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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I've really been looking into my bi side more recently. Would love to hear from the ladies who like to watch and join in on some guy on guy action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you’d love to meet women to push your Bi curious side....surely it would be more effective to meet men for that?

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Not really as I have no interest in meeting men 1 on 1. I'm only interested if the encouragement is coming from the ladies

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By *exyMPCouple
over a year ago

SOUTHEND-ON-SEA

Hey, I love watching guy on guy fun.

He was straight but now he's bi...

Sounds like a song lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says you’d love to meet women to push your Bi curious side....surely it would be more effective to meet men for that?"

Probably means "If I act like I'm Bisexual, I'll hopefully attract more female attention" hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I love watching guy on guy fun.

He was straight but now he's bi...

Sounds like a song lol"

Is it possible for someone to change from being straight to being bi? Surely he was also bi, even before he started exploring being sexual with men. Or do you not consider a man to be bi if he’s only been with women but has desires to be with men as well?

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Pretty pathetic if you ask me for saying that, my preference is exactly what it is. I don't have feelings for men in the way of love it's just sex. That's why I like women who love bi guys.

I'd put myself down as hetexible if this site had more options but I'm definitely not exactly bi as I'd never have a relationship with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says you’d love to meet women to push your Bi curious side....surely it would be more effective to meet men for that?

Probably means "If I act like I'm Bisexual, I'll hopefully attract more female attention" hahaha "

Haha, that’s what I was getting at but was trying to be subtle haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty pathetic if you ask me for saying that, my preference is exactly what it is. I don't have feelings for men in the way of love it's just sex. That's why I like women who love bi guys.

I'd put myself down as hetexible if this site had more options but I'm definitely not exactly bi as I'd never have a relationship with a man. "

That doesn’t explain why you don’t want to meet men 1 on 1, if you like sex with men then surely you’d be up for meeting them without an women being present.

I’m not accusing you of anything as you’re free to do whatever you want and to choose who you do and don’t meet. I’m just trying to fully understand what it is you’re looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd put myself down as hetexible if this site had more options but I'm definitely not exactly bi as I'd never have a relationship with a man. "

That's actually a really decent response, that's fair enough

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Pretty pathetic if you ask me for saying that, my preference is exactly what it is. I don't have feelings for men in the way of love it's just sex. That's why I like women who love bi guys.

I'd put myself down as hetexible if this site had more options but I'm definitely not exactly bi as I'd never have a relationship with a man.

That doesn’t explain why you don’t want to meet men 1 on 1, if you like sex with men then surely you’d be up for meeting them without an women being present.

I’m not accusing you of anything as you’re free to do whatever you want and to choose who you do and don’t meet. I’m just trying to fully understand what it is you’re looking for. "

Sorry that was for the undead guy.

When meeting with a man 1 on 1 I find it much more intimate and its just not for me, I get off on a women who loves watching two guys go at it.

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I'd put myself down as hetexible if this site had more options but I'm definitely not exactly bi as I'd never have a relationship with a man.

That's actually a really decent response, that's fair enough "

Thank you. The site is so limited on options here and fets search and communication abilities are dire. Both sites need to come into the 21st century

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty pathetic if you ask me for saying that, my preference is exactly what it is. I don't have feelings for men in the way of love it's just sex. That's why I like women who love bi guys.

I'd put myself down as hetexible if this site had more options but I'm definitely not exactly bi as I'd never have a relationship with a man.

That doesn’t explain why you don’t want to meet men 1 on 1, if you like sex with men then surely you’d be up for meeting them without an women being present.

I’m not accusing you of anything as you’re free to do whatever you want and to choose who you do and don’t meet. I’m just trying to fully understand what it is you’re looking for.

Sorry that was for the undead guy.

When meeting with a man 1 on 1 I find it much more intimate and its just not for me, I get off on a women who loves watching two guys go at it. "

Ok, I understand, thanks for explaining.

You should maybe explain that on your profile as it does come across like you’re saying you’re bi sexual to engage the interest of women and that may put couples off.

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By *exyMPCouple
over a year ago

SOUTHEND-ON-SEA


"Hey, I love watching guy on guy fun.

He was straight but now he's bi...

Sounds like a song lol

Is it possible for someone to change from being straight to being bi? Surely he was also bi, even before he started exploring being sexual with men. Or do you not consider a man to be bi if he’s only been with women but has desires to be with men as well?"

What !! So are you saying that everyone is bi really ?

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Thanks for the tip I will rewrite my profile tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I love watching guy on guy fun.

He was straight but now he's bi...

Sounds like a song lol

Is it possible for someone to change from being straight to being bi? Surely he was also bi, even before he started exploring being sexual with men. Or do you not consider a man to be bi if he’s only been with women but has desires to be with men as well?

What !! So are you saying that everyone is bi really ? "

No, of course I’m not saying that. What I’m saying is that if a man is attracted to men and women but has only ever been sexual with women then he is still bi because he’s attracted to men and women. He’s not straight until he is sexual with a man as well and then becomes bi when he first has sex with a man.

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

But I'm not attracted to men this is what I'm saying. Sure I'll suck a dick and take one in the arse but I don't kiss men as I find kissing intimate where as oral and sex is just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I'm not attracted to men this is what I'm saying. Sure I'll suck a dick and take one in the arse but I don't kiss men as I find kissing intimate where as oral and sex is just sex"

Ok, that’s cool but not really related to what I said. I was replying to sexyMP asking me if I was saying that everyone is bi.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"But I'm not attracted to men this is what I'm saying. Sure I'll suck a dick and take one in the arse but I don't kiss men as I find kissing intimate where as oral and sex is just sex"

Have you had a bi experience yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys start this way until they get comfortable. It's a shame they aren't more honest about being bi as it doesn't have the stigma that it used to

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Mrs N here. I really enjoy watching bi guy fun. I have actively encouraged my husband to play with other men and I love to sit back and watch. I love watching him play the part of a bottom x

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"But I'm not attracted to men this is what I'm saying. Sure I'll suck a dick and take one in the arse but I don't kiss men as I find kissing intimate where as oral and sex is just sex

Have you had a bi experience yet?"

Yes I've had a few and they've all been with ladies present. I suppose maybe for this site bi is the correct label for me but its not how I feel. To me bi is someone who could have a relationship with either sex. I just don't look at sex as intimacy it's primal for me. Where as kissing cuddling care and affection are a much deeper connection.

Probably sounds strange to a lot of people

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Mrs N here. I really enjoy watching bi guy fun. I have actively encouraged my husband to play with other men and I love to sit back and watch. I love watching him play the part of a bottom x"
great stuff that's exactly how I like to be, question for you Mrs N does he meet men on his own at all?

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By *harlie chesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

If someone would like to be pegged, is that exploring your bi side?

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"If someone would like to be pegged, is that exploring your bi side? "
Probably.

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By *pexKinkster OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I wouldn't say so, it's between a man and a women and to me there's nothing gay/bi putting things in your arse. Just so happens to be our g spot is up the arse, cannot help biology.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I wouldn't say so, it's between a man and a women and to me there's nothing gay/bi putting things in your arse. Just so happens to be our g spot is up the arse, cannot help biology. "
Did I say the word gay? I said it was exploring, If you go up a mountain to explore does that make you a mountaineer?

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