FabSwingers.com forum: No Show

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there something wrong with me?

Seems every time I agree to meet with someone, they ghost me or stand me up.

I don't mean once or twice, literally every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing the people you’re in touch with, or the circumstances surrounding the no shows, it difficult to say if it’s you or not.

Are you arranging with people who are verified? Are you certain of who you’re in conversation with? Are there similarities in behaviour before your ghosted that could serve as a red flag to you?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's hard to know why they ghosted /stood you up op, but sorry this is happening.

Try not to chat about sex with anyone, some just want to get themselves off and neve intend meeting.

Are they verified women/couples you're speaking to? , there's many men pretending to ve women or couples, again to get themselves off.

Public socials can also out those who aren't really looking to meet.

Please report those profiles who do this to admin (the standing you up ones) as this isn't fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope just the nature of fab unfortunately.

Someone call ghostbusters.. caspers, caspers everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not again mate..

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

" Someone call ghostbusters.. caspers, caspers everywhere."

Slimers more like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ain't afraid of no Ghosts!"

But yeahh, people be like that nowadays I'm afraid. The internet has many pro's, but ghosting with no consequences is one of the cons you just have to deal with

Their loss anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Without knowing the people you’re in touch with, or the circumstances surrounding the no shows, it difficult to say if it’s you or not.

Are you arranging with people who are verified? Are you certain of who you’re in conversation with? Are there similarities in behaviour before your ghosted that could serve as a red flag to you?"

Verified by others and I know they're whom they say they are as we have been messaging offline too

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

Were you meeting a girl or a couple or a guy? In our experience, guys tend to be the worst followed by single girls and couples (even after we've spoken to them and everything).

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Lol happens all the time mate, also people that show interest then suddenly ghost

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Don't assume all profiles are genuine on Fab. You may think you're messaging a Woman or a couple, but they may not be. If you arrange to meet someone well verified they're far more likely to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were you meeting a girl or a couple or a guy? In our experience, guys tend to be the worst followed by single girls and couples (even after we've spoken to them and everything)."

Single woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't assume all profiles are genuine on Fab. You may think you're messaging a Woman or a couple, but they may not be. If you arrange to meet someone well verified they're far more likely to turn up."

She is verified by at least 4 different people

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

She is verified by at least 4 different people"

She might be genuine. Be aware though there're loads of fake veris. We were messaged by a rather attractive Woman who had 5 verifications, one a verified couple. A reverse image search showed she was an American model, not a Birmingham hotwife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you arrange an actual meet or just spoke about it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there something wrong with me?

Seems every time I agree to meet with someone, they ghost me or stand me up.

I don't mean once or twice, literally every time"

Nothing wrong with you mate.

Tbh it says more about the Flakes,no shows,late arrives.

Always remember. Look at people's actions!! Not what they say.

Walk away now. And give time to those whom give you time and value and respect!

This fab journey can be harmful longterm.

Peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope just the nature of fab unfortunately.

Someone call ghostbusters.. caspers, caspers everywhere."

Ditto

Way too many.. growing problem for genuine. Its been flooded the past Yr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without knowing the people you’re in touch with, or the circumstances surrounding the no shows, it difficult to say if it’s you or not.

Are you arranging with people who are verified? Are you certain of who you’re in conversation with? Are there similarities in behaviour before your ghosted that could serve as a red flag to you?

Verified by others and I know they're whom they say they are as we have been messaging offline too"

Set them free. And yourself free!

Or they will take up space in your head.

When people do what they do.

No 2nd chances..

Say you did that to all have done to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were you meeting a girl or a couple or a guy? In our experience, guys tend to be the worst followed by single girls and couples (even after we've spoken to them and everything)."

Agreed. Way too much choice in London. Cold feet. Mind games. Etc etc .

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

If it's one woman who keeps doing it, don't allow her to do it again. Block her.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We've had single women claim great interest, friend us just to see our friends pics then all further messages ignored. Lots of ignorant/rude folk on here now. Better than false addresses, false pics, not answering front door, female not present or just damn weirdos (yes had them all too)

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"Nope just the nature of fab unfortunately.

Someone call ghostbusters.. caspers, caspers everywhere."

Yep its the land of promise and dreams shame there are so many that don't manage to convert their dreams into reality their loss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"did you arrange an actual meet or just spoke about it ?

We agreed to actually meet. Twice, on Thurs night and on Friday

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

This sounds like a teasing/scumbag scammer.

Who thinks its funny to lead on single men.

Your prob the 100th person.

Helpful info.

Me I will not agree a meet

Unless

Phone No messages 1st

Photos Face/body/private area.

Will not exchange and simple its BYE BYE block.

After all they are on FAB and should share IMPO.

I'm not that desperate so I'm happy to wait.

Enjoy BigT

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