FabSwingers.com forum: Single males profile and where they do wrong

By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lately i have notice that single males post in forums "whats wrong with my profile?" so i decided to post this thread instead and maybe help to improve their profile.

Who's in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for some advice on mine OP

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By *pottydog46Man
over a year ago

rainham

Me too

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm in as well for some honest opinion

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By *uper SaiyanMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Im in but then im pretty sure the answers will be contradictory

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Happy for some advice on mine OP

Coming from a single male I am not qualified to give you any advice lmao even my profile might have loads of wrong things on it! I'm sure a couple or a female will turn up on this thread and will give you an advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to help if I can

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Im in but then im pretty sure the answers will be contradictory"

(Shrug shoulders)

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Need all the help I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seeking advice is where they go wrong all it does is give you a boring profile like all the others that ask .... be you only you know you only you know what you want and accept that there is only one real problem for all guys and thats there a zillions of you..

also dont ever forget the forums are a very very tiny part of fab and a even more smaller part of the scence most of those that meet in real life dont rvrn bother with the forums they are the ones you have to stand out too ....

be yourself op let people chat to you because they see something they like dont become yet another boring advice profile...

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Might not always be about the profile,but how they approach via message trying to connect with those who don't fit their requirements.if Unable to connect online how difficult would it be for a person away from online must be similar.but if a person has a natural way part of their lives don't have the same issues

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"seeking advice is where they go wrong all it does is give you a boring profile like all the others that ask .... be you only you know you only you know what you want and accept that there is only one real problem for all guys and thats there a zillions of you..

be yourself op let people chat to you because they see something they like dont become yet another boring advice profile..."

Thank you so much for your advice and I really appreciate the effort for taking your time to reply on this forum.

I think we all have seen a single male on here asking "what's wrong with my profile " or something like that and, and just earlier through some posts on the forum I have noticed a guy asking this and getting a reply , I quote:"You list safe sex, but have a bb on profile"

I don't have a issue with my profile and I'm neither an unsecure person , I was just trying to do something good and I honestly think that your comment can be really helpful for everyone

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Think most is too much competition it’s more blokes than lady’s or couples on here

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By *ettieAndIrvingMan
over a year ago

Derby

I'm in. Always good to learn.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Think most is too much competition it’s more blokes than lady’s or couples on here "

Wouldn't agree because if someone really likes each other anything happens the amount of guys doesn't have a impact because even if it was a balanced amount of both guys would most likely still complain no one replies to their message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy…. Totally the wrong place to be for me…..but it’s still fun and a lot more boobs than Fb dating/tinder…… so I’ll stay

Any constructive feedback is always welcome….

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Happy for some advice on mine OP

Nowt wrong with yours x

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By *eraint33Man
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Always open to critique and advice. Come at me haha

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Happy for some advice on mine OP

Nowt wrong with yours x

Thank you

I meant the bearded guy but nowt wrong with yours either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for someone to write mine for me…

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By *iceGuyNick OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Glad I could delete the message

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

IMO, your profile should:

- give a feel for what you are looking for

- give a feel for what you can offer a potential partner

- most importantly, open up a small window into your personality. eg if your tagline is "fun guy looking....", then use your profile to demonstrate you're fun!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Glad I could delete the message

Your cute xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"IMO, your profile should:

- give a feel for what you are looking for

- give a feel for what you can offer a potential partner

- most importantly, open up a small window into your personality. eg if your tagline is "fun guy looking....", then use your profile to demonstrate you're fun! "

I like this reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happy for some advice on mine OP

Nowt wrong with yours x"

Thank you lovely

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Happy for some advice on mine OP

Nowt wrong with yours x

Thank you lovely

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of your bio you should just give a brief intro who you are and things like

what you like (what you're into)

who or what you're interested in

your dont's

Think of it like what would someone like to know about you if they want to meet you? They would probably want to know if you can accommodate, how free/flexible you are. Do you practice safe sex, are you STD free?

My bio is very detailed.

Now unto looks, for me looks is about 75% of it because I'm sure you notice women and couples ask to see a face pic, because they want to see if you're attractive in their eyes. Be honest with yourself and make an effort, hit the gym, change your appearance a bit, you don't have to do something drastic but just present yourself better.

Women love fantasies, they love to see their fantasies in real life and if you can come close to providing that for them then you're more than halfway there.

See this time it wasn't completely shallow lol

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Most of you need to improve your bios. 2 lines isn’t going to make anyone interested and improve your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I’ve done a short survey of the reasons why they chose not to message me. Here is some feedback:

- Not my type

- your verifications are with curvy girls, I’m tall and leggy so I’m not your type. I prefer someone more selective.

- too old

- too young

- too far

- we don’t have the same interests

- mess pants are a no no.

- too much kink

- too little kink

In short lads it’s pot luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve done a short survey of the reasons why they chose not to message me. Here is some feedback:

- Not my type

- your verifications are with curvy girls, I’m tall and leggy so I’m not your type. I prefer someone more selective.

- too old

- too young

- too far

- we don’t have the same interests

- mess pants are a no no.

- too much kink

- too little kink

In short lads it’s pot luck! "

True story…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of you need to improve your bios. 2 lines isn’t going to make anyone interested and improve your photos. "

So a complete 100% overhaul then.

I’ll do it tomorrow.

I do agree with the 2 lines thing completely. How the hell anyone can think they could get along with a stranger by reading less than 2 words about them is beyond me.

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