman, sends you a friend request, you fancy her so you add her and then when you message them, they don't even look at your message. Like really??? It doesn't happen often and it's the first time it has happened since setting up my new profile.

What are your pet peeves on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People keeping on when you already answered them.

Gets on my nerves, we just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The constant whining about stuff in status updates.

If it’s that bad on Fab, press the delete account button and be rid of the angst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People saying that they are straight but only want to meet their own sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of willy helicopters.

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By *zureEyesCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Passive aggressive profiles that have a list of dont's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of willy helicopters."

I’ll sort you one out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Couple profiles with no pics of the man, when they are after meeting other couples.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

All the women who don’t want to bone me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Couples’ profiles where all the pics and vids are of him wanking, taken by the guy.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Ramdom friends invite when they don't even send a message!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not reading our profile xx

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"Fed up now deleting account "

24hrs later

" hung lads for gang bang tonight "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that try and act like it’s a dating site

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Accounts that say "fill in later" when they've been on over a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People blocking for no reason. I can understand blocking someone obnoxious but blocking when you could have said "no thanks"/ "no worries good luck" is uncalled for.

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By *rucking-HellMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off. "

Haha. I think mine is just an honest we are here to fuck, let’s get to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site "

This. But even that is no bug deal to each their own. It is not a proper swinging site anymore though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ramdom friends invite when they don't even send a message!!!!"

This exactly ….why send a a friend invite if you’re never even said hello to me lol

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

"Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off.

Haha. I think mine is just an honest we are here to fuck, let’s get to it"

Very honest and to the point, refreshing to say the least. If only I was a bit nearer,,,,, and younger,,,,, quite a bit younger! lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off.

Haha. I think mine is just an honest we are here to fuck, let’s get to it"

Gets to the point and avoids confusion. Nothing more. Nice pics and profile. So all’s good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off. "

This is true 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People assuming you are free to meet them because they are free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The futile Sydney Uni thing.. legally means nothing and also the study is not a real thing. If it was it has been going on 10 years with no conclusion other than ‘Babs’ bad back means she doesn’t play but John’s elbow is playing so this means they’re just chatting”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People assuming you are free to meet them because they are free"

Is that assumption or hope? As the purpose of the site is to plan meets then it would be somewhat counter productive to assume nobody could

Meet.

Forward Planning helps though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People assuming you are free to meet them because they are free

Is that assumption or hope? As the purpose of the site is to plan meets then it would be somewhat counter productive to assume nobody could

Meet.

Forward Planning helps though. "

No, it’s usually a “I’m coming round” - no, you’re not!

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

People wanting discretion because they are a 'professional couple'. Presumably if you are a bus driver, supermarket checkout person, etc then discretion isn't as important.

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

Sending friend requests without a message and not having the face photos specially off the males on single and couples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People wanting discretion because they are a 'professional couple'. Presumably if you are a bus driver, supermarket checkout person, etc then discretion isn't as important."

Of course it is. But lack of discretion will impact a senior lawyer or similar a little more than a brickier a checkout worker. And senior ‘professionals’ tend to have highly visible public profiles, albeit limited to their sphere of work. You don’t see many till operators on linked in or the directors page of tesco’s website.

So it is all relative and horses for courses. But you’re right everyone deserves the same respect and discretion. It is just the consequences of breach that might be different for some va other. World’s changing no so not sure anyone gives a fk about swinging anyway.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

When people ignore the bio and ask what you're looking for

Guys sending friends request without even a message

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site "

That. Love it. Enjoyed your profile as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unverified members complaining about the vicious cycle of not being able to get verified because nobody meets the unverified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or people who say age is just a number. It isn’t just a number, it is also a preference

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By *omethingDifferent4FunWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh-ish

"Not reading our profile xx"

Yup, not bothering to read profile is a big bugbear. Asking a question that's answered if you'd read it or blatantly missing a preference (eg won't meet smokers) just wastes everyone's time and is lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site "

So, don't invite you to the cinema? Good to know

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By *ayarMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Basic lack of manners

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Lack of reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unverified members complaining about the vicious cycle of not being able to get verified because nobody meets the unverified

I haven't complained about this as yet, I suspect I'll have a few veris soon though- good things cum to those who wait

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Unverified members complaining about the vicious cycle of not being able to get verified because nobody meets the unverified

And what it exposes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

I have gotten quite a few of these from women. Sometimes they are incredibly impatient.

Normally I send a greeting msg if they don't reply, I leave it be and move on. Only twice since rejoining have I msged a woman after I saw she red and didn't reply, once was because I knew he person from another dating site and tje second because I was just being a little while and was replying to her status msg lol.

But basically my rule is don't double message or double text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles that have age 18-99 or "straight male" but looking for tv/to

The blatant copy and paste messages

"Your misses is fit" messages. Though, she is, to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you ssy you always do a social first or can't meet at short notice...and they keep messaging saying si can you meet tonight?

Really? Did you listen to anything i said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Profiles that have age 18-99 or "straight male" but looking for tv/to

The blatant copy and paste messages

"Your misses is fit" messages. Though, she is, to be fair

Lol

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

We get a kick out of this site....but the list of pet peeves is probably to long to list

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Whitchurch

"Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off.

Haha. I think mine is just an honest we are here to fuck, let’s get to it"

One of the most honest and best profile write ups on here, makes a change from the usual bs!

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By *orsetDaddyAndPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Ferndown

People who message you saying “want to chat?” but don’t actually chat.

People that ignore the male party when messaging a couple

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Single guys who mention they have wives or girlfriends in forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope none. I avoid most of them by only messaging people I want to meet.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Guys who are totally disrespectful in their messages..there is just no need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope no Pet Peeves we've learned to use them as a guide for blocking so the more people are themselves the better as it thee best filter on fab..

oh yes sorry one pet peeve is those who give consant profile advice ?? why ???? leave them be as again it an excellent filter

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"nope no Pet Peeves we've learned to use them as a guide for blocking so the more people are themselves the better as it thee best filter on fab..

oh yes sorry one pet peeve is those who give consant profile advice ?? why ???? leave them be as again it an excellent filter"
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This is mine too. I prefer to see someone's original profile rather than one they wrote to suit what others want.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

People Stating the bloody Obvious!! in answer to a question raised by the OP.

Simple Example

OP "Why do people like to meet in the evening?"

BO answers ...

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Each to their own"

"There is no Law against it"

"If you don't like it; move on."

If you have nothing more to contribute than a BO answer then please say nothing, don't state the bloody obvious.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

People moaning the can’t get a meet and have no photos and one line in their bio

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

People asking fab my photos..... Get a grip of your sad egotistical life

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"People Stating the bloody Obvious!! in answer to a question raised by the OP.

Simple Example

OP "Why do people like to meet in the evening?"

BO answers ...

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Each to their own"

"There is no Law against it"

"If you don't like it; move on."

If you have nothing more to contribute than a BO answer then please say nothing, don't state the bloody obvious.

And yet you just did

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

People whining about being blocked

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Conclusion jumpers

Generalisation sweepers

Sycophancy

Misogyny

Misandry

Ostriches

Magpies

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"People Stating the bloody Obvious!! in answer to a question raised by the OP.

Simple Example

OP "Why do people like to meet in the evening?"

BO answers ...

"Because they can"

"Personal preference"

"Each to their own"

"There is no Law against it"

"If you don't like it; move on."

If you have nothing more to contribute than a BO answer then please say nothing, don't state the bloody obvious.

And yet you just did

Lol! Well if we are moaning about Fab cliché they are going to be so ubiquitous they will apoear to be BO.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Or people who say age is just a number. It isn’t just a number, it is also a preference"

And I imagine that they fail to mention it, when they are the preferred age

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Hidden profiles that keep looking at you

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

Not reading profiles before sending a message. Most of the time the answer would have been there to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hidden profiles that keep looking at you

Hidden profiles that message you

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Profiles with 'NO RANDOM FRIEND REQUESTS WITHOUT CHATTING FIRST' who send you a random friend request without chatting first.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

When someone says they are a "professional" couple or "professional" male.

What a load of pretentious self proclaimed bollocks!

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Ramdom friends invite when they don't even send a message!!!!"
its good to talk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of humility.

Some threads seem to be just about self appreciation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone says they are a "professional" couple or "professional" male.

What a load of pretentious self proclaimed bollocks!"

But what if they are Lewis Collins or Martin Shaw ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who assume you're going to meet them because they're near or are staying in a hotel nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those women that constantly keep filling my inbox with foof and tit pics and fancy a fuck messages. It’s tiring having to mass delete every day.

Stimulate my mind ladies, you can send me your genital pics later!!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"When someone says they are a "professional" couple or "professional" male.

What a load of pretentious self proclaimed bollocks!

But what if they are Lewis Collins or Martin Shaw ? "

Ah but they would put a "The"

in front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or people who say age is just a number. It isn’t just a number, it is also a preference

And I imagine that they fail to mention it, when they are the preferred age

. "

Probably. They usually always say they are “young for their age”

If age is just a number then that sentence is redundant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messaging us when they clearly haven’t bothered to read out profile then getting arsey when we reply explaining why we won’t be meeting them.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"Hidden profiles that keep looking at you

Hidden profiles that message you

Yes that as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that won't /can't accept that I'm straight.

-Would be great if change my sexuality, like a light switch. I can't though. (Sadly.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples kicking the fuck off when I reply "sorry not interested".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The messages about being In your area and also the couples that the mrs is weirdly not available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The messages about being In your area and also the couples that the mrs is weirdly not available "

Obviously the “see who’s near” feature is probably great for some but getting a message saying “I’m less than a mile away” is a bit creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can i fuck her" messages

People who we have told no to and they message again on another account.

Couples profiles with only pics of the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting asked if I'm free now? Getting called a timewaster for not responding to a message quickly. Getting passive aggressive follow up messages. Guys not accepting a polite no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really getting on with someone and thinking they might be a potential good time before they pull out the "I need to tell you I've got a wife/gf who doesn't know I'm on here" card

seriously losing faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really getting on with someone and thinking they might be a potential good time before they pull out the "I need to tell you I've got a wife/gf who doesn't know I'm on here" card

seriously losing faith"

Lol! We get that a lot - "hope this doesn't change things!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The endless complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who quickly put other people down thinking that it will somehow elevate their standing with certain people that they are trying to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple messaging when you haven't answered.

Especially after I say I don't want to chat.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Loads of pet peeves here!

People not addressing us as a couple.

Persistant messaging when we are not interested.

People who message without reading our profile... Yes it's obvious

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None profile readers messaging

Best one was this ......

We placed a status several times over a few months stating we're not looking to meet, if we're seen online it's likely we're forum browsing, another stating we're not looking but leaving profile open for viewing because Mrs Cheeky is a little bit of an exhibitionist.

Anyway, we received a very blunt message saying thanks for keep letting them know that we're not looking to meet, why don't we put it in our profile instead.

He then blocked us before we could reply.

We have in our profile, three times mentioned we're not looking right now

Not reading our profile was why we uploaded the status that upset him, and he didn't read our profile

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

People not reading my profile, or almost even worse saying they have read my profile when they most definitely haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attempts to slut shame me when things don't go their way eg 'well you're just a slag anyway'

Guys that want more pics but don't have any of their own or just a couple of pics of their big toe

Guys that chase me for months wanting to meet then when I say yes they disappear/ghost/block

Disappearing/ghosting/blocking rather than communicate with me like a normal human being

Timwasters and narcissistic behaviour, guys having no intention of meeting, prob just having a wank but giving all the talk. So fucking boring!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"What are your pet peeves on fab? "

1) Men who won't read my profile and keep trying to get me to meet them alone. Sorry, just ain't happening.

2) The lack of BBWs here actually chatting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who message repeatedly like it's their first time messaging when you've already politely said no thanks many times, 3 strikes and a block rule now ha

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By *HoneyWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Haha brilliant

"Lack of willy helicopters."

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

1.The cliques.

2.Stupid self obsessed rate me questions.

3.People who think this is a dating site.

4.Who on fab would you…….why wouldn’t you just ask them,you’ve got you’re cock out online for all the world to see.

5.Profiles with a list of do’s and don'ts as long as my arm.

6.The perceived thought of finding perfection on a sex site.

7.The lack of respect and humility shown by people.

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By *ired_upMan
over a year ago

ashton

The amount of mails I have sent that have been opened but not replied to....I think my pet peeve is my own impatience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.The cliques.

2.Stupid self obsessed rate me questions.

3.People who think this is a dating site.

4.Who on fab would you…….why wouldn’t you just ask them,you’ve got you’re cock out online for all the world to see.

5.Profiles with a list of do’s and don'ts as long as my arm.

6.The perceived thought of finding perfection on a sex site.

7.The lack of respect and humility shown by people. "

Not many then

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Dripping pussy shots..... Yuk

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

"1.The cliques.

2.Stupid self obsessed rate me questions.

3.People who think this is a dating site.

4.Who on fab would you…….why wouldn’t you just ask them,you’ve got you’re cock out online for all the world to see.

5.Profiles with a list of do’s and don'ts as long as my arm.

6.The perceived thought of finding perfection on a sex site.

7.The lack of respect and humility shown by people.

Not many then

I’m having a moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dripping pussy shots..... Yuk "

Don’t look at our pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.The cliques.

2.Stupid self obsessed rate me questions.

3.People who think this is a dating site.

4.Who on fab would you…….why wouldn’t you just ask them,you’ve got you’re cock out online for all the world to see.

5.Profiles with a list of do’s and don'ts as long as my arm.

6.The perceived thought of finding perfection on a sex site.

7.The lack of respect and humility shown by people.

Not many then

I’m having a moment

We all have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste.

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

Straight guys who either do read our profile and still message or they haven't read it but still message.

Also blokes who message with "I'm in your area tonight" whoopee, like we're going to drop everything just to meet them

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn! "

Met a couple some years back, we were having a good time until he buggered off and put the TV on to watch Star Trek. His wife said to ignore him as he never misses an episode. It was extremely off-putting

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

WTF? Off putting, and rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the women who don’t want to bone me"

There in lies your problem, you’re supposed to bone them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

I don’t know, quite understandable if it was the original series?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every female profile written as a negative rant ranging from patronising passive aggression through to outright hostility. It's the biggest turn off.

Haha. I think mine is just an honest we are here to fuck, let’s get to it"

“Congratulations! You have just won FabSwingers!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

I don’t know, quite understandable if it was the original series?"

It depends how long ago ‘some years back’ is. It would have been understandable 10 years ago but we live in an age of catch up tv now so you can watch whatever you want to watch, when ever you want to watch it. I never watch live tv anymore and just watch everything at my own convenience through catch up apps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn! "

I’m glad this isn’t just me that I think wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Status lines which have the following narrative;

You know who you are.

Going to [place] say hi if you’re going

Roll on ............

Only [x] more sleeps until......

Going to GC or Cap say hi if

Anyone know of any good clubs

Friends list cull

Eat al

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

I don’t know, quite understandable if it was the original series?

They may have had a Betamax vcr which can only record on show at a time?

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By *unnyhunnyWoman
over a year ago

Forest of Dean

Definitely agree here, it's in my profile I don't reply I'm not interested...so many don't read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

I’m glad this isn’t just me that I think wtf

Again understandable if there was a guest appearance by Ann Widdicombe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to fab, so don’t really have pet peeves but a bit perplexed at how you get verifications if lots of people say they won’t meet with them…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste."

The grammar Nazis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to fab, so don’t really have pet peeves but a bit perplexed at how you get verifications if lots of people say they won’t meet with them…"

That doesn’t read right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Driving an hour to a meet, hanging around and then she goes quiet and doesn’t respond.

That’s my today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site

Is this not a dating site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site

Is this not a dating site ?"

I see it as a social media site for like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People that try and act like it’s a dating site

Is this not a dating site ?

I see it as a social media site for like minded people"

A recreational sex site perhaps?

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

When people wink you but their profile is hidden

When you politely decline an email approach but they take it as the start of a conversation

Guys messaging “hey sexy/beautiful/darling” presuming that Tani is opening the messages

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

When people comment on the “people who like ….” Threads To simply say they don’t like it.

Just pass by the thread if you don’t like it! Let the people who enjoy that thing comment.

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By *tainesMan
over a year ago

_taines

Snapchat filters!

If I wanted to fuck a rabbit I wouldn’t be on here ffs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

People saying they have read my profile..... ..

When clearly they haven't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mundane TV shows blaring away in the background of people’s home (or hotel) made video.

Listening to the One Show while we fuck does not give us the horn!

I don’t know, quite understandable if it was the original series?

They may have had a Betamax vcr which can only record on show at a time?"

Well that still would have been good enough to record the episode of Star Trek that was on at the time...

Betamax was just a bit before my time i think, either that or my parents couldn’t afford one, but I have fond memories of VHS. Setting it to record a programme but ending up recording the wrong channel or the correct channel at the wrong time....or even worse getting the channel and time correct but not rewinding the tape back far enough so it runs out and stops recording before the program’s finished, but obviously you don’t realise until you’re watching it back and fully engrossed only for it to stop playing before the end and you have no way of finding out how the program finishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people comment on the “people who like ….” Threads To simply say they don’t like it.

Just pass by the thread if you don’t like it! Let the people who enjoy that thing comment.

Doesn’t that defeat the objective of a forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to fab, so don’t really have pet peeves but a bit perplexed at how you get verifications if lots of people say they won’t meet with them…

That doesn’t read right?"

Yes, whoops, should’ve been “without”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

^ ^

This..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

^ ^

This.."

Would you want all guys to stop messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

^ ^

This..

Would you want all guys to stop messaging you?"

To me it seems obvious if you don't reply you aren't interested..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

^ ^

This..

Would you want all guys to stop messaging you?

To me it seems obvious if you don't reply you aren't interested.."

I see that cleared that up then, obviously.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Snapchat filters!

If I wanted to fuck a rabbit I wouldn’t be on here ffs "

Yep! And those filters that give a false impression of what people actually look like!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"When people comment on the “people who like ….” Threads To simply say they don’t like it.

Just pass by the thread if you don’t like it! Let the people who enjoy that thing comment.

Doesn’t that defeat the objective of a forum?"

No. There’s plenty of other threads to discuss and debate on.

If the OP posts something with a view to finding like minded people, it’s kind of clear they’re not asking for a debate.

Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snapchat filters!

If I wanted to fuck a rabbit I wouldn’t be on here ffs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sending a message, then following it up ten minutes later with "guess I'm not your type then".

^ ^

This..

Would you want all guys to stop messaging you?

To me it seems obvious if you don't reply you aren't interested.."

Women are always saying that they get loads of messages on here and it’s impossible to reply to them all so I’m never sure that if a woman doesn’t reply it’s because she’s overwhelmed with messages at the time or if it’s because she isn’t interested. Personally I prefer it when they delete the message because that’s a definite indication that they aren’t interested.

I very rarely message someone again if they don’t reply to my first message but occasionally I do if I really like the profile and think we could be a good match, I always apologise for the double message when I do it. There have been a few times when I’ve got a reply to the second message and we’ve started chatting from that point forward.

I don’t think it’s fair to say that no reply obviously means the person isn’t interested as there could be a number of reasons why they didn’t reply, maybe they had to log off in a rush and intended to reply another time but forgot or they were in a conversation with someone else at the time and intended to reply when they were free to chat but forgot to.

I would never follow up an unanswered message within a couple of minutes saying something as passive aggressive as ‘so I guess I’m not your type then’ and I can see why that would be annoying but i don’t think it’s realistic to assume that by not replying to a message you’re giving a definite and obvious indication that you aren’t interested.

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By *atty39Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Lack of willy helicopters."
ha ha this comment wins

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste.

The grammar Nazis "

People who don't know the difference between:

1. There, their, they're

2. know , no

3. hear, here

4. accept, except

5. affect, effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste.

The grammar Nazis

People who don't know the difference between:

1. There, their, they're

2. know , no

3. hear, here

4. accept, except

5. affect, effect

Also

Your and you’re

Discreet and discrete...........

Bored and board

Role and Roll

And

The complete disregard of some to spelling, grammar and comprehension.

As Oscar Wilde once said

“How could I take anyone to my bed with such a poor grasp of grammar”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people comment on the “people who like ….” Threads To simply say they don’t like it.

Just pass by the thread if you don’t like it! Let the people who enjoy that thing comment.

Doesn’t that defeat the objective of a forum?

No. There’s plenty of other threads to discuss and debate on.

If the OP posts something with a view to finding like minded people, it’s kind of clear they’re not asking for a debate.

Live and let live

Are you saying different opinions are vulgar and the Fab society should have the same opinion? What an Orwellian picture you paint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications.

I long to read a verification where

The cock was not very suck able

The pussy was neither juicy nor tight

They didn’t come in seconds

No legs were shaking

They were left wanting more

......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications.

I long to read a verification where

The cock was not very suck able

The pussy was neither juicy nor tight

They didn’t come in seconds

No legs were shaking

They were left wanting more

......

Yes agreed.. it’s always “the best BJ ever” and he’s always “a chilled and laid back guy”

We also get annoyed by profiles that say NOT CURRENTLY MEETING yet they’re online 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste.

The grammar Nazis

People who don't know the difference between:

1. There, their, they're

2. know , no

3. hear, here

4. accept, except

5. affect, effect

Yes!!!

Also:

Lose/Loose

Fuck/fuk

Pussy/pusey

Drives us mad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winkers with hidden profiles.

Messages when they've seen you're online and then follow up shortly after with a "guess you're not interested then as you didn't reply" - very often we don't reply unless we're both able to which can take a day or two!

When they initiate contact and after a few messages suggest to arrange a social/meet but they are never able to suggest a time or date as they can't be free.

People (both single men and couples) who message a couple who only address K (the female half).

When the first message is short and crude.

Couples who keep uploading the same "new" photos and then deleting them over and over again. Also couples who keep uploading "new" photos which are all 10+ years old.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

First message is "hey, im nearby wanna meet later?". Like, yeah ok lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures that show miniging gaffs.

Who would put up a picture with poorly painted skirting boards ........I mean come on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First message is "hey, im nearby wanna meet later?". Like, yeah ok lol."

Actually I am and would you?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"When people comment on the “people who like ….” Threads To simply say they don’t like it.

Just pass by the thread if you don’t like it! Let the people who enjoy that thing comment.

Doesn’t that defeat the objective of a forum?

No. There’s plenty of other threads to discuss and debate on.

If the OP posts something with a view to finding like minded people, it’s kind of clear they’re not asking for a debate.

Live and let live

Are you saying different opinions are vulgar and the Fab society should have the same opinion? What an Orwellian picture you paint!"

That is absolutely not what I’m saying.

have a lovely Sunday! I’m going to debate over my dinner with family! So much bloody debating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people comment on the “people who like ….” Threads To simply say they don’t like it.

Just pass by the thread if you don’t like it! Let the people who enjoy that thing comment.

Doesn’t that defeat the objective of a forum?

No. There’s plenty of other threads to discuss and debate on.

If the OP posts something with a view to finding like minded people, it’s kind of clear they’re not asking for a debate.

Live and let live

Are you saying different opinions are vulgar and the Fab society should have the same opinion? What an Orwellian picture you paint!

That is absolutely not what I’m saying.

have a lovely Sunday! I’m going to debate over my dinner with family! So much bloody debating. "

Excellent

Remember to pass on anything that you don’t like!

Are you having breast for dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications.

I long to read a verification where

The cock was not very suck able

The pussy was neither juicy nor tight

They didn’t come in seconds

No legs were shaking

They were left wanting more

......

Yes agreed.. it’s always “the best BJ ever” and he’s always “a chilled and laid back guy”

We also get annoyed by profiles that say NOT CURRENTLY MEETING yet they’re online 24/7"

They may be voyeurs

Chatting to friends

Exhibitionists

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By *iniskirtcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln + roadtrips

"Pictures that show miniging gaffs.

Who would put up a picture with poorly painted skirting boards ........I mean come on?"

Know what you mean but...

Some of our skirting probably hasn't been painted for over 50 years. It has that genuine 'distressed' patina that is so in vogue in fashion, music and furniture photoshoots.

However, our gaff certainly doesn't ming. It just looks very old - because it is.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Verifications.

I long to read a verification where

The cock was not very suck able

The pussy was neither juicy nor tight

They didn’t come in seconds

No legs were shaking

They were left wanting more

......

Yes agreed.. it’s always “the best BJ ever” and he’s always “a chilled and laid back guy”

We also get annoyed by profiles that say NOT CURRENTLY MEETING yet they’re online 24/7"

I'm not currently meeting but still using the site to chat with friends...

What's wrong with that??

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste.

The grammar Nazis

People who don't know the difference between:

1. There, their, they're

2. know , no

3. hear, here

4. accept, except

5. affect, effect

Also

Your and you’re

Discreet and discrete...........

Bored and board

Role and Roll

And

The complete disregard of some to spelling, grammar and comprehension.

As Oscar Wilde once said

“How could I take anyone to my bed with such a poor grasp of grammar”

We have almost the complete list

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Not reading ones profile and then asking inane questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not reading ones profile and then asking inane questions."

Please give an example of an inane question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile photos with a background of detritus and empty cans of cheap lager in the background.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s getting to be fab.

Time to leave me thinks?

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"Profile photos with a background of detritus and empty cans of cheap lager in the background.....

Definitely this but also….

Socks - take ‘em off

Pics of cocks clearly taken whilst sat on the loo taking a dump

Plus, not so much a peeve just astounded by the types of comments made by single fellas in the cam rooms e.g. “does she take it up the shitter?” And they wonder why no one talks to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste messages

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Lack of busty nymphos asking to meet me ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad manners and pushy people. If we say no we will not relent.

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By *odieCI5Man
over a year ago

Solihull

The whole daddy thing, bit sick really

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"The whole daddy thing, bit sick really "

Absolutely! Makes me cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slut shaming, kink shaming, the fab police who try to take moral highground if something isn’t to their own taste.

The grammar Nazis

People who don't know the difference between:

1. There, their, they're

2. know , no

3. hear, here

4. accept, except

5. affect, effect

Also

Your and you’re

Discreet and discrete...........

Bored and board

Role and Roll

And

The complete disregard of some to spelling, grammar and comprehension.

As Oscar Wilde once said

“How could I take anyone to my bed with such a poor grasp of grammar”

We have almost the complete list

Also loose instead of lose..

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"The whole daddy thing, bit sick really "

Totally agree as does the son /nephew thing yuck yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes those fetishes are a little odd to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The whole daddy thing, bit sick really "

Why is it? It’s a kink and people should be allowed to explore their kinks in a whatever way they choose as like as it is suitable for all involved

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Not reading our profile xx"

"Single guys who mention they have wives or girlfriends in forum posts. "

Also when messaging as if a couple.

- Arranging to meet and then going cold.

- Silhouettes!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Kink shaming on a swinging site

Oh and profiles that have "legal" statements longer than their actual "about me"

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a forum where opinions are expressed and debated.

The green arrow reveals a lot!

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over a year ago

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